July 16/17th  

Muse35 47F
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7/16/2006 11:36 pm

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7/22/2006 12:21 pm

July 16/17th

Ok I was in the chat room last night having a discussion about sex in general or the underlying idea of it and how men can achieve it from women. It seems to me that there is a great lack of something missing from people these days, i'm not sure if its common sense or something that goes deeper than that.

I've always said that its not hard to get/have sex with someone if all the stars are aligned so to speak.
That being here's a few tips for the men on this site that DO come into the chat room:
Be polite - if someone asks you a question answer it, chances are if you ignore the question you will loose that person's interest and if they ask you again apologize for not seeing it
Be curteous - especially if you are seeking the affections of a couple, you're not dealing with just one person you have two to consider and if they do choose you they set the ground rules
Show us your personality - in this day and age of technology, especially in a chat room we are lacking the non verbal messages that happen in real life, tell a joke (humor is always appreciated) ask a question (shows interest)
Show respect - even though this is the cyber world we all deserve respect, people even though they are just a nicname on here with a whole lot of animity still need/crave/want respect, you will more than likely be black listed if you don't show it
The best way to garner interest in yourself is not by proclaiming "i have 9" on cam" granted that WILL garner you interest but of a fickle nature. It is best when entering a chat room to state your age, sex and location at least those in your area will have an idea of who is close to them.
Because not everyone is looking for the same thing take into consideration the way you refuse someone, if you're going to be an idiot you're going to be treated as such.
till next time.....

bingybongy 54M

7/17/2006 12:23 am

Oh my dear Muse....

Your comments above are not just applicable to chatting on an internet site, they are applicable to


I meet so many people who have had personality by-passes and who wouldn't know how to be polite if their lives depended on it.

If this is the start of a crusade on your part - sign me up!!! I will be one of your knights!!!

Muse35 47F

7/17/2006 9:42 pm

lol ty bingybongy.....it just seems that there is a great lack of common sense out there in the real world ......that and BAD customer service....i keep saying i'm going to start posting the bad service on a web site but haven't figured out how to get around being charged with slander....

bingybongy 54M

7/18/2006 12:54 am


Re: Avoiding being sued for slander (or is it libel, seeing as it's in written form?), I think as long as you miss out the following key words, nobody will be looking anyway:


So the following sentence (for example) would NOT be recommended:

"I ran into Al, who was laden down with a bin full of Lebanon peanuts".

Shit!!!! The thought police are already knocking on my door!!!!

I'll be with you right away, Mr Bush........

Muse35 47F

7/22/2006 12:21 pm

LOL .....interesting spin on the words but seeing as we are IN CANADA i wouldn't think that it would affect us....could be wrong tho has happened before!
Bad Service Sucks and if you are a business owner and reading this GET AFTER YOUR STAFF remember your customers are what makes or breaks you!

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