What is the best way to attract someone on AFF  

Muscular4two 47M
14 posts
6/20/2005 8:23 pm

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What is the best way to attract someone on AFF

I haven't been on here long but I have always had that question. What attracts a women to a guys profile? I'm not big on words I prefer my actions to speak for me. I have always kept my email's short and to the point (read above). I'm a decent looking guy and I'm in decent shape and getting better everyday. I took 4 months off from the gym and man I'm working my ass off to get back to where I was.

It would be great if I could get some feed back on the above. let me know your thoughts on this whole thing.


hotandhorny107 58F

6/20/2005 11:03 pm

For me it is usually something that just clicks. Hard to put a finger on it though. When I first signed on here I was flooded with responses and had to sort through them. I chose sort primarily by location and age. Face/body photos were more important that photos of a penis. Complete profiles were important, since I prefer to see single/divorced men. Just less complicated and I want to keep things simple. But no one thing attracted me. It is after all the whole package that works together to make things good.

flaashnow 105M

6/20/2005 11:21 pm

Well Muscular4two, that is a question that I have been wondering at times too. Maybe the good ladies will clue us in on a tip or two. It seems that most of the ladies that I have met expect us guys to read between the lines too much. Hell, we're guys, stop the suttle approach and tell us straight. LOL take care

Muscular4two 47M
6 posts
6/21/2005 6:08 am

Thanks TRB,
I try to put my personality in everything I do but with this type of medium it can get misinterpreted quite easily. The prob is that everyone on here puts so much emphasis on looks and not necessarily what the person is like.

There has to be more information from the ladies out there. it would be cool to get a lot more replies from women.

alabamabigurl 61M/45F

6/22/2005 6:02 am

I, for one, am not really into looks. I prefer what is on the inside to what is on the outside. Although looks can be important, I tend to go with what is in the inside. Good luck in your search.

Muscular4two 47M
6 posts
6/22/2005 6:11 pm

TRB, not really sure yet. just testing what's out there. definately not looking for a relationship right now, just got out of one a couple of months ago. Bigger circle of friends perhaps and some fun along the way.

I really have no expectations for this site, come on it's called "Adult" friend finder.

Again thanks for your comments.

Muscular4two 47M
6 posts
6/23/2005 6:25 pm

Hi sexy,

Well there is only so much you can do with a camera alone lol. I'll try to improve that picture for you. Still working on my abbs so may have to wait a week or 2 ;p

voyeurs69in2003 68M/54F  
318 posts
7/8/2005 6:30 pm

What is that stick on the right side of your picture Muscular4two of us?

Muscular4two 47M
6 posts
7/9/2005 11:20 pm

Voyer.. It's all for you.. now if only I knew what you were talking about lol

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