Why?  

Munchonme69 36F
18 posts
10/15/2005 9:18 am

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1/9/2009 8:25 am

Why?


I'm a single female from Newfoundland. I have a friend that I play with from time to time, but we also see other people. If one of us is seeing/busy we won't have as much contact, but then we seem to always come together again. We are often lookng for women to join us, and make contcats that say they're intersted and then dissappear or blow us off.......Why do women do this? If you say yes, then mean it, and follow through, if you're not sure or are hesitant from the initial contact, then just say NO!

rm_mojomike 50M
45 posts
10/15/2005 3:25 pm

it's sad to say that people can not commit to being outright and honest. I find that if I get a wink, I reply by email asking them what they found in my profile that they liked. This opens up a better dialog. it also helps reduce the people that hit you with the blow off.

best of luck

Mojomike


rm_sub_xero 32M

10/30/2005 10:41 pm

ya I know what you mean and it suck, but I don't see who would turn you down


bbwbirdie 50F

11/4/2005 9:08 pm

I find this with most online, well I have only had men but they seem to want to talk about it but when it comes down to it they are only playing around, thinking of the thrill but haven't got the balls to come through on it. Hard when you've made the effort to do it and they shrug it off.


NLsappho 42F

11/22/2005 1:06 pm

have not really had the chance to respond to you before now and for some reason I can't email you now. I would have my arm twisted for a threesome very easily these days. Email me if you wish.
Hope you realize though that we know each other.


dragonstealth 56M

11/24/2005 8:42 am

The age old query of whether men or women are less committal in respects to their caring towards relationships is entirely proven in your problem.Unfortunately the sexes are really egual and to your detriment supplied with the same lack of emotional morality that would theoretically complete monogamy.I feel for you and offer the simple advice that sooner or later you will find someone of enough bearing to love you for you for an eternity.Take care,Damien.


_Itried2_ 46M
1 post
2/1/2011 7:37 pm

Seems as if both men and woman are in simular boats when it comes to activities like this. Once you start a conversation it doesnt take long for those who are not serious to avoid the topic of carrying things further then just online.

Too bad, so much fun to be had.


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