Is it cheating?  

Mrtribent 48M
13 posts
11/27/2005 5:37 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is it cheating?

I am married and playing with my wife's permision. Is that considered cheating? We have each agreed that we will see others so long as we realize that our true commitment is to each other. I have always thought of cheating as involving deception. In our case there is no deception, if I want to see someone else I tell her about it and likewise for her. But I wonder what others might think. Oh well if we are happy with it who cares what anyone else thinks.


Two4YouinLA 57M/63F

11/27/2005 7:29 pm

Hello Mrtribent...

Your right in saying that if your happy who cares. But if you weren't curious about others opinions you wouldn't have posted a blog like this. Have the two of you thought about venturing out *together*? I am curious what has brought the two of you to going it alone out there. Part of marriage for most of us that have been doing it for a number of years, is the fact that we still have a desire for one another. What is it about *getting some strange* that make couples such as you go looking alone? The most erotic part of bringing others into our bedroom is watching my mate with another woman. And he feels the same about watching me with another man, or another woman. This isn't cheating in my opinion...its sharing. Good luck in your'll have to decide your guidelines as far as your true commitment to one another. Whatever floats your boat darlin'

caressmewell 53F

11/27/2005 7:31 pm

If your spouse knows and approves it is not cheating, it's an open marriage/relationship.

Mrtribent 48M

11/28/2005 5:45 am

Actually we have tried the couples thing, the problem is that we are both quite selective about who we will be with and there just aren't any couples out there who are both attractive to us. Also my wife is strait and most lifestyle couples want the women to play as well. This does not work for us. so we decided to each seek out what we want seperately.

online69n 51F

12/10/2005 8:32 pm

you say you have an open relationship-
in that is your answer....................

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