Did that count as Sex?  

Mrtribent 48M
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11/28/2005 7:50 am

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Did that count as Sex?

If anywone ever asks me when I lost my virginity, I tell them it was the summer after I graduated high school with a girl I knew from school. But that is by no means my first sexual experience, that is just the first time I was able to have intercourse in its entirety.

Looking back on my childhood I realize there were many times that I experimented. I think many of us played "Doctor" or "House" between the ages of 8 and 13 but we don't usually count it as sex. In fact I think that my fascination with cunnilingus is derived from an experience I had when I was 8 years old. Looking back on my younger years there were 5 girls that I had oral sex with that I never counted as having sex. In fact 2 of the girls actually had an orgasm. But I never considered what I was doing as having sex (or at least I still claimed to be a virgin). I wonder how they look at it, I mean are there a couple of girls out there that claim they lost thier virginity to me while I didn't even count it as sex. I don't know, makes you wonder.


demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
12/10/2005 1:39 am

to call it "losing virginity" you actually have to go "all the way". however, counting it as sex.. that's different. i heard mention of a study done recently that indicated teens nowdays think "sex" is only the act of full penetration. Everything up to that point, including oral, doesn't count. For some reason this was shocking to the researchers.

What shocked me was hearing the researchers were shocked by it. I had never really put any thought to it before, but with my first b/f (i was 15/16)... we did everything short of "Going all the way". and i'm 12-15 years older than their study group.

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