Pet Peaves  

MrsChestnut 50F
6 posts
8/17/2005 10:44 am

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Pet Peaves

I hate it when a woman or a man doesn't know their role in life...such as macho women and mousy men...this doesn't refer to all those people attracted to the fantasy of bondage. I'm talking about reality. There would be so much more peace in their life if they could grasp this concept.

Does anyone share this view or is all mankind lost?

MrEd1701 42M  
1 post
8/19/2005 11:45 am

You know something. I am gonna have to go ahead and agree with ya there as a general rule. Now I have met soem fairly macho women in my time that are successful and happy but in general this is a good rule of thumb. Mankind isnt lost yet. lol


d0lphint0m 61M
24 posts
8/27/2005 8:30 pm

And what is your role? Are you a dominating type? And what "should" the role of the person you are looking for be? By the way I am moving to Sweetwater soon and just looking to chat with a lady in the area so that I can get a handle on what the area is like.

MrsChestnut 50F
1 post
9/7/2005 12:10 pm

To dOlphintOm: My role is wife and mother and far from the dominating type...I hate that type. I recognize the power I have, as a woman, over men and try not to abuse I'm really not looking for a particular role other than for a man to be a man, not a woose (spelling?) and a woman to be proud to be a woman and not try to compete with men....does this make sense?

finewine033 65M
3 posts
9/8/2005 5:43 am

I respect a person who fills their roles as they see it, and keeps their priorities in order, as you apparently do as wife and mother.

rm_tenntone 47M
1 post
9/22/2005 11:55 am

It's all about having confidence in yourself and being comfortable with who you are.

rmhott3409 51M
4 posts
10/25/2005 10:30 pm

I get irritated at my freinds who have to ask their wives to buy a 6 pack of beer. I work hard for my money and feel this is wrong. My Wife use to think she would give me an allowance for the week to live off of. I showed her the other side, i am the money maker in the family, I give her an allowance. Yes she usually gets much more than the allowance but the idea is why should the person working 10 to 12 hour days to provide for the family not have control of the money. I don't demand reports from her on what happened for the day and therefore anything she finds out about my day is what i want to share. Now there is ways to be nasty with this and ways to be nice. I pick the respectable way and feel that either partner can assume either role as long as there is respect of each other. I make decisions and manage people all day long and i dream about the day i come home and my lady takes advantage of my exaustion to use my body for her pleasure. Of course i guess this is just fantasy.

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