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Maybe my wife's libido is growing. We had sex for the third time in the same week. It helps that we've been vacationing and not so bone tired. Saturday morning was a wash since kids were in the bed. But Sunday was great! We were cuddled and spooned and I started to run my hand up her thigh and over her mound. After a bit, I slid my hand inside her panties and started to slide my finger in and out of her hole. Completely ignoring her clit, I slid my finger deep into her being sure to rub the "roof" as I slid my finger out. Then I rubbed my finger up one side of her labia and down the other, being sure to slow down as I got close to her clit. BUt I did not touch her clit. Pretty soon she was thrusting herself at my hand for some clit attention (would that be "clittention"?)
When she was really soaked, I rubbed my dick up and down her slit to get some good lube for me and to give her clit some of the "clittention" it deserved. When I slid inside of her I knew I wouldn't last long. With so few sessions, I am raging hard as soon as we start anything. And this was no exception. I tried a nice slow rhythm with some faster strokes and then back to slow. And I concentrated on chores that needed doing. But as soon as I know she is enjoying herself, the rush of that knowledge is enough to bring me. Gamely, I keep thrusting, but quickly, I move my mouth down to keep her going and help her finish. She likes oral and soon, she was grinding hard into my mouth and coming over the top. But I kept going, bringing her to a second orgasm in just a few moments. Then we cuddled until we heard kids moving around and heading our direction.
Three times in a week is the most I can remember for us since we were actively trying to conceive. I hope this is a trend we keep going?
Does anyone else have this problem? I guess I know people do. But, are there any couples or women who have advice?
Now that the kids are all in school, is she able to focus more on her needs?
I know that other men are facing this issue from comments I have seen on other blogs, so I am sure answers have been offered, but I have not seen them
If we were having sex this often, all the time, I probably would not be on this site. (There are other things I like that she is not interested in so I might have gotten here anyway.)