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Secret Society of AFF
Secret Society of AFF
I was recently charged by one of my avid readers, ValleyRat, with the question of how people on here can post a pic and not be worried about being recognized by others in regular society.
He was targeting those that are married and separated. I believe that everyone can say the same thing though. Although, I do believe that those that are married and separated may stand to lose more.
I was watching a movie last night, National Treasure starring Nicholas Cage. In that story there were these Free Masons that were a secret society that protected a tremendous treasure. They knew who eachother were but no one else did.
I believe the same thing applies here. Grant it we don't have our own secret decoder rings or a handshake but I believe that those that are 'IN' the AdultFriendFinder society will not want anyone else to know that they know.
Simply saying, you go to work and your Boss introduces you to his daughter or wife and BAM! You each instantly recognize that you are in the society of AdultFriendFinder. I don't believe that either party will be going to whomever and be speaking of this in public. They have as much to lose as the next guy (or daughter and wife in this example).
So the whole, should I post a pic or not thing is null and void as far as the outside world is concerned. Now, posting a pic on Yahoo may be different with accompanying information "Need to fuck baadly. Must be discrete and no-strings. I'm happily married but need sex now!". That may not float too well since anyone can view your profile even while you are in the non-sex oriented rooms such as dog grooming.
Now lets get a little nitty gritty with this picture posting thing within AdultFriendFinder. There are two sexes, male and female, and of those two there are approx. 12:1 men to women ratio. That means for the women they have 12 men to view, compare and choose and for those 12 guys...they are vying for the attention of that one girl.
With that in mind, it is essential to separate yourself from the pack. Unless you can advertise that you got a 12" dick, you best get creative. Pics are one easy way to draw attention. Again, if you got a big cock then flaunt it. If not then better stick to something else on you that stands out. I've found that most women are quite tired of the cock shots unless they are just huge. You can always show the cock shots later in email or chatting.
Women on the other hand, really don't need a pic to attract 100's of eager men weekly.
It is amazing at how a guy will send email showing their desire to fuck a woman they have yet to see! I can not separate myself from this pack.
It is really a very basic theory, a theory of numbers. The more you send the odds are in your favor to get a higher return.
Ever gamble with poker or back gammon before? Ever just let it all ride on a single hand or number? Not typically. So, you shouldn't here either.
The worst thing that can happen is that you have a choice. Wow, that is a concept there.
So, ValleyRat, when the ladies are browsing the 'New Pics' area...yours ain't in there (strike one), then when they browse 'Who is Online' they see a chalk outline for your pic (not a good start) (steeerike 2). Lets face it, when you take a woman into a jewelry store...is she gonna be drawn to the sparkly rock or the gray rock? My money is on the sparkly one.
Now the sparkly one may have less intrinsic value but the it sparkles.
So, you need to post a pic, dude, to set yourself apart from the other rats on here.
Your pic can be just of your torso or face shot or of your neighbor's dog. It don't really matter. Just something sparkly.
Too if you have seen mine, I digitally altered mine to have shades. This follows the Clark Kent theory of anonymity to apply.
8/13/2005 4:32 pm
i know what you mean,ine of the guys i've met on here knows my hubby and were good customers of his oops,but neither of us will tell as that means more people finding out which would not be good for any of us|
8/13/2005 4:54 pm
Very well said and Nice pic.|
8/13/2005 6:31 pm
Well, well, well. The ladies are out tonight!|
Thank you all!
Well, I have been doing my research. All of this pretty comes with a brain too! Anyway, I've read some of the group posts that had similar topics about pics and so forth. Most of the ladies seem to be in agreement with the exception of the huge dick. If you got one of those then by all means, whip it out and show it off.
Thanks again, ladies.
As far as my pic, well, status quo for me. It is my marketing background seeping through. I like to create a whole scheme out of my profile. This is actually my 2nd profile to date on AdultFriendFinder to which I have been on for about a year now. My first ID was, Hrdazarock. Again, play on words. I personally like those with a little thought behind them rather than Bob118 type of name (not to be mixed up with John316, but i digress).
As you may have guessed, my profile name is a fake. MrRoarke2005 is a play on the Fantasy Island sitcom of the '80s. My head is digitally transposed onto MrRoarke's body. When I created this profile, it was meant to advertise my 5 fantasies that I wanted to experience thus the name. Fascnating, huh?
Now, it really doesn't apply anymore and I'm again thinking of changing my profile name to something a bit more generic like my first name. I changed my first name because of the psycho chic I last saw in November of 2004. I took a sabatical or sorts of here because I was really put out with what had happened. Read my BLOG, "Hot Girl Fantasy: Biting My Ass Everytime..." on July 27th.
8/13/2005 6:50 pm
I guees that I should have made the Bruce Wayne analogy for you.
8/14/2005 11:28 am
Mizzkitka, great name by the way. I am a true fan of those that take time and pick one that is unique that you don't require to follow it with incremental numbers, such as Bob118. Poor slob. That means that more than likely when he created his profile that his entered it 118 times before he got one that stuck. Again, just wait, there will be a nother poor sap that comes behind John315 and won't think anything about entering John316. That will be one profile that will get '0' hits period.|
As far as my name, I've always created a name to serve some purpose. I painstakenly done so to the point that is obscure to most fold at first but is appreciated later. Much like your. Bravo on your behalf (insert golf clap here).
I think that MrRoarke2005's purpose has been served. Now, I won't pick a name that is obscure or generic. Probably will be the same on I have on Yahoo, Eroticy and HotMatch. I won't reveal it now for fear that some pirate will take it. Why? I don't know since I would more than likely get the runoff onto my yahoo accoutn. Anyway, the clues are plainly stated in my profile.
My first moniker was creative as well will my last. The only thing that will bother me is not being associated with these posts. But, I dunno I may continue them under this name. I have noticed an increase in readership lately.
Ricardo is a funny chap, eh? Never saw with a lady but had this little guy running around tending after him. He is a sexxy man. I can't roll my tongue like him when he spoke his name. Most of the ladies that I have met really thinks it to be wierd when I try to talk like him during an encounter. I think they call it 'creepy'.
Okay. My five fantasies.
1) Meeting a gal after only a brief chat with the sole intention of fucking.
2) Receiving oral (never happened prior to AdultFriendFinder...I've led a very sheltered life)(CHECK)
3) Enjoy the company of a much older lady. Say 50's. (CHECK)
4) Enjoy the company of a much younger lady. Say early to mid 20's.(CHECK)
5) Enjoy a lady with huge breasts. (CHECK)
I believe those were my original 5. AdultFriendFinder Archives may disagree but to my best memory, that is the truth. They never changed but fantasies were added as my mind wondered.
6) 3-way with a couple, MFM. (Hasn't happened yet.)
7) 3-way, MFF. (It was very close to happening then it didn't. So difficult to align three separate schedules for an encounter.)
BBW, Big Beautiful Woman. (CHECK)
9) Asian lady (not too many on here, came pretty close at first but then I found out that she entered her zip wrong...she turned out to in Texas!)
10) Anal (CHECK)
11) Orgy (Came really close to this one too. Developed a relationship with a couple on here that threw these type of parties but I chose to see the psycho chick (BLOG post: "Hot Girl Fantasy: Biting My Ass Everytime..." on July 27th) instead and have never had the opportunity yet.)
I think that about does it.
Of all the ones that are unresolved, I still look for them but not at such a high intensity as before. Now, I've mellowed a bit. I'm not on this mission anymore. When I cam to AdultFriendFinder, I was this 'wet behind the ears' greehorn that had never hadn't had sex since 2002 (BLOG post, "On the OUTS with the IN crowd", Aug. 13th 2005). I was growing ever so tired of sweet talking my right hand for yet another 'night on the town of circle city'. Ironically enough, Indianapolis is known as the cirld city ...but that wasn't my reference.
I was sooo horny. I'm still soo horny (notice only 2 "o's" instead of the 3 so I am less than before since I have had my share of mistakes but now I am a bit more selective.
I was shown this wonderful world of chatrooms on Yahoo that opened up a whole new world to me. Back in the good ol' days when there were user rooms and not Masterbation Room 1 - 150 and Knitting Room 1 - 40, which incidently are about the same. I had a friend wanting to chat with other dog owners about dogs because she wanted to get one but was unsure which breed to get. She was chatting with this one gal for a few minutes and she was asked i she would like to see your dog? My friend said 'sure'. Well, when the video screen popped up, low and behold it was this chick getting fucked 'live' by Gruff the dog. Now, i thought to myself, who is taking bite out of crime if Gruff is fucking this poor woman in the ass?
What is the world coming to. Where else can you go to get this type of anonymous entertainment. Sure, as my friend sai, it was sick but she couldn't turn away. Like watching bodies fly out of a wrecked train...you are so mesmerized by the horrific site that you can not turn away.
I must say though, now Cam Chat is losing its luster with me. I have run into a few that like to deceive you over the net. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to know the whole truth, just the stuff that can hurt me later and doesn't agree with my stomach. Like the guy that was bi that portrayed himself as a Soccer Mom only to watch me strok-off for him. He knew that I or likekind men would allow him to view me if I knew he wanted to watch so he devised this profile and the rest is history. There is no such thing as Profile Police that will crack down on these folks. I've even run into two pre-teens in the Adult Masterbation room. Well, I instantly turned off my cam but spoke to them about childhood and adult things. Eventually their parents got home and they had to logoff. Just doing my part, ma'am. Saving one innocent victim at a time.
Okay. I think I have covered the question. Sometimes, I find that I Thinkingway2hard (clue).
8/14/2005 11:32 am
Mzhonyhole - nice name too. Thanks for the pic remark. I never get tired of it.|
Sexy pic for you too.
As far as that goes, sexxxy pics for Mizzkitka and Papyrina!!
8/14/2005 9:09 pm
Mizzkitka- Have any suggetions as to who's pic I should use? I don't think of my lovers would agree for me to use thir pic.|
8/15/2005 6:36 pm
Well, Mizzkitka, if you have read any of my earlier posts then you would know that they either no longer exist on AdultFriendFinder or their pics are not indicative of their true self.|
I'll come up with something and see if that will appease your desires.
My latest encounter (much prefer this term because I don't believe that I am actually making love to any of the ladies) was as voluptuous as they come. She was just younger. But perhaps you are speaking of the mrs which is teensy and a past lover.
Either way, I'll brew something up for your pleasure.
8/17/2005 2:51 am
Anemone1 - talking about keeping it private, you're sooo private your profile is turned off.|
I do understand and agree with your post. I'm not knocking you there, sweets.
The jewelry anology was for Valleyrat as he wsa trying to decide whether to use a pic or not. Anything is better than the ol' chalk outline (for us guys that is).
I'd like to know more about you...but alas you profiel is turned off.
Thanks for the viewpoint!
8/17/2005 12:37 pm
Always glad to share a smile and a hug ((((Anemone1)))) . You'll have to to just owe the latter to me.|
Hey, now, watch how you where you are using those $5 words. Your offending my brotheren.
Sorry, must had slipped back into my single-celled ooze. Just habit.
Well, I don't think I've touched your heart through my BLOG posts. I use this an outlet to 'laugh' at my encounters with AdultFriendFinder and the world.
Happy to have you. Keep posting.
As far as Valleyrat, I think he is in withdraw from my BLOG post, "Missing Body Parts". I'm curious as to your reaction to that thread.
8/17/2005 9:44 pm
Holy Cow, are Canadians allowed to use AdultFriendFinder? I thought we had border patrol. Get Homeland Security on the line.|
Just kididng. I have chatted with few very nice Canadians over the past year. Even have stoked for a few...but I digress.
Evidently, you don't peruse the chat rooms. Age/Sex/Location. I'm sure you'll be taking that knowledge to the board room.
Uh, as far as your explanation for your financial vacabulary gains, please keep in mind that this is a sex site and not a Think Tank. I felt my ass go numb while reading your explanation. Sad but true. When I think, my ass grows numb. Think there's a connection?
I promise you this, AdultFriendFinder is the sole ear for hearing my encounters. No fucking way would I ever admit to any of them to my friends let alone my family. Everybody has a closet of skeletons and I am not alone on this. However, my closet contains skeletons and not me.
Always a pleasure to read your posts my dear.
8/19/2005 5:22 pm
If by clicking the 'Request Review' link, all your tax records are seized, phones are tapped and the only sex you'll be having will be with a 400lb knuckle-dragger named, 'Pussy'.|
Anemone1, what's got you all wrapped up in a bind? The last few posts have been apologies. As the younger sect would say, Whatup, girl?
ValleyRat, what comment got munched?
I have noticed that I have posted somethign and it never took despite the secret 3-digit code that I entered. I don't think anyone took my post but I re-entered it immediately and it stuck the 2nd time. That has only occured once for me.
I'm no expert on Chat Rooms. I was only showed the Gates of Hell a few months ago by a gal i met on here. She said that you could find any perversion you wanted. That is soo true too. I couldn't make up the things I see in there. Kinda like going to a carnival of humanity . I don't take it too seriously but sometimes I do. There are some pretty creepy people in there.
I'll post soemthing with this regards so it doesn't get buried in here.
8/20/2005 2:27 am
Delete Comment TEST|
8/20/2005 1:09 pm
I just clicked the REQUEST REVIEW link for MrRoarke2005's post, "Delete comment TEST" and the following message was revealed,|
Thank you. By clicking on the "Request Review" button below, you will request a review of this post. It will be checked for having anyone's email address or phone number, for sounding like a personal ad, advertisement, request for sex, or hate/racist language.
That is it.
ValleyRat, your cute.
8/22/2005 3:36 pm
VallyeRat - Chinmuzac is a bot. Sorry, guy.|
8/22/2005 10:22 pm
Hello, MrRoarke2005! how's it going baby? |
You haven't called since our last encounter 2 weeks ago. I enjoyed our little tryst in my Jag. I just got is back from getting detailed!