Is Your Ex Hot???  

MrNuttz05 49M
1845 posts
3/13/2006 2:37 pm

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Is Your Ex Hot???

Love & hate! The scholars say it's a fine line between the two! I say it's no line @ all. Over 10 years ago we got a divorce. At the time, I tried to reconcile, but she felt too much damage had been done. I let her go, but with my two boys in her care I was there daily... At first, I wanted to kill her. Excuse me for the 'political incorrectness' but her disappearance from this earth would have made us even! Maybe? As time passed the knives were slowly pulled away from my heart & we were able to have conversations. We both remarried, mine was great, hers was rocky. I even had to come to her aid on certain occasions. I always told her it was because of my boys, not her... Physically; She is 'strapped'! Legs & ass to die for, luscious lips, those braids that you can just grab a hold of when you are..... you know? She's hot! A definite head turner... When we attend our sons games together on Saturday's I see the guys looking when she walks across the gym... One guy approached me once.... 'No, dude! We have been divorced for a long time!'... But his question led me to ask my own question? Would I do my ex? Would I? She's hot? Would I? She's sexy? Would I? The sex was always great? Would I?..... The answer is; I wouldn't, I couldn't... Too much was lost & nothing could be gained. False signals could be sent out to my kids if they were to ever find out. Not a chance worth taking! She is single now, but I am still happily married... Yes! She is hot! But sex has a way of fucking some relationships up, if you know what I mean! This is one of the reasons I am here of FFA So is your ex hot? Would you do them? Would you allow them to do you? BLOG with me people!

spoldrtn812 51F  
1056 posts
3/13/2006 3:14 pm

Damn I hate this blog because I had held on for a whole year this time but yes occasionally I do my ex. He's done some things that we won't ever get past. but I know when all else fails and I just gotta have it I call him we sneak off and it's a wrap but we are both beyond sure that it is purely physical. I love it when we're doing it and he tells me how he can't get this shit nowhere, he jacks off to our old home movies. and the rest of the fantastic lies I hear as he fucks me like he may never me fuck again. Truth is...depending on my mood....he may not!!!

This is a control issue I have I know, but I'm a girl and I can!!!!

Please, Sign my Guestbook Screw me!

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
3/13/2006 4:57 pm

_____I have three ex-fiance's (no ex-wives, no kids). Two of them are physically hot, the other one isn't bad looking, but she was absolutely the best sex I ever had. She brought things out of me I didn't know I had inside. If I could have "just sex" (like we used to, when it was good) with any of the ex's, I would. Unfortunately, just sex doesn't happen. Things always get complicated and and up in the shit again. (I have experienced "going back".) I once read somewhere..."If you think about getting back with your ex, REMEMBER, there was a reason why you split. The thing that really sucks is not finding anything as good as what I've had. I gather you don't have that problem "Nutz".

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
3/13/2006 7:06 pm

I would do my ex only if I knew we had a potential of it. I'm too fragile to be just a fuck....

sexyeyes375 46F

3/13/2006 7:47 pm

Ex is good looking, but no, wouldn't go there. And even though he says it would 'just be sex' it wouldn't. The price was high leaving the first time, I can't imagine doing it all over again.

rm_cant_be_true 38M

3/14/2006 8:16 am

The restraining orders prevent me from even looking at them, so I guess I'd say not if anyone could see me

SaucyNSassy 38F

3/14/2006 12:42 pm

Hon, It depends on which I leave for awhile and I come back and you have developed a following... Awe... Who loves ya? lol


MrNuttz05 49M

3/14/2006 12:49 pm

valleyrat4, 'No brakes' is never a good situation... I totally feel ya'... TY!

spoldrtn812, You have old home movies? PJ, we must talk... TY for posting...

skyking, Emotions & feelings are things men are NOT supposed to have! Ah! There goes another myth TY...

MrNuttz05 49M

3/14/2006 12:58 pm

art persists, 'Fragile'... When things get complicated, I think we all turn into glass... TY for posting dude!

sexyeyes, Welcome to Nuttzville! And although your eyes are not accesible in your photo, everything else looks just fine... In my situation the price was too high as well... Why venture down the road of pain again? TY, & I hope to see more of you!

can't be true, Ah! the good ole' restraining order! (lol) That's a toughie, my man, that's a toughie! Are they only good in the state that serves them? If so, take her on a trip...

TinaMarieXO 39F

3/14/2006 2:46 pm

Getting back together with an ex (especially if it was a serious relationship) gets very complicated even when there is "just sex" involved!
Trust me, I wouldn't do it again. I learned my lesson of awkwardness some years ago.
It gives the opportunity of giving to many mixed signals. Basically I thought I was trying to make this work and actually gave a damn, however the ex-bf of mine was just "in it" for the sex aspect and didn't invest in the emotional side of things....BUT WAIT!!! Thats the same reason why we broke up!!! Duh....
The bottom line is, don't go down a road that you know isn't "right" for you...quick fixes, just like rebounds never work

digdug41 49M

3/14/2006 4:09 pm

good post nuttz I dont have an ex wife...yet but if we did divorce would I do her nah? I couldn't

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

Vick_Demise 44M
2431 posts
3/14/2006 5:29 pm

This post is both good and bad.
It's so much the better post than "Hey ya'll, should I do my ex?" but that's also the bad part... Mine has been all kinds of trying to tempt me and shit. So recently I've been asking myself...

I do actually get off on some of our own pics and vids, but would never let her have me back... Yes, as hard up as I am!

I agree with what Skyking said about the reasons for the split...

Now the one I'd drop everything was the young buxom widow a few before my true real life exwife... Lana's the one I'd doobie doobie doo!!!!
Too bad she probably doesn't remember me or care to. It can also be said that being someone's rebound fling is both good and bad

You can shine your shoes and wear a suit
You can comb your hair and look quite cute
You can hide your face behind a smile
One thing you can't hide
Is when you're crippled inside

MrNuttz05 49M

3/14/2006 5:53 pm

LipsSayAll, Temptation? Looks good, smells good, & sounds good! But it can be nothing but bad for you... I understand TY...

Sassy, Glad to see ya'... You know, my ex-wife is the only one I consider an ex. I don't know if you have more than one ex-hubby, but some on this post are referring to ex-finaces & girlfriends... I think where any kids are involved it would be a difficult situation... TY for stopping by, & I luv ya Sassy...

TinaMariXO, You are so riight about it 'Never' being just about sex... One or the other has some type of feelings... I just view it as a volatile situation. But some may be able to look pass it all for that one moment of glory... TY!


3/14/2006 9:23 pm



jadedbabe78 105F

3/14/2006 9:56 pm

I've gotten together with exes before.

One was because he was just that damn good and he was a little hottie (he was shorter than I was, lol.) One night only. It was good for that. He wasn't relationship material.

The other one I got together with...was a closure. I visited him for a week after he moved. Fucking him while I was there made me realize I could do better! lol.

There are some I wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.....and then there are the ones that make me wonder....if I ever saw them again...'hmmmmm, would I...?'

Vick_Demise 44M
2431 posts
3/15/2006 9:36 am

LMAO @ H-n-B.... Why are you always yelling FoulMouth? You got the system kicking til the speakers bleed in there?

P.S. I am so into your tattoo!

Sorry Nuttz, I know this is your domain, but I just had to.

You can shine your shoes and wear a suit
You can comb your hair and look quite cute
You can hide your face behind a smile
One thing you can't hide
Is when you're crippled inside


3/16/2006 1:00 am

Vick_Demise-- How did ya know? And ty, glad you like the tat!

MrNuttz05 49M

3/16/2006 1:04 pm

LipsSayAll, Temptation, the forbidden fruit... I agree with your beliefs on when kids are involved. That's MY biggest fear. TY for posting...

Saucy, Well, hello down in San Antonio... Glad you dropped by to see me Just BLOGGING, that's all... If anyone follows me they are going to hit a brick wall... Nuttz does, Saucy...

TinaMarie, I believe that to be so true... It would be easy to get involved with someone that you already know. It cuts through a lot of red tape... In that scenario too many emotions can arise... TY for BLOGGING with me...

TheBtchIsHere122 44F
63 posts
3/17/2006 1:09 am

The few exs in my life, I would have to say yes they are hot, no I would not do them again, and no they can't do me.

MrNuttz05 49M

3/17/2006 2:03 pm

digdug41, TY for stopping by, bro'. A man & his principles! Cool, good words to stand by...

Vick Demise, Dude, like I said about my ex, she is hot... I have thought about it, how, when, where, all of that. But that's as far as it will go! So, we seem to be in the same boat Demise... TY for BLOGGING w/me...
Stay Strong!

H~N~B, Please don't vomit... At least not here You seem to still be in the 'HATE' phase. Aw, what the hell am I talking about? You are always in the 'HATE' phase.... TY for commenting

RavishingRed1062 54F

3/17/2006 3:44 pm

My ex is a very attractive man. He is also a sorry, worthless, full-of-shit motherfucker. I would not let him touch me if there was a huge astroid racing towards the earth and we would all be dead in about 5 mins. IF it were not for my son, I would gladly have walked away never to glance in his sorry-ass direction again. Alas, the sperm/egg union binded me to that poor excuse for a human being.

However, on one hand... the fact that he walked away from his son a year ago with not a word nor a thought is both a blessing and a curse (he walked away from me 6 years ago... just his son this time. I'm sure I will be trying to assure my son for the rest of his life it was not HIM... just is fathers total inablity to put ANYTHING, even him, before his own needs.

So, no.... I would not do my ex again... and I advise anyone who ever meets him to run like hell....

RavishingRed1062 54F

3/17/2006 3:46 pm

Oh yes.... and I might vomit too... lol

Sorry for that lil tirade....

MrNuttz05 49M

3/17/2006 4:49 pm

Anytime, H~N~B, anytime... That's why we BLOG... And I hope your son knows that he has a great dad in MOM! He will be fine, trust me!


3/18/2006 11:10 am

    Quoting MrNuttz05:
    Anytime, H~N~B, anytime... That's why we BLOG... And I hope your son knows that he has a great dad in MOM! He will be fine, trust me!
I think you got your boobs mixed up old man! Im pretty sure this comment was for RavishingRed1062! I still love ya nuttz!
And I am not always in HATE PHASE!

MrNuttz05 49M

3/18/2006 3:58 pm

OMG, How could I mix up 'BOOBS'???(lol)

I am so in need of rest, or maybe I just need to take the 'Taste Test'


3/18/2006 6:59 pm

HHHHHHMMMMMMMMMMMM Next blog entry--- "Breast Feeding Nuttz" LMAO

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