A Woman's Worth  

MrNuttz05 49M
1845 posts
4/3/2006 1:55 pm

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A Woman's Worth

On Feb., 5th my better half boarded a plane to PHX, leaving me to tend with our 3 yr. old. I also get my two sons on the weekends 11 & 12 yr. olds... It has been close to two months & I have had to deal with the measles, changing baby-sitters, suspensions from school, a hurt ego, basketball games every Saturday, a shool play, a trip to Washington D.C., & not to mention the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, & standing up friends! All I need is to be sexually harrassed on the job & I can be a full pledged WOMAN...

Single parents & working moms you have NO idea of how much respect you have gained from me... You have no idea of what your worth is! I salute you all... You never know until you stand in that person shoes!

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
4/3/2006 2:15 pm

Amen, my brotha! working mothers, single mothers, stay at home mothers, single dads(raising their children) and stay at home fathers, are some awesome folks, there is a few of us here who has been in those shoes. I welcome anyone who wants to walk in mine while I relax.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:10 pm:
007, It is a contiuous theme... I am not bithcin', by any means, but the only break I get is when I go to freakin' work(lol) I applaud you, even more than I did before... You deserve more praise than I can give you

rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
4/3/2006 2:24 pm

YEAH!!!!!! I hope that you express this same sentiment to your wife!! It is definately hard work, being a single working mother, or even a stay at home mom!! It is very difficult, and add into that trying to still look sexy for our men.........DAMN!!! Thanks for acknowledging this!!


MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:14 pm:
Don't thank me, I am thanking all of you! I cooked & cleaned before my wife left for AZ, no big deal. But to do it EVERY freakin' day, cook breakfast, take the boys to school, take the baby to the sitter, take out something for lunch, OMG do I need to go to the market? Then go to work! WTF? I thought I knew, but I didn't KNOW... You ladies are to be applauded

crazygurl2xx 56F

4/3/2006 2:30 pm

i think a woman's worth was calculated out with all duties performed for a family at about $80K a year...

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:16 pm:
If THAT'S true you all are GROSSLY underpaid...

firestarter665 42M/39F

4/3/2006 2:34 pm

I love it when a man fully understands what single parents and stay at home parents go through on a daily basis. It sounds as though you might have all of it under control.

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:18 pm:
(lol)I don't know if I will EVER have this circus under control(lol) I know I have to shopping for something called 'Bratz' & a CD that I can't even begin to think of... All working moms SHOULD be alcoholics(lol) I appreciate you all....

meerkittykat 42F

4/3/2006 2:41 pm

My brother and I were raised by a single mom. Both of us turned out to be two civilly minded, honest, upright contributors to society. She says we are her finest achievement. I hope someday she realizes we couldn't have done it without all she did for us.

Good luck my friend...yer children are very lucky to have you.


MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:20 pm:
I was lucky to have both parents in my rearing, but I have many of friends that were raised under your circumstances & like you, they came out above average... A lot of single moms do a great job. Roses for all of them, TY for commenting!

PassionKisses4Me 44F

4/3/2006 2:51 pm

I am a single mom of three boys and putting myself through college...such hard work but worth it...hugs and kisses to you sweetie...and keep up your strength, your going to need more of it LOL



MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:22 pm:
Becky, I know... 'Strength'? Can you buy that with the Calomine lotion? Good luck to you & thanks for your encouragement

__Huntress__ 55M/57F

4/3/2006 3:24 pm

This is very sweet ... your lady and your kids are very lucky to hae you ... !


MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:25 pm:
TY... They are lucky & I am exhausted

prettypussy4004 86F

4/3/2006 4:02 pm

Just saying Hi and I'm glad you see what a large number of women and now men go through each day as single parents or just hands on parents. I wish my husband could have done that when the kids were younger but I did the rasing. I now have 20 and 21 year old sosns and the day they came to me and told me how much they appreciated what I went through to raise them made it all worth it.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/3/2006 6:29 pm:
The last two months have been very tough... As a male I am used to the emotionless problems, you know, like punish the kids, fix the car, things of that nature. Now I am choosing baby sitters, making out car pools with other parents, looking for things I never heard of for a toddler in a drug store... It's a totally different animal... TY for commenting...

RavishingRed1062 54F

4/3/2006 5:11 pm

I love you MrNuttz!!!!....

Yes, we single moms, (I have three children that would test the patience of Jesus himself)have a lot on our plates. My own personal plate consists of college (I graduate in 4 short weeks!!!! GO ME!) and work, household chores, doctor appointments, both of my boys sports and other school activities, and a 18 year-old-daughter that has her cell phone permanetly affixed to the side of her head... coupled with NO SUPPORT from the sperm donor and not a single family member within 200 miles.... but you know what, I would not change any of it. (Ok, I think I would changed the part where I don't get to have wild monkey sex WHENEVER I PLEASE... ) The trials and tribulations that I experience, make me the person that I am..... and I'm pretty happy with that.

NOW.... the person that I am, accidently hung up on you the other night... and I tried to call back like 3 times.. but I kept getting a busy signal... so I don't think you knew that I didn't switch over correctly for a while and was on the phone waiting... and then, tired assed me (see my busy schedule above) fell asleep!!!!!!! I AM SOOOOO SORRY MY FRIEND.... call again, SOON???? 'Kay?

Hugs and Kisses... and a looooong lick!

PS.. you should have SEEN the facial shot I took today during my nooner. I think we got some video... but I'm pretty sure we missed the money shot! I'm workin on it... LOL

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/4/2006 3:06 pm:
CONGRATS... You deserve that & much more! Hold your head very high when you strut across that stage... TY for your words!

I will call ya' & keep workin' on that

EroticaXTC 49F

4/3/2006 5:20 pm

Hey there!! bless you hun!!! You've probably risen a whole belt full of notches above other men your age It takes a good man to take on the full responsibilities and then acknowledge his lady for her part...Your wife will remember this and your kids will as well, since you've also set an example for them in the process! Good for you!!!

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/4/2006 3:09 pm:
Thanks for stopping through & patting me on the back It is appreciated... But again, I have to turn the appreciation to the single parents, working moms, & whoever does this day in & day out

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
4/3/2006 8:22 pm

_____I never had kids. Never want them. I got fixed. You people who raise your children are better than I ever could be. I salute you.

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/4/2006 3:10 pm:
They told my wife she couldn't give birth too Miracles do happen...

BBbikerbabe6969 51F
37 posts
4/3/2006 11:09 pm

Your a good man. BB

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/4/2006 3:12 pm:
TY B I am trying... But Spongebob everyday & night is breaking me down(lol)

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
4/4/2006 7:55 am

Awww...poor MrNuttz!
Think of it as a learning experience and one more reason to be glad to see her when you head down. Bow down and kiss her feet maybe? lol

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/4/2006 3:14 pm:
KISS HER FEET? How about kiss them, massage them, & never let them hit the ground again... TY

skyking412004 53M
5363 posts
4/4/2006 7:42 pm

_____The "miracle" where I have a child, is not the "miracle" I want. When I say fixed, I mean it as in...I had a vasectomy. It didn't happen by chance. Besides, forty three is way too old to have kids.

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/7/2006 2:07 pm:
Ahhhh, you're just saying that... I am going to leave one of mine on I75, get em', o.k....?(lol)

AtomicArtist0 45M
6015 posts
4/4/2006 8:14 pm

aww....MrNuttz is MrMom. Thats sweet. Hopefully the mrs. and the kids appreciate it. Just don't forget your friends entirely...cough...cough...

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/7/2006 2:08 pm:
I couldn't forget you if they gave me that fucking treatment from 'Men In Black'....

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
4/4/2006 9:11 pm

Nuttz: I was feeling like I was just working, working and working with nothing coming in. Your salute has me inspired and makes me recognize the value I give in raising my daughter.... I needed that; thanks

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/7/2006 2:10 pm:
You & I both buddy... No doubt it's hard work... Keep it up, bro. You are a STRONG man

dasher121 36M

4/7/2006 2:00 pm

MrMom Part 2 starring the nuttynuttser hahahaha. Oh man I can just picture you juggling all of that and practically losing your mind. I know I couldnt do it. Whatever woman marries me i hope she is VERY patient lol.

MrNuttz05 replies on 4/7/2006 2:12 pm:
Dash, sometimes I have to just stop what I am doing to get a grip... For the 1st time in my life @ my job they called me to come in a couple of hours early & I told them, no... I have to take my daughter to breakfast. They were shocked! Actually, I got there late

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