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Th Horny Romantic
Th Horny Romantic
Well, I figure this is just as good a place as anywhere else to post these thoughts...
See, I've found this sight has 2 differnent kinds of men...Some will post their "crotch shot" and go from there. For the ladies that think that's the kind of introduction they want..well...most likely they won't be real intrested in me....So be it.
For the OTHER ladies, well..I hope they can get a bit past my Lacking a photo listing here (Photos are easily available on request, please offer same in return)I hope you read a bit between the lines and maybe find something else HERE that might spark an attraction. (Of course I am not at all above physical attraction, I'll be the 1st to say that is the 1st place to start in any thing here And I usually use one simple rule, PLEASE look good in a pair of snug fitting jeans.....but after that), I'd hope there can be other things that can attact you...Intelligence, mutual respect, maturity, fun, variety..whatever it may be that starts the juices flowing..yes...lets get just a bit above the crotch-shot.
As UNBELIEVABLE as it might seem, some of us are can be both traditional(in attrracting a women) but still use this site to perhaps do away w/ some of the BS bar scenes and embarassingly awkward blind dates that you need to tread through before you actually find someone w/ whom you click. And when you do?..then the clothes come flying off and the excitement screams long before you make it to the bedroom.
I'll admnit I miss that most about my own life..that feeling of excitement, that passion...that thrill w/ someone that just no longer existed in a marriage.
I got a glimpse of that excitement a few months ago...I work a Professional job by day, and have a "fun" job I work just a day or 2 per week...it really is more a hobby than a "job"...Well, while working in that 2nd Job, I met a woman (Jane-lets say)..well, Jane was 27-a few years younger than me) 2 beautiful children and just out of a 6 year relationship w/ a guy I'd call "a dirtbag", well I'd see Jane on and off at the PT job, and she was well aware of how Unhappy I was in my "then" marriage...In fact Jane knew quite well I was leaving. Well, every guy who worked w/ Jane WANTED Jane...she was very attractive (HOT! I guess is the way they say it today) But most of these guys aged from 22-30 were quick to say "Man Janes hot"..but then out would come..."But didn't you know she's got kids?"....Well...what's the BFD w/ that?...SO WHAT if she has 2 Kids?....What the hell does that have to do w/ anything?...What do these idiots think...because a woman has a kid or 2 that they all of a sudden become LESS sexy?...Not in my eyes, the KIDS arent the woman, the woman is Hot, lets appreciate her for what she is, if you can't deal w/ the kids..stay outta the kitchen..(so to speak). So, anyway, back to the point...one night, I was out after work w/ most of the "guys" from this little PT Job, and along comes Jane, it was about 11 pm on a friday nite and she just strolls directly into the bar and sits down next to me...Well, we just started talking and spent the next 2 hrs basically w/ just eachother, inspite of numerous "push ins" from some of my male co-workers who wanted their shot at Jane(figuring me the older -then still married) guy wasn't really takin' a shot at her. Hell, yes I was. I'll only say they those 4 hours w/ Jane showed me what I'd been missing. Conversation was fun....the play of the evening was FUN, the time after the bar was Basically just a 1/2 hr in a back seat of my car (no intercourse) was "fun-est" 30 minutes of my past 15 years....And that was great just because I felt that old spark...a spark that I know many women like Jane, still miss...like I've missed for many years.
I still see Jane (just in the course of the PT job) and we haven't ended up back in anyones backseat since then, but I still see a little flicker in here eye, and I hope she sees my appreciation of our little tryst togather. It wasn't a night of romance or passion, it was more just a night fun, that reminded me of the spark that is what made being w/ a women so fantastic. It is that night, that compelled me to sign up here..to find that spark again.