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No Such Thing As Free Pussy...
No Such Thing As Free Pussy...
My father once confided to me one of the unwritten laws of human nature: There's no such thing as free pussy.
In the years since he offered that sage advice, I have been amazed how my own experiences have added to my understanding of his insight.
Most recently, posting on this site has revealed rather starkly some very sharp differences between the sexes.
As I have entered in this blog before - there can be no doubt after 2 months of doing this that males are overwhelming more driven by sex than females. (The ratio of female members to male members on AdultFriendFinder, at least in the U.S., is 1 to 10 - that sounds like a good estimate of the difference in sexual motivation.)
Second - females are very, very picky in their choice of even casual sex partners, in large part because they see casual sex as a preliminary to a more substantial relationship. For women, casual sex has dimensions beyond simply having sex for sex's sake. Of course, married or committed women might not fit this category, but it seems pretty obvious that they are involved in swinging in many cases to appease the sexual desires of their husbands...or significant male "other"...or else they are looking for a way out of one relationship and into another.
All these generalizations do not apply to all men and all women. But I think it is safe to say it applies to an overwhelming majority.
I would venture to guess that women have strings attached to having sex because back in our prehistory as a species, women who could instill a sense of obligation and continuing attraction in men were much more likely to survive with the male's help...thus women's desire to make sure their partner is likely to feel some bond with her. As a consquence for women, sex is a means to an end and not the end itself.
For men, the opposite is true. Clearly sex is the end game for men, "getting to home plate", as it were. Thus men are quite naturally inclined to more casual sex without strings. Sex is an end in itself and therefore an activity that needs no further justification or elaboration. And the almost insatiable male sex drive is designed so that when a male finds a receptive female, he is very easily inclined to have sex with her.
I know there are quite a few swinging women on this site who will take issue with this blog.
But these are my observations as a lone male using this site after 60 days.
For a site dedicated to casual sex, females are extremely picky and cautious about contacting males. Even then, they venture into "this scene" most often with a male mate, and as often to placate a husband's sex drive. Even women who are "bi-curious" don't seem to cruise lesbian bars looking for a hook-up - preferring to have their husband's tacit participation.
I realize my father's observation is profound.
There is always some kind of price (ie. "string" ) attached to sex with a woman.
"There's no such thing as free pussy..."
12/30/2005 6:30 pm
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