Chastized But Unrepentant  

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8/9/2005 2:15 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Chastized But Unrepentant

Whoa - I just read two comments to my blog post from 2 women who strongly disagree about my comments about single women not being open to meeting married men.

One woman accessed this site through and, in her case, she might have every right to be chagrined. The other woman said that single women might be looking for possible long term relationships themselves. Granted.

The caption underneath the logo reads "The World's Largest SEX and SWINGER Personals site". I may be reading this wrong, but my first guess is that people who choose to be on this site are looking for sex and interested in the swinging least, I would think it would be the primary interest.

Both these women go on to make disparaging remarks about married men seeking sex outside their marriages: "I don't want to serve as a "cum-dump" and "Why play second fiddle to the wife and kids?"

I'm not sure how to answer this negativity.

First, I might say "I'm a cum giver and an orgasm provider...seeking to have and give someone new, exciting experiences."

Second, I might answer "Sex and swinging at least imply pleasure without strings, other attachments or many of the usual constraints on relationships that include sex."

However, both these women see things differently than I do...and, as my mother used to say..."That's why there's chocolate and vanilla...and quite a few other flavors at Baskin-Robbins".

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