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9/12/2005 4:46 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm


I have gotten some very bitter E-mails and blog responses from middle-aged divorced women.

I mean, when anger and bitterness were really not necessary, some women in this category seem to like to vent their hostility - especially, it would seem to me, on a married man about their age.

Of course I can't see into the heads of these women or do more than conjecture about the hail-storm of abuse in their writing.

It seems to me these women are angry about being dumped by husbands who were "playing around", perhaps leaving them for a younger babe. Now they are back on the dating scene with middle aged bodies, fewer available and attractive men who are more likely to be looking for younger mates.

The anthropoligist Desmond Morris (who has just written a book about the evolution of the human female) points out that primates (including humans) mate for reasons of STATUS and REPRODUCTIVE FITNESS. These facts tend to favor older males (more status/power, continued ability to sire young) and work to the disadvantage of females (menopause and the end of fertility).

Of course, someone might snidely remark that older men become more attractive to gold diggers and older women become more attractive to fortune hunters - I think Anna Nicole Smith might have something to teach us in that regard.

Unfortunately, when these disposessed women see another married man looking for "strange pussy" on the side - they go ballistic - as if such a man is an "EVIL DOER"...just like the husband who dumped them.

It also strikes me as odd that these women seem so outraged on a site that openly caters to "sex without strings"...but, of course, only without the strings they feel are appropriate.

I guess I could be dishonest and just pretend I was single. But I see no reason to misrepresent myself.

It is interesting though how much venom these women can unleash. I suspect they never realize that a man might leave a wife with the capacity to hate with so little provocation.

It's worth noting that women in this age group were the prototype for witches...back in the old superstitious days when most people didn't live much past 40.

parcher 57M
14 posts
9/13/2005 5:27 am

Nothing like holding a red flag in front of the bull. I have also noted the venom as well, go figure. You probably have a voodoo doll in your image being made right now (damned philandering no good married men, they must pay, THEY MUST PAY)

justsayhi2005 51F

9/22/2005 8:34 am

well I'm a middle aged divorced woman who isn't bitter at all and I still have no interest in meeting you for many reasons, one of which is that I've read all of your blog posts. haha... What I don't understand is... why do the men who aren't meeting women from the site think is has nothing to do with them??

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