Giving it up too soon.  

MotivatedT 39M
21 posts
12/20/2005 6:42 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Giving it up too soon.

I had a very interesting conversation with one of my homegirls.She was very upset with this guy.For a few minutes she proceeded to go on about how they meet and stuff.Well they had sex and she was not impressed.Then she said the only time he wanted to be with her was for sex.Now here is the kicker.She is looking for a relationship.

I told her she had sex too early.And then probaly did not tell him what she was looking for.Now that he got the goodies there is no need to spend time with her and all those other things.It's now in his corner if he wants to take it to another level.Of course she disagreed with me.Giving me examples of here friends who did the same thing and got married.

So you tell me.Can a relationship come even if the sex is given up too early?

rm_art_persists 51M
1789 posts
12/20/2005 7:28 pm

no especially since "too early" recognizes that it is indeed too early. Too early is always relative: one person's "too early" can be "just in time" with others....

bootielover3 56M

12/20/2005 7:39 pm

Anuthing is possible but I have to agree with you what would be this guy's motivation. That is why I have altered my profile to show that
I really would prefer to become friends first. The one night stand died' even a friends with benefits there has to be a connection.

Good post and Happy holidays

passiondivaBR 43F
10 posts
12/22/2005 5:20 pm

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, one from the Passion Diva!!!
I'll try not to get too clinical on this one...............

I would have to ask him what he was insearch of. If it was made clear from the start that he wasn't looking for a relationship and just some booty it should have been laid on the table by either party.
Now.............In my case, with someone I will not
It was made clear that I wasn't on this site for booty, but it ended in that way. But we remain cool friends, right?
My opinion is...........It should be laid on the table as to what each ither wants.
Now thats my Non Clinical side..........I don't think you ready for the clinical side..........lmao
Call me sweetie...............muah


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