When it rains, it pours!  

Mistress_Nessa 40F
527 posts
8/18/2006 2:43 pm

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When it rains, it pours!

Ok, so I haven't been really active in my blog this week, and for that I'm sorry.

Do you ever feel like you're in this big bottomless pit, out of which you keep trying to climb out, and every time you get close enough to seeing the light at the end, something happens, that pulls you down so far that you have to start all over again?? And again?? And again??? What happens if one day I just get tired of trying to pull my self up and give up??? Is there really a bottomless pit?? Or does it just seem that way???

I'm still trying to get my house organized, before I start working, so I've got a lot to do still.

I'm supposed to start working on Monday, and I still haven't gotten a hair cut, I don't have anything to wear, I haven't found a babysitter for my kids, I'm completely broke, and as if that wasn't enough, my car broke down yesterday! I mean, out of the blue it just stopped working!!

There's a Meet & Greet going on this weekend that I would really like to go to. I'm wondering if that's even going to be possible now.

Can it get any worse?!... On second thought, don't answer that!

So, how's your life going?

Ever felt this stressed out?

What do you do to relax when you feel this overwhelmed?

~ Nessa ~


fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
8/18/2006 4:59 pm

Nessa hun you can't give up. Giving up at the bottom of the pit means death hun. And hun I am so sorry about your car and all. Seems like you and I are connected in more ways than one ya know. Normally you have a headache and I get one or vise versa. My car blows up now yours.....talk about dejavu. Keep positive and stay focused and things will happen for you. That's what I love about you....you always find a way to make things work out.




3 posts
8/18/2006 5:22 pm

Nessa....Sorry to hear things aren't going well....My best advice that i can give you is only worry about the things YOU can control...

keep your head up...stay focused cause your kids are counting on you...


sixshooter693 72M
203 posts
8/18/2006 8:31 pm

nessa sweetheart,what u need is a real friend now. i'm sure u know where ur real friends are. they are ur best medicine for these terrible doldrums u have.....u said there is a meet and greet, this seems to be where u will find relief. if u can u should go. the first smile goes a long way to help u thru. someone as beautiful and caring needs to beloved. go to ur meet and greet and i'm sure it will help. i feel for u deeply ted.

sixshooter693 72M
203 posts
8/18/2006 8:33 pm

if u want to talk i'm sixshooter693 in buffalo ny. smile alot nessa, ted

plutoinmarz1976 40M
2 posts
8/19/2006 7:46 am

hey sexy, did you get my email, would you wann chat and get to know each other

BursaCarnyMicro 56M
24 posts
8/19/2006 12:00 pm

hun i kno how you feel, im still job hunting and my bank accounts dry. but hey all we can do is take it one day at a time

plutoinmarz1976 40M
2 posts
8/21/2006 10:38 am

hey nessa,
i need some advice on how to meet people on here, cos nobody seems to reply to emails and winks

rm_pwill9350 44M
53 posts
8/24/2006 4:56 am

Vanessa I now you have already had a couple of days at work but good luck anyway. With your personality and attitude you should have no problem fitting in and making new friends. When I am stressed out just try and take a few moments and relax by reading a book or just talking with some friends. Everyone is different but I am sure you will work it out.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
8/25/2006 6:45 am

Don't ever give up baby. As easy as it seems to do that and I know first hand, no matter how many times you fall to bottom of hole and have to dig,scratch and claw your way to the top.*Hugz*

Kittypurrfectt 51F

8/25/2006 5:03 pm

Dahlings -
Don't give up. There is always something around da corner.
Chin up and keep looking. We R here 4 U & if we can help - we will.

Sometimes U just have 2 wait 4 da sunshine to poke thru da clouds.
- - note 2 self - take same dose of med dishing out 2 Nessa - -
When it turns da bleakest - something always happens.

There 4 U, GIRL

Da Kitty

Mistress_Nessa 40F

8/26/2006 10:55 am

Thanks guys and gals... Your advice caring thoughts have helped me in more ways than one this week.

~ Nessa ~

rm_Dominic087 47M

8/26/2006 8:34 pm

Life is behond difficult at times. But from what I have heard from you and seen in your posts. You will come through it and be alright. You have children that count on you, I know that mine are the biggest thing that makes it worth while most the time. Keep your head up and when your child looks you in the eye and tell you that he/she loves you, it'll all be worth it.

romancedeprived 62M

8/27/2006 1:40 pm

we have never met or chatted before but from what I have read from you, you will be just fine.

I feel the same way many times but feel I have to keep plugging away and not let the troubles and bad times win.

Also the wife continues to tell me you are only given the burdens that you can overcome.

Hang in their sweetie and don't give up.....it was get better.

rd...spring valley area

ps.....I think I posted I was leaving the group awhile back but it seems i am always here....

rm_mike_achertz 44M
12 posts
8/28/2006 5:48 pm

Yeah, I feel down sometimes, like when I get banned from a group for absolutely no reason and without any explaination.
Why did you ban me from "Folks That Love Sex"?

Mistress_Nessa 40F

8/29/2006 9:47 pm

I'm sorry Mike, sometimes if the person is not active, AdultFriendFinder will ban them automatically, because of the group settings, or when I check to see who is active and who hasn't been active for a while, I'll ban someone by mistake, I will look into it as soon as possible.

~ Nessa ~

rm_mike_achertz 44M
12 posts
8/30/2006 8:39 pm

Okay, thanks Nessa...sorry didn't mean to pic on you its just that you're the Mod.

I was just worried I had offended someone, but was perplexed how I might have since I'm mostly a lurker.

You're the best...thanks again for clearing that up.

Mistress_Nessa 40F

8/31/2006 6:19 pm

I would suggest you make an introduction in the group and try to become more active, otherwise it will keep banning you every so often.

And you're welcome!

~ Nessa ~

lavoy5 63M  
9 posts
9/1/2006 6:24 am

Hello Mistress Nessa I hope one day to get to meet you and to get to know you

polaman681 48M  
77 posts
9/30/2006 9:46 am

Nessa I Have Sent You PMS with no Replies Can You Please Contact Me Then, I am Waiting,,, Sincerly POLAMAN.

rm_shrek215 60M
2 posts
10/7/2006 10:23 pm

    Quoting ohcurious14:
    Don't ever give up baby. As easy as it seems to do that and I know first hand, no matter how many times you fall to bottom of hole and have to dig,scratch and claw your way to the top.*Hugz*
Nessa, we've never spoken. I hope things are better now.

ps. I'd like to get to know you, plus speak to some old acquaintances.

Would you consider letting me back in to "folks that love sex"?

I read some of your other posts in this blog. You sound like a special lady, I'd love to be able to tell you more.


Mistress_Nessa 40F

11/5/2006 2:39 am

Shrek, I didn't know you had been banned, I'll get on it right away ok? I'd love to have u back!

~ Nessa ~


naughtywife03 37M/45F
47 posts
12/10/2006 10:18 am

Well i definately know what you r feelind nessa, been there in those situations where your life felt like it was spinning out of control and though I do not know you well (and i hope for that fact alone i do not cross the line here) but you are ONE OF THE STONGEST PEOPLE I KNOW.....and i know that as a mother......and at times you know better than anyone that it feels like you cant survive.....but you do.....I can honestly tell you i do not think i am that strong of a person.....Hope everything worked out....sorry so late reading these entries too but still new to this blogging thing.....talk soon.....


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