What to do??  

Mistress_Nessa 40F
527 posts
6/17/2006 7:12 am

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6/21/2006 12:56 pm

What to do??

What do you do when you're faced with a decision in life, that could change EVERYTHING about you? It can change how you view life, it can change how you act, how you feel, who your friends are, what you do in life.

Yet, everything in you that helps you decide is pulling you all different directions?! Your heart is telling you one thing, your mind is telling you something else, your senses are telling you yet something completely different!

How do you decide? and why does life have to be so damn complicated anyway?!

~ Nessa ~



timberwolf6972 44M

6/17/2006 7:52 am

You need to carefully think this out and weigh your options. Make sure that you have all the facts that you can collect. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut feelings, this is what I do and it serves me well. I wish you luck in your decision. {=}


GreyFox_in_LV 68M
167 posts
6/17/2006 8:03 am

What I do and recommend to others, "Use the Magic"
The Magic is "Put it in writing"

You get paper and pen, start with a brainstorming session ( just write down what pops into you head)

Then edit - cross off the stuff that isn't important to the issue to be decided.

Then organize what's left.

You will be surprised at how much easier those important decisions on your choices will be.

Good Luck and hope you choose well. We do live by the choices we make, so choose wisely.

Just an ol geezers 2 cents worth.


fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
6/17/2006 3:01 pm

First I second all the comments above. Second I totally agree with NB, you always make the right decisions Nessa even if you don't see it as such when you first make it.

No matter what I will stand by you...you know that.

Fuzzy

~~Fuzzy~~


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/17/2006 5:10 pm

A wise one once said, " Hmmmm. What would Ohc do? " a MN,NB,OC group hug.


Kittypurrfectt 51F

6/17/2006 9:53 pm

Nessa,

I think putting it in writing & list your pros & cons.
Think what you can & cannot live with.

What can you live with in the long run?
Are your doing this for you? Or R U doing this 4 someone else?

How will it affect your kids?

How will it affect your living home life? Your job?

What brings you the most happiness?

It is worth it?

Sometimes making a break helps - sometimes people take things the wrong way. Sometimes U just have 2 go for da Gusto & Da Hell with EveryOne else.

I wish you the Best in everything.
Always there 4 U if U need me.

Da Kitty


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:44 pm

    Quoting timberwolf6972:
    You need to carefully think this out and weigh your options. Make sure that you have all the facts that you can collect. Sometimes you just have to go with your gut feelings, this is what I do and it serves me well. I wish you luck in your decision. {=}
Thank you for your advice TW, it has been dully noted and appreciated. And thanks for coming by, feel free to do so any time!

~ Nessa ~


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:45 pm

    Quoting GreyFox_in_LV:
    What I do and recommend to others, "Use the Magic"
    The Magic is "Put it in writing"

    You get paper and pen, start with a brainstorming session ( just write down what pops into you head)

    Then edit - cross off the stuff that isn't important to the issue to be decided.

    Then organize what's left.

    You will be surprised at how much easier those important decisions on your choices will be.

    Good Luck and hope you choose well. We do live by the choices we make, so choose wisely.

    Just an ol geezers 2 cents worth.

Thank you for your advice OG, I actually was considering doing that before I read your post. I just might after all.

~ Nessa ~


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:48 pm

    Quoting NaughtyBlonde78:
    Decisions can be really difficult, Nessa, but I have no doubt that you'll make good ones... as you're such an intelligent lady. Chin up, Girl!
Thanks NB, ur a sweetheart!

~ Nessa ~


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:51 pm

    Quoting fancy_for_you:
    First I second all the comments above. Second I totally agree with NB, you always make the right decisions Nessa even if you don't see it as such when you first make it.

    No matter what I will stand by you...you know that.

    Fuzzy
Thanks Fuzzy, your a dear friend to me, and knowing that I can always count on you gives my heart warmth.

~ Nessa ~


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:53 pm

    Quoting ohcurious14:
    A wise one once said, " Hmmmm. What would Ohc do? " a MN,NB,OC group hug.
Yeah, what would Ohc do? lol, u know for a minute there I was thinking "Who's 'MN'?? lmao, duh!!

~ Nessa ~


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/21/2006 12:56 pm

    Quoting Kittypurrfectt:
    Nessa,

    I think putting it in writing & list your pros & cons.
    Think what you can & cannot live with.

    What can you live with in the long run?
    Are your doing this for you? Or R U doing this 4 someone else?

    How will it affect your kids?

    How will it affect your living home life? Your job?

    What brings you the most happiness?

    It is worth it?

    Sometimes making a break helps - sometimes people take things the wrong way. Sometimes U just have 2 go for da Gusto & Da Hell with EveryOne else.

    I wish you the Best in everything.
    Always there 4 U if U need me.

    Da Kitty
Thanks kitty, although I've already asked my self those questions, for some reason I'm having difficulty answering some of them... I'm sure things will be fine whatever I choose, either way it's not like it has to be written in stone right?

~ Nessa ~


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