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Not too long ago was responding to someone else about the elusive and sexual nature of good photos. Have to admit, my boot shots aren't good, but I was obviously not the person taking them. I do believe they represent more about myself than the size of my genitalia, hairiness of my armpits or anal cavity.
Now I've had a few requests for my pic. Let's go over this. I don't know who you are. We've talked only in e-mail for perhaps a day and you're hoping to get nakkid face shots of me?
Hello, who the hell do you think you're playing with? I am a freakin' professional with a profession I stand to lose if I smear my picture across the worldwide web for every tom, DICK and Hairy to see. I have to be absolutely sure that I can trust you on EVERY level. I would hope that you, too, have certain things you expect before you easily trust a stranger.
Once there is a level of trust there I *may* choose to exchange photos and maybe meet. But assure yourself I am NOT making myself sexually available to everyone I speak with. I am not making myself emotionally available to everyone I speak with- and being in a dom/ sub relationship is just that. I am also not meeting every lookey-loo who responds to me.
I am selective IRL and on the web. There may be other people who use this as a venue for a quick, meet me after dinner for cheap sex and I don't care if you're an uneducated bimbo with buckteeth and a few hundred extra pounds.... but I am not one of those people. I have always been selective about my sexual partners. Call that a shortcoming on a site like this. Call it what you will, but being true to who I am and what I am is just one facet of my personality.
So, if you think anything comes easy with Mistress Kits then think again. I've been onlining for over a decade now and know very well the different lies and stories purported on the web. I've been to GTs and met ppl from online... generally I've found the safest thing for me is to talk via the web for a good amount of time and if it's right then go forward. What do I mean by right? Generally you know after chatting with someone for a length of time if they are telling the truth.
I can assure you that anyone who has had the pleasure to meet me has not been disappointed. I'm a fairly attractive woman with general features, nothing abnormal or adverse about them. Assure yourself I won't ask for a nakid picture of your willy or breasts. I can get cheap jollies much easier elsewhere. I won't ask for a picture of your face, your address or your phone number. I don't care about your car, the size of the sexual organ that gawd gave you (as if you really have anything to do with the size/ length/ width of it) nor will I ask you for any identifying information early on.
Sorry to sound so cynical, but that's the core of it.
6/28/2005 6:48 pm
By your thinking even Bambi's photo can be used for evil. I have a PG photo posted on my website, so does my publisher on theirs. It's there for the whole world to see. If we worried about a PG photo being used for wrong doing, then we all would be scared. |
Don't get me wrong your just worred that someone that seemed nice and professional might blurt out in public that your a Mistress on AdultFriendFinder or spread it all over places you don't want to see it. I get that. But, please...whats someone going to do and or want to do the a normal face shot.
I guess the Mistress has to really trust you.