The lack of personal curiosity shown by male subs when in talks with a potential domme.  

Miss_Morrigan 52F
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4/27/2006 9:42 am

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5/3/2006 6:12 am

The lack of personal curiosity shown by male subs when in talks with a potential domme.

This is something I have pondered for some time and again the issue raised its head.

There could be a variety of reasons... it was suggested to me that one possibility is that subs don't want to come across as being too inquisitive for fear of spoiling their chances.

While I can see this occurring in some subs, not the vast majority of those I have had contact with. I have talked with other dom/mes and some of those have experienced the same, others don't care b/c they are seeking very casual encounters and therefore a personal knowledge of someone's life/background isn't of interest to them which I find disappointing.

The questions that tend to be asked all amount to the same thing... "What is it you can do for me on a sexual level... who you are is of no interest to me, I want to know if you are capable of fulfilling my fantasies"

It does make me wonder why they insist on stating they are pursuing a relationship when their lack of personal interest indicates otherwise.

When two persons meet and it appears they have potential, deciding to pursue that.. it's human nature to be hungry for information regarding the object of their desire. Is this the result of initiating contact with seemingly like-minded persons online? If not, it seems to occur with alarming regularity.

angelofmercy5 59F
17881 posts
4/27/2006 12:03 pm

Welcome to the blogs!

Miss_Morrigan 52F

4/27/2006 1:17 pm

Good evening to you, Angelofmercy, and thank you for the welcome.

elysianpleasure 47M

4/27/2006 6:37 pm

Welcome to the blog... I agree with you. I can't have a relationship with someone and not have some interest in who they are... what they are like... seems kind of cold otherwise...

Drop by and say hi sometime... Elysian

Miss_Morrigan 52F

4/28/2006 11:04 am

Elysian, thank you for the welcome. We all cater our relationships according to our desires/needs, etc... for some, such relationships may seem cold, for others it could be all they need and good luck to them if it is. In order that I, as well as my submissive, can achieve the intensity and depth I require then it's necessary for us to have that emotional attachment. We both then inspire one another otherwise it's just 'cruising'.

Nice to hear from you Elysian.


SirMounts 102M

5/2/2006 8:44 pm

Well, perhaps you are just running into a higher amount of shallow, one-dimensional Men like Me these days. *winking*
Welcome to blogging, Miss Morrigan. *smiling*

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