Profile Pics  

MissAnnThrope 56F
11679 posts
9/30/2005 5:05 pm

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Profile Pics

I've noticed something around here that baffles me. Yes, the dick pic is here to stay. However, I just don't get the men claiming to be single, who post pics of them getting a blow job or fucking some chick.

Now, don't get me wrong. If you're part of a couple and playing as a couple, these pictures are appropriate. But single men using them?

Guys, do you really think we women find that hot? Most of the women I know find it tacky, as do I. What do you think your former girlfriends, lovers, drunken one night stands would think if they knew you were posting these pictures? Do you really think they'd be cool with it, or not recognize themselves? What is the point? All of them look like bareback pics too. I haven't seen a condom visible in one yet. Yes, it's basically a sex site, but seriously, do you really think most of us are going to look twice at a wannabe porn star, who doesn't want to wear a condom?

Ladies, what do you think of single men who do this? Gentlemen, what are your opinions of these pics? How would you feel about a woman who posted bareback fucking and sucking pics on her profile? Guys who post these pics, do you have any luck whatsoever with those pics?

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/1/2005 10:02 am

*Stands up and gives one heck of around of applause* Very well said, thank you.


digdug41 49M

10/1/2005 5:28 pm

I dont know whats up with half the people here but hey msann I could'nt have written it better myself good post

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rm_sj365 55F
2414 posts
10/2/2005 7:55 am

yup, thats what I always look for in a man...another woman with her head bobbin on his dick

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/2/2005 5:49 pm

Thanks, CuteAZ and digdug.

sj, yeah, just what I always wanted too. To be posed for the next set of pics.

I'm sure these guys are trying to show off their sexual prowess. However, a snap shot of an instant doesn't tell us anything.

rm_CauseISaidSo 48F
182 posts
10/3/2005 3:03 am

I couldn't even make a dent at trying to describe how rude, inconsiderate, and how outright beyond the pale disgusting it is to view a profile of someone who is interested in me, who features a naked action shot of another person with them. It makes me think, "do you think I want to be another member of your unsuspecting photo archive harem?? Do you really think that I could ever be with you without thinking.."okay, where's the camera?"

It is just so appallingly Neanderthal and exploitative that it defies even trying to understand their point of view. I love that you made this a topic, MissAnn. So there, I finally commented on your blog, ya happy now?

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/3/2005 8:34 pm

Cause, um, could you look a little to your left? Little more, no, that's too far... PERFECT CAMERA ANGLE! er, I mean, you look gorgeous at that angle. And yes, thank you Cause, I am happy now.

vengeur 41M
836 posts
10/4/2005 7:06 am


AdultFriendFinder lists its own guidelines and standards for this site, and from from what I recall reading, single people's profiles are only supposed to have pics that show the respective profile owner and nobody else. However, it certainly does appear that this rule is getting fully enforced.

MissAnnThrope 56F
11488 posts
10/4/2005 2:13 pm

vengeur, lots of single men have pics of them getting a blow-job, where the woman is visible from the nose down, or her eyes are blocked out. They also have a number of men and women claiming to be single, who have fucking pics. I've been noticing a lot of them lately. They aren't couple status. Hell, even a reg from the NYC room has a pic he and I posed for on his profile and it got approved. But that one has comedic value, so perhaps that's how it got approved.

The rule isn't being enforced. I wish I had saved handles about now, so I could give you a list. Mostly men do it, but there are lots of single people, mostly men, with the sucking and fucking pics.

JustSayHi2006 56F

10/4/2005 3:49 pm

I've gotten these kind of pics in emails as well. I always reply and ask the sender if they thought that sending me a picture of themself with their tongue stuck in a woman's pussy or their dick in someone's mouth was supposed to endear them to me...of course, I've never gotten a return reply.

vengeur 41M
836 posts
10/4/2005 5:21 pm


My apologies - the last sentence of my previous comment was supposed to say:

However, it certainly does appear that this rule is NOT getting fully enforced.

I was actually trying to agree with your blog post from the onset.

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