Have You Ever Had Sex With Someone By Accident?  

MissAnnThrope 56F
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8/14/2006 7:39 am

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Have You Ever Had Sex With Someone By Accident?

A while back, one of the old regulars came into chat, after a rather odd date. He announced it was story time, but first said he had a question for the women. Had any of us ever had sex with someone by accident? Sex by accident, we all ask? What does that mean?

He told us the story. He had a date that night with a young lady he met on the site. He thought dinner went well. They sat there for four hours, they had lots in common, conversation flowed. He thought he had met someone really great. Well, it came time to take her home. He walks her to the door and leans in to give her a kiss on the cheek. She backs off and says to him, "you're someone I'd have sex with on purpose." Then she walked in the house and locked the door.

Once the shock of the fact someone would actually say something like that wore off, we started going through scenarios of how someone could possibly have sex by accident. We considered a slip and fall in the ladies gym locker room, sliding on the wet floor and landing in the men's locker room, firmly entrenched on a stranger's penis. Or getting drunk at a party and thinking you're having sex with the guy you were trying to pick up all night, but actually picking up his friend. Or being blindfolded and picking the wrong man. Or even that scene from "Clerks".

But this does beg the question. Have any of you ever had sex with someone by accident?

free2chose2 66F

8/14/2006 7:44 am

LOL, I'll stay tuned for this one

Don't worry, be Happy

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:20 am:
Heh heh heh...

MillsShipsGayly 51M

8/14/2006 7:52 am

Some people avoid sex on a first date and when they do they call it an accident.

As for me, one time I got drunk and had sex with someone I shouldn't have. We decided to call it an accident and pretend it didn't happen (we worked together).

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:23 am:
Yeah, but to lean in to kiss someone on the cheek, not even the mouth and have them tell you that? That's just plain weird.

How did pretending it never happened work for you two? I would call that accidental sex.

HotTXpussy4U 48F

8/14/2006 7:56 am

Hmmm...does having sex that were "accidents" count???

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:23 am:
I'm afraid to ask what that means.

rm_connor696 60M
834 posts
8/14/2006 7:59 am

It made me think of all those tales from the late middle ages, as in the Cantebury Tales or Till Eulenspiegel, where a person (usually a man) disguises himself as another and has sex with someone else's spouse. I suppose the spouse has sex "by accident" (though if you think about it, " " is the more accurate word).

Yet I think I may have had sex by accident. I recall one time very definitely thinking, "I will not sleep with the person; I will NOT sleep with this person." I gave her a chaste kiss and turn to go . . . and yet somehow we ended up in bed. It must have been accidental, cuz it sure as hell wasn't on purpose.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:24 am:
That does qualify as not having sex on purpose.

bipolybabe 54F

8/14/2006 8:09 am

"By accident"? Never. Though I like the idea of tripping a handsome fellow and having him accidentally land on top of me. Completely naked and erect.



Check out my blog Bi-Poly-Babe for more sensual, sexual pleasure!

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:25 am:
Yeah, I think we all like that thought. Well, except for the guys.

manoflemuncha 105M
39 posts
8/14/2006 8:15 am


Very funny: sex with someone by accident! ha ha ha

First, instead of answering your question, perhaps we should back up a step or two and examine what the young lady actually said more closely. She said, "you're someone I'd have sex with on purpose". Well, no bold impropriety meant, MissAnnThorpe, but I second that emotion. Seriously though, the young lady likely was on very unfamiliar, shaky footing with the man and thus stumbled in her nervousness (come on, you've been there too, remember?)

On a side note, I've seen pictures of the "glory holes" at oceanside parks in California and Long Island, NY, where neither person on each side sees the other while engaged in sex, so I suppose it is entirely possible to have sex with someone by accident.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:28 am:
How nervous can you be though, once you've sat at dinner with someone for four hours, allowed that person to pick you up and take you home and all of that? I just think it was a bitchy thing to say.

I'm not sure glory holes qualify. I mean, you're using them to get sucked off by an anonymous person, not even knowing if it's a man or a woman on the other side.

ShaneLiveLife 50M

8/14/2006 8:46 am

Great question !

I'm not sure if it counts but ....

.... I always slept naked with my last partner

........ usually in the spoon position

............. and nightly erection cycles being what they are ...

Well, anyway, does unplanned penetration whilst sleeping count as accidental sex! ....

BTW she told me what HE was up to (without the go ahead from me ! )

Live with passion !

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:29 am:
Heh. That's a rather amusing story. I'm not sure it counts as accidental though. It would depend on what you were dreaming. I'm just suprised you didn't wake up.

2daycowboywanted 45F

8/14/2006 8:54 am

LOL - thanks for the giggles!

Until later

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:29 am:
You're welcome.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
8/14/2006 9:30 am

"I understand..you slipped and fell...and your dick landed in my wife" bruce willis movie..cant remember what it was called though.

Sex by accident...I dont think it happens....its a choice...there are things that make you think less clear but you still make the choice....do you regret said choice later on...Im sure that happens alot...but to say it was an "accident" is just lame...

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:30 am:
I never saw that movie.

Well, as someone else here pointed out, is sex by accident and not on purpose the same thing? I have to reevaluate the question after that comment.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
8/14/2006 9:39 am

Um... well, no penetration was involved... but did have a spontaneous totally mindless foreplay and oral session once. it was accidental in that it wasn't planned, and was, in fact, not even considered a possibility for either of us. just an innocent touch, something sparked, and next thing we knew we were buck-naked lying in bed in the other room. i guess i should be thankful we were scared of eachother i was too "small" and he too "big" and both of us were terrified to go further.

on the other hand... being so suddenly engulfed in flames of passion was amazing. And amusing afterwards... trying to find our clothes.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:34 am:
I'm not sure spontaneity qualifies, unless this is someone you wouldn't have sex with on purpose. Which in my mind says, no attraction whatsoever.

SlimGoodGuy 38M

8/14/2006 10:49 am

I like how it's always the woman who slips and falls on some guy's dick. AdultFriendFinder's floors are not slippery enough.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:35 am:
Hey, offer to help them wax the floors to an ice rink gloss and consistency. That should help things out.

TheRealThing655 48F
9558 posts
8/14/2006 12:36 pm

lol...no I can't say I have.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:43 am:
I haven't either.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
8/14/2006 1:44 pm

Thou jest of course. Oh sure I have, slipped and fell right inside of this chick, right in the mall. Sex by accident? Not remotely possible. Unintended sex? Yeah sure, happens a lot. But it isn't by accident. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:43 am:
How about sex with someone you'd rather die than have sex with?

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
8/14/2006 1:50 pm

Well, there was that time when I was fast asleep ... but I'm sure you don't want the gory details

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:44 am:
Is a sleep fucker anything like a sleep walker?

(What the fuck is this shit..?? *rolls eyes*)

8/14/2006 3:09 pm

No and if it were possible,do you have any idea how accident prone men would be..??....Ready


MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:45 am:
I thought men were accident prone to begin with.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/14/2006 4:32 pm

I think that's the only way I could ever get laid. If someone were to trip and fall, land on me.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:46 am:
I'm sending you five gallons of floor wax. Let me know if it works.

NickRules999 39M
9462 posts
8/14/2006 4:33 pm

    Quoting nightstalker172:
    "I understand..you slipped and fell...and your dick landed in my wife" bruce willis movie..cant remember what it was called though.

    Sex by accident...I dont think it happens....its a choice...there are things that make you think less clear but you still make the choice....do you regret said choice later on...Im sure that happens alot...but to say it was an "accident" is just lame...
It was Last Boy Scout.

Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?

OboesHonedIambs 62F

8/14/2006 11:02 pm

I guess if I did not start out with the intention of having sex with someone and it just happened spontaneously. But damn, it's been a way long time since that's happened. ouch! that just made me wistful.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:50 am:
I consider spontaneous and not on purpose to be different things. We've all spontaneously combusted with someone at some point. And yeah, it's been a long time since that happened with me too.

SensuousWoman3 55F
3106 posts
8/15/2006 2:16 am

Oh, sure. I've tripped and been accidently impaled a couple of times. Not to worry---it's covered by insurance.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:53 am:
It is? I have to get some accidental sex coverage. So I stop getting sued when I tell men I tripped.

redmustang91 57M  
8568 posts
8/15/2006 9:17 am

Well an accident might be a sleepover in a bed and you happen to penetrate the wrong partner, thinking you were going to be in one woan rather than another. something like this happened between Steve Martin and John Candy in "Planes, Trains and Autos"! Never happened to me but might be quite funny if it did! I did see an article about sleep sex, does that count?

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:55 am:
I've never seen that movie. But I'm not sure sleep sex counts, either. Wasn't that some weird defense some guy used to try to get out of a charge a few years ago?

header1979 37M
507 posts
8/15/2006 11:27 am

Hey MissAnn,

In this case the opposite of "on purpose" may not be "accident." She didn't say the word "accident." That was a word that the storyteller came up with.

She could have used "on purpose" to mean that she would deliberately have sex with this guy after planning and consideration. It would be more of a result of a relationship that developed. The opposite may have been "casual" sex or sex with no meaning. A one-night-stand.

She may consider him something better than a one-night-stand and wants to develop the relationship before having sex.

Of course, we don't know what she actually had in mind but this is one possibility.

Your friend ought to call her back for another date and take it easy to see how things develop. She may have been impressed by him and has a high regard for him.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 6:59 am:
Yeah, she didn't say accident, but that was about the closest we could come up with.

She refused another date with him, so it wasn't that she wanted to plan an encounter. Mind you, he leaned in to give her a kiss on the cheek, not on the lips.

This was actually a few years ago that this happened, for some reason it popped into my head the other day. Since then, he's met a very nice girl and they've been together for over two years now.

rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
8/15/2006 11:46 am

Well, yes, I have, actually.

When I first joined this site, I communicated with someone via email, but was reluctant to meet him (even tho he sounded like a really good guy). Stuff happened, life progressed and I decided to track him down once again.

I checked my email and, lo and behold, there was an email from him, that very day. I was a little surpised that a previously articulte and urbane gentleman would send me an email that said simply "Are you horny?" but figured well, maybe it was the next step in this new world. So I wrote back, "Yeah, as a matter of fact."

We arranged to meet a few days later. Somewhere around then I noticed that there was a cooler in his photograh that hadn't been there before.

Then it dawned on me.

It was a different picture because IT WAS A DIFFERENT FREAKIN GUY!!!

I was going to cancel but since we were meeting at the requisite neutral location, I figured what the hell.

Eventually? I accidentally had sex with him.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 7:00 am:
But was he either of the guys in the pics he used? Something like that, I would have cancelled and found someone else.

velvetgrrrl 39F

8/15/2006 2:28 pm

Sex by accident? I don't care how drunk you are/were. You have sex because the need is there and your inhibitions may be down. What the reason for matters not. That line from Last BoyScout is about right? I mean seriously sex by accident it would have to be a really kinky scenario frome to even consider that someone's dick could "accidentally" end up in side of any of my orafices.

However the eprversions in my mind do create some exotic forced sex situations, but that woldn't be an accident either.

That was just the weirdest comment I've ever seen someone make...
sex on purpose
*shakes head*
I suppose its one of those you had to be there moments!

Hell is when u should have walked away, but u didn't.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 7:02 am:
I suppose it was a nice way of telling him she'd rather become a lesbian. OK, nice isn't the word, but there were meaner things she could have said, although, they also wouldn't have been the mind fuck he ended up getting.

Kaliedascope61 41M
4084 posts
8/15/2006 4:52 pm

I'm just wondering why a would woman would say that in the first place, is it a good thing? or a bad thing? or am I missing something?

I would have been baffled as all get out if someone said that to me.

Not to mention the after party of the next question, sex by accecident...I'm confused now thanks.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 7:03 am:
It's a bad thing if you ask me. It means not on your life, but delivers the mind fuck at the same time.

nightstalker172 36M
1258 posts
8/15/2006 5:36 pm

Thank you that was buggin me

Transblucency 44M

8/16/2006 6:57 pm

No I have not but if such a thing were to happen, I trust I'd be able to keep "Oh I'm terribly sorry, I thought you were someone else" to myself.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 7:05 am:
Ah, but if she screamed, "WHAT THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU'RE DOING?" I bet you'd use that line.

rm_1hotwahine 62F
21091 posts
8/17/2006 10:05 am

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 5:00 am:
But was he either of the guys in the pics he used? Something like that, I would have cancelled and found someone else.

Sorry. I was trying to condense the already too long comment and over condensed, I guess.

His profile photo was very similar to the profile photo of the person I'd been communicating with and their handles were similar as well. So it was a case of mistaken identity, based on me being an idiot.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/18/2006 6:44 am:

You know, that happened to me once, in a slightly different way. Sex by mistaken identity. They looked incredibly alike.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
8/17/2006 5:43 pm

Look Ann, you're tt a guy who would screw Ann Coulter (think she'd bring the blow? ) but I've been Coyote Ugly, so........
I'm overweight, over 59 and underfunded; you have to work at being a "hate to fuck" at THAT stage. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/18/2006 6:46 am:
The question is, would she share her blow? Hey, if I was a man, I'd want to fuck her too and make it hurt. I mean, be brutal.

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
8/18/2006 7:43 am

But for the record, I STILL dig Maureen Dowd more. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/19/2006 11:19 am:
Her writing, or her fabulous self?

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
8/18/2006 3:21 pm

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/17/2006 2:44 pm:
Is a sleep fucker anything like a sleep walker?

I don't know ... I've never walked in my sleep

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/19/2006 11:19 am:
uh-huh... *grumble*

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
8/19/2006 4:08 pm

Both, always like Maureen better. Coulter is fuckable, Maureen is sexy. Big difference. And Dowd is a hell of alot smarter. See, I haven't fallen as far from grace as you thought. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/19/2006 4:25 pm:
I was starting to get worried there.

redmustang91 57M  
8568 posts
8/22/2006 1:02 pm

Apparently the sleep sex thing is real, and at least one guy did beat a charge with this defense. "Reasonable doubt" is a wonderful thing for the defense! Try Google or wikipedia on the subject.

MissAnnThrope replies on 8/24/2006 7:22 pm:
I looked it up. Most of a history of somnambulism. Great, so now, you can claim you were sleepwalking and your dick just slid in someone so you're not guity of . That's as stupid as the Twinkie murder defense.

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