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Fun With Webcams
Fun With Webcams
Clean up your minds now. It's not what you think.
Last night, StifflersMother, romeo50045 and I fired up the web cams for a drinking game in the NYC room. Drink when a bot comes in, drink when someone comes in who can't speak a word of English, etc. The cams were to keep us honest and make sure we drank when we were supposed to. WantMoreSex45 was our moderator, so to speak, she kept us honest and monitored the cams. She made sure we drank when we were supposed to. It was hard for the participants to keep an eye on the room, on the cams and swig, so she was instrumental to keeping us all honest and drinking. Especially since Stiffy seemed more interested in playing with software for her cam, that put her in various disguises. (I still want that software.)
The game was quite fun, although, when you run a web cam on here, it turns on the IMC program automatically. I was turning down pages the entire time. Yes, we were checking pages, as getting certain messages meant we had to drink. I got a few amusing ones, asking about the drinking game.
While there were the ones I did answer, to explain what was going on, the directors were all watching. Show us your tits, show us your pussy, well, let's just say the one cat got a good amount of web cam time.
However, there are the idiots who think they're porn directors and everyone with a cam should be a budding porn star. Right... These guys won't take a decline or ignore of their messages for an answer. I had a few of those. However, there was one who was so slighted I wasn't showing anything on cam, I got this in my mailbox:
Date: Dec 29, 2005 2:54 AM EST
Why do you bother going on webcam ?If you showed your tits and cunt,someone might watch
OK, this guy is in New Zealand. We all know what they say about Kiwis. So I couldn't resist. This was my response back:
I go on cam for my friends on this site. You might have noticed the phrase "Friend Finder" is in the URL. Friends of mine in the NYC room and I were playing a drinking game on cam last night. If you can't deal with the fact that people go on cam so their friends can see them, then you need to get a grip. I realize you have nothing to fuck in your area of New Zealand other than sheep, but do keep in mind, I am in no way morally obliged to show you anything I don't want to on cam, just because you can't be bothered buying a porn mag on the local newsstand.
I will show what I want when I want on cam. I am not a budding porn star, I am not looking for strange men that I wouldn't take to bed in the first place to be leering directors with dick in hand. My body, my choice. It is as simple as that.
Have a happy new year and I hope your sheep forgives you and lets you back into bed.
Then I wonder why people call me Satan.
But this brings me to a point.
Gentlemen, and for some of you, I am using that word very loosely, you do not have the right to dictate to the women of the site what we show on cam. If you want a peepshow, there are plenty of sites on the web that are simply for that. Women who are paid to do what you ask them to do on cam. There are also the women on here who will do anything for attention. I can name a few. Hell, I don't even take orders from the smoking fetishists who wanted me to chain smoke. They sent me a message saying light another and I told them when I damn well felt like it. And I smoke like a chimney!
I realize all too well you call can do screen shot captures, record web cams and the like. I don't wish to end up on film or in someone's porn collection. I don't want to hear that I'm on some BBW streaming video site. Or any other for that matter.
So to all you directors, chill. If a woman tells you no, don't get surly. Deal with it. If you're sitting around watching women on cam as you masturbate, you're more than likely used to rejection from women all your life. So learn to deal with online rejection, as you've had to with real life rejection. Don't harass. Don't send multiple messages that will get you reported to abuse. Handle the fact you were told no and move onto someone who is more interested in being an exhibitionist for you and who is willing to take direction from an anonymous person on the other side of the world.
We all have our own ideas of fun with web cams. Just because mine isn't yours, it doesn't mean I'm not allowed to run it. For every one of you director types who think women are nothing but objects who should shed their clothes while you wank, there are about 5 who appreciate looking at someone's face. So deal with it.
Now that said, I'm amazed I'm not hung over today. I don't normally drink vodka straight. OK, it was flavored vodka and I did end up switching to swings of amaretto, but I'm not used to drinking vodka straight, even when I have a chaser right there. But I swear, whoever decided cranberry flavored vodka would be a good idea, should be taken out and thrashed within an inch of his life. Blech.
But I did get my first solid sleep since the ebola hit.
12/29/2005 2:37 pm
I'm going to get more Goose ... can we please play again tonight???? can we invite CauseI? |
I like to use the cam to keep in touch with friends who dont live nearby, ask if my ass looks fat in these jeans or if dress a bit too much for a Repubican Fundraiser, and.. well.. also to see things from a point of view that others have seen and i havent.
in short, i use it mostly for myself.
and btw.. when i turn into a hot horny porn star, i never use this screename. hahahahaha... but if you do bust me, please dont talk to me.. my hands are busy!
see ya at Game Time!
12/29/2005 2:38 pm
I hear ya.|
I have a friend on this site who hasn't been on for a while, but occasionally broacasts her webcam. She's an exhibitionist, but has said that she doesn't take orders, but there are still guys in the room, hooting and hollering to take something off or play with herself. I'm the only guy in there trying to have a decent conversation with her. Guys, for some reason, think they're entitled to sex. I don't know why, and I'm a guy.
Come into my realm! You aren't afraid...are you?
12/29/2005 5:29 pm
Stiffy, hell yeah, we're on for tonight! The drinking seems to be helping the ebola. Or sterilizing my system. Or something. I just got back from the liquor store. Grey Goose was on sale! Woo-hoo! Now off to Shop-Rite to see if they have strawberry drink syrup, so I can do shots of Live Human Brains tonight... 1/3 vodka, 1/3 chocolate liqueur and 1/3 strawberry syrup! Get the scrunchies ready!|
Nick, the directors are all over the site. I tease the women I know when they turn on their cams, screaming, "Show us your tits!" Only one has been dumb enough to take me seriously. I hear she put on quite a show for the guys, too. There have always been guys here who think they're entitled to sex, just for joining. They do tend to live in a fantasy world and project their bitterness onto the women of the site. Even in the early days of this site, I would get the ones who told me they paid for a membership, they like my pic, I had damned well better fuck them. Yeah. They always tend to lurk away when I offer to take up a collection to get them a blow-up doll. Men.
1/7/2006 2:11 pm
Good for you Miss Ann! I love your attitude! warm xx|
1/31/2006 8:37 am
what a goon that guy was from NZ. Why on earth would he be interested in something so old anyway?|