Advice Just Seen In A Chat Room  

MissAnnThrope 56F
11679 posts
8/18/2005 11:44 pm

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Advice Just Seen In A Chat Room

"be sure to date others too, then they really open their wallets"

WTF? Since when is the idea to take men for every penny? Sure, being taken out is nice, no one wants a date to take them to McDonald's. However, unless you have unrealistic expectations, you don't expect to be taken to 21 either.

I just don't get this mindset at all.

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
8/19/2005 12:58 am

I would rather go to McDonalds with someone I love, than anywhere with someone I don't thank god I'm broke.
It saves me the guessing.

rm_sharksnsails 46M
738 posts
8/19/2005 1:00 am

sorry, I wrote that in the wrong person,,,
it should have read "I would rather go to McD's with someone who loves me (for me) than anywhere with someone who doesn't"
my bad

oldrwomanforu 65F

8/19/2005 3:50 am

out for drinks will do for me ...just to get to know the person a bit...

rdy2try4 51F  
3039 posts
8/19/2005 12:47 pm

Okay, I have to try to remain unbiased here. That is hard to do at times MissAnn. lolol

I don't think women get 'revenge' on men for money and being paid less. I do think there are those that actually think they can get 'easy' money this way because after all, many men are thinking with their heads between their legs not between their shoulders and it makes it easy.

However, on the flip side, there are men that truly think that waving money will get the women because there ARE those women. Unfortunately they are not always good women.

I truly don't think that anyone should be flashing tons of money to get dates, and I don't think that men should expect sex for a dinner either. My body is worth more than ANY dinner you could pay for. I am priceless. But I also don't think it is fair for some of those women who take advantage of it either.

I think it would be best resolved if men didn't flash anything around and were just themselves. So that means keep you pocket book shut and your dick in your pants!!! Get to KNOW someone first. I make ALL first dates Dutch. I pay my half and you pay yours. I owe no man anything.

oldrwomanforu 65F

8/19/2005 9:27 pm

where do u guys get all these screwed up ideas about women??? maybe some girl fucked u over. doesn't mean we're all like that!!!

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