What's wrong with me?  

Mikey_B1972 44M
134 posts
8/7/2005 12:26 am

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What's wrong with me?

Well, another sat night goes by at the club. I go in search of a piece of ass that might just be worth talking to. I end up home alone. Not because i couldn't, but because i wouldn't. My boys kept pushing me to pick up on this one chic, but i saw the wedding ring, which she openly admitted she didn't care. I bought her a few drinks, we hung out in the V.I.P lounge, I was horny as they get, but I yet did not close the deal. Something about me getting hurt when i was younger will just not allow me to *cheat with anyone. I do not want to be the other guy. My boys ragged on me in the parking lot, because i did not take her home. I just refuse to be the one to destroy someone elses relationship, even though she will just do it with someone else anyway. If he knew and was down with the swapping thing, it would be ok. Just the thought of cheating and lieing gets me pissed off.

nakednightswimme 40F

8/7/2005 10:55 am

Good for you, that's how I personally feel and I wish it was a view shared by more people.... Cheating is always wrong and helping someone cheat is no better.... Why tarnish your soul for a piece of ass? I'm not at all the normal religious type but I'm all about honor. I respect you more for not taking her home than probably anything else you could have said on AdultFriendFinder.... Sometimes what defines you is what you don't do. And I also don't have any hang ups about people who swap, I personally think it's the best way to go, you get a great partner for life but still get to have some fun along the way.... Anyway hope your having a nice relaxing Sunday, you deserve it.

bella_ 47F
4030 posts
8/12/2005 4:56 pm

this problem affects a lot of us sometimes...it is confusing to do what we want and what we know is right. A pull between right or wrong, desire and lust...I think you did the right thing.

Mikey_B1972 44M

8/12/2005 7:11 pm

Thanks Ladies, it makes me feel better knowing a womens point of view. i really do try to do the morally correct thing at all times

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