The Hunter or the hunted..that is the question  

Mikey_B1972 44M
134 posts
2/27/2006 5:59 pm

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The Hunter or the hunted..that is the question

Wow, this weekend was also great. I went out Sat night with the whole "who gives a shit" attitude.I had already reserved the largest V.I.P. room in the house because i wanted to be able to sit down and relax whenever i wanted. I could not believe what a difference by being the aggressor and the hunter at the club. As stated in earlier blogs, i usually just hang at the bar and wait for a chic to make the first move or at least show a sign. Sat night, i was walking up to women that i did not know and just started conversations. Of course, i invited them to the room to meet my friends and have a few drinks. I have not sealed a deal in over a year, but i really am not in that state of mind. I think i played the field so much when i was younger, that now i want to sit back and play the ref position.

HERE IS MY QUESTION: These days and ages, do women seek the aggressive man that walks up and feeds her a line or do they value a gentleman that awaits an invitation and then slowly makes the approach?


MMDeveloper 34M
70 posts
2/27/2006 7:19 pm

I am not the aggressive type, and I haven't been laid in a while either. I think that today's women statistically want the aggressive type... kinda like the "you snooze you lose" syndrome. That's just my $0.02


Mikey_B1972 44M

2/28/2006 4:21 pm

MM.........I think you are right. Lately i have been doing just that, being aggressive, and it seems to work better. I quess part of me is just old school when it comes to women and feel like i should await some sort of signal before i approach...


MMDeveloper 34M
70 posts
2/28/2006 8:31 pm

yeah well ignore that old school cause that's what I was always taught (parents were very passive) and that's what I'd always done.. You do NOT want MY sex record.


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