Nice guys always finish last......  

Mikey_B1972 44M
134 posts
7/23/2005 5:38 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Nice guys always finish last......

Something I have been trying to figure out is why some chics will have naked photos and describe how they want to have sex, yet a guy emails them just wanting to chat, and he doesn't even get a return email saying at least something like he isn't her style. If a guys profile shows his cock standing at attention and his profile reads he wants to just do nothing but have sex and doesn't care what your name is, he gets emails and offers like something was going out of style..

Do women just not want a nice guy?

Do any other men feel the same?

I am thinking about becoming an asshole so i can get some responses..

ih8usrnames 40M

7/23/2005 6:20 pm

I wouldn'nt do that Mikey. I'm an asshole and I don't get any replies in my e-mail either. The gender imbalance on this site can leave men feeling a little unwanted and more susceptable to making compromises in terms of thier own values what they want.

SweetSouthrnGrl 44F

7/23/2005 6:27 pm

Nice guys are hard to find...if you are one, please don't change. The real ones of us out here need to keep the hope alive.

Good luck in your search!

Mikey_B1972 44M

7/23/2005 6:29 pm

ih8usrnames- Don't get me wrong, i do get emails and rsponses, but none have really *came through with anything. I have made some cool friends and had some really good conversations using the blogs. Which by the way, if you want to check out a chic that is hot on the outside and even hotter on the inside--look at Bella and her blogs..She is sooo deep and sensual..Sorry, got off track. I am not really on the site to just meet a chic and fuck, although every now and then that would be nice.I would like to make a friendship with benefits. I like to know people. Working in the clubs for years has left me a social bug. I enjoy meeting people and hanging out, even if there are no sparks for sex.

Mikey_B1972 44M

7/23/2005 6:46 pm

SweetSouthrngrl---I really don't want to change, but it is like i am being forced to. I was raised in a military manner(father is a U.S Marine) I tell things how i see them and i am a genuine guy.. Women mistake my kindness as a weekness. Only once they give me a chance, do they see i am not a push over. I know women want that *occassional bad boy, but don't they want a guy that is respectful and treats you great, and when he needs to be a bad boy, he can?

SweetSouthrnGrl 44F

7/24/2005 7:45 am

The ones that want to be treated like dirt aren't worth your time,hon. There aren't many of you guys out there that don't rely on bs to get you through life. I am of the philosophy, if you don't like me the way I am...there's the door don't let it hit your ass on the way out. Plus I have been accussed of being brutally honest. Not that I mean to be cruel, it is better if you know where I am coming from and I know where you stand. By the way, if that is your tattoo in the pic, I love it. The good respectful gentleman who has a naughty streak is a wonderful thing to find!!! Matches with a woman who knows how to be a lady in public, but has a wantoness in the bedroom that she shares with only the one she is with.

Take care,

Mikey_B1972 44M

7/24/2005 12:36 pm

SweetSouthrngrl--Thanks for the thoughts.I too am honest and upfront all the time, whether the person likes it or not. The tattoo is mine. On the other side is a big crab that has the body forged of a ying yang sign. I am a cancer. I wish some women would give the nice guy a shot, so they can see that he also has a naughty side..

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
7/24/2005 9:02 pm

We all have this problem, whether we are male or female. I just generally ignore the assholes and wait for a nice man to appear.. still waiting too. Don't change..ever. Continue to be who you are. She will find you when you quit looking.
Most of women like nice guys, with a little bad boy tossed in. Just like you men want a lady when you go out and an occasional slut behind closed doors. It goes both ways and we all get the same response. I am now getting grief because I took my profile down, because now I shouldn't be on the site since I am no longer actively looking for a 'fuck' partner. I received grief because my profile didn't have pics in the first place. I live in a small town..I send a pic out after I receive one, if I feel comfortable, and it is a facial shot only. I also ask for a facial shot in return, if I receive otherwise I no longer communicate with said person.
Not saying I do not admire a dick shot here and there, or admire a I am not Bi, just comfortable enough to say she is in Bella.. WOW.. ANYWAYS>>lol, But I do like to see who I am talking to.. and if it goes first.. then maybe exchange more open pics...


rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
7/25/2005 6:50 pm

I have to say I dont understand it either...I post nudes but that doesnt necessarily mean I want a vulgar email either.

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