|Blogs > Mentor_FX_u > OPPOSITES DO ATTRACT!|
I had the good fortune to meet two of the greatest gals in LA. This was a few years back. They were a bi-curious couple. We started out as good friends and hung out a lot. I was particularly attracted to one physically and the other intellectually. They were in their late 20's and I in my 30's.
One evening, I was helping them paint their apartment. It turned out to be more of a "paint each other" party and there was plenty of wine to help us along. We all ended up in bed together and it was awesome.
The next day I began to worry a bit that the friendship was going to be negatively affected or it was going to cause some kind of awkwardness. I kept my attitude up and tried to treat each of them as I did before our intimate encounter.
Fortunately, we all had a foundation of honesty and trust with eachother and we talked about the possibilities. After a few more "stay-overs", we became a truly cool and caring 3some. After a few months, the gals moved in with me and we became a poly-amorous 3some and lasted about a year.
The break-up was more about the two of them growing apart than it was with me, however, it certainly effected me. The one I connected with on a more physical level is the one continued to be with for about another 6 months. We eventually drifted apart for many reasons I won't go into.
I could write pages and pages about the dynamics of it all, but I'll just say, that if it wasn't for the open-mindedness and willingness to communicate about all matters, we wouldn't have lasted as long as we did. It was hard work, but it will always be one of the most memorable and enjoyable times in my life. We still keep in touch and we truly care about eacth other.