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If you're here to just get fucked from all angles, than more power to ya. But, if you're looking for Mr./Ms Right, that "special" someone who shows promise of a LTR, than you gotta ask yourself,
"Would I even recognize the right one if he/she were standing in front of me?"
I hate to be the cynic, but most people who are looking for the right one are doing so because they had a series of wrong ones.
I also believe that we are creatures of habit and tend to attract the partners who perpetuate the habits.
If you ask yourself,
"Damn, everytime I think I found the right one, he/she turns out to be a jerk/ass/bitch like the last one. Oh, when will I find what I'm looking for?"
Well, deep down, on a subconscious level, you're attracting exactly what you're asking for. NOT WHAT YOU'RE WANTING.
In other words, the reason you attract the jerk/ass/bitch is because you BELIEVE that's what you get everytime. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy over and over again.
I'm not saying anyone asks to be abused or unhappy, we just got so familiar with it, we don't always allow ourselves to see what is good for us.
So, how does one break the misery cycle?
Slow down. Give a second look at the ones you dismissed so quickly. Add a dose of reality to every batch of romance, so you don't get swept away so easily. Trust your intuition, not your genitals.
If you don't care about any of this, then just go get fucked. I mean, really fucked! Hard!
These ar just my theories and opinions. I welcome your perspective.