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The ex wife, *sigh*
The ex wife, *sigh*
Well today I got a visit from my ex wife.
You see, getting a visit from the ex wife is like going in for a physical. Your going to get something shoved up your ass somewhere along the way. Anyhow she has pretty much vanished from the time of the divorce. Sometimes she makes her child support payments, sometimes not.Today after a week of my son being in school she came by to donate funds to the school cloths/lunch/supplies fund. She even gave me a 20 for gas. We talked for a bit and she told me about her life and I told her about mine.
It seem's that she has fallen in love with a guy thats around 10 years older than her. They are always together and having fun. (guess that's why she never has time for the kids anymore)
Anyhow, She's all gaga and such but seem's to have one problem. She's a fag hag. This guy she is in love with is 100% unchangeably gay.
I mean gay to the point of wearing dresses when going out and beyond. Funny thing really.
They go to the movies and do everything together.
He has told her that he will never sleep with her and want's nothing but a friendship.
Here's the kicker. They are getting married for Christmas. (same day we were married on)
They have picked out a house and him and his lover are moving in. I did not know if I should laugh or what. I just sat there thinking Jerry Springer in my head over and over again.
Anyhow is that messed up or what?
I asked her if she was trying to snub me or something by having the wedding on the same day her and I had married and she said no. They it was Johnny's choice. Oh well.
Anyhow I think it got under her skin for the kids to call her Tanya and not Momma. Also that they kept on and on about Angelina. She then dished out more money. I guess she believes in the money solves everything belief. The kids don't even know her anymore. Sad really.
The kids were outside playing and she then told me about how much she missed sleeping with me and how I had been the best lover she had ever had. And how she wanted to have me as her lover when she got married. My mind then went into the thoughts of Jerry Springer again.
(me)Tanya.......I have a relationship now.
(Tanya) I know.........
(me)I really don't feel like...you know....Sleeping around.
(Tanya)Well it's not like we have never done it before, What would it hurt?
(me)Ummmmm we got a divorce right, that means parting of ways, spliting up, you don't want me, I don't want you......
(Tanya) Well it could be fun...No strings, Johnny has his lover and I want you to be mine.
(me) How can I say this......NO.
(Tanya) *sigh* your stubborn.....I wish you could have fun once in awhile, live a little...Take some risk, have some adventure....
(me) No. I am sorry I have someone and that someone is someone I don't want to screw up things with. That and your lifestyle reminds me of a Jerry Springer show without all the fights.
(me) Look I don't want to fight, just find your lover somewhere else. I have someone and want you to respect that. She's fun, the kids love her and we both are growing in a relationship, we both like each other ALOT.
Ok for all you folks who want to learn some history, I got divorced because my ex loved sex alot. Even though I can do it around five times a day 365 days a year, thast was never enough for her, she wanted the entire threesome, foursome moresome thing. I myself was not into that. We parted ways. She wanted to party, I wanted a family. Thats why I have the kids and she has a collection of tattos. Anyhow.
Weird day today. Freaky.
8/22/2005 10:00 am
hmmmmmmmm Nah hubbies ex is entirely the opposite she is a none when it comes to sex problem is she gets vicious when she doesn't get any is it just me or are all ex's totally Wacko|
8/22/2005 5:29 pm
Yea, all ex's are totally wacko...But then again, every divorce has TWO ex's. Well dude, at least ya don'e hva to wonder if she's gonne be better off without you?...You probably already know that one. That's so surreal...I couldn't imagine that. my ex is the total opposit, when we got married I got a seperate bed...|
Sorry you had to go through all that bulljit...You two seem so oposite, how did a marriage happen? I feel funny asking that because everyone asks the same of me "Dude, why did you marry that, she hates your friends, family, music, interests, hobbies and won't let oyu out of her sight."...Yea and don't forget she thinks I'm stupid and lazy and a terrible father to her daughter...C'est la vie babie!
8/22/2005 7:56 pm
Well actually when we met she had a body out of playboy, a funny and loving personality, she was cute as a button and the perfect woman.|
Then children happend. Her hormones went to hell and then she chose to go all the way with not being able to have kids anymore, thus more hormone problems.
We grew apart. I've got family movies from when my son was a baby where she was happy Mrs. Homemaker. Now she looks like something from a 1980's punk movie.
9/2/2005 7:42 pm
And now... You've found your self a sexy, spunky younger woman, who adores you and loves your little ones. So let her keep her gay boy, and while she's not getting any, you're getting well ME! so be happy!!|