another hint is offered  

MasterWolfsahdo 48M
52 posts
7/9/2006 1:53 pm

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7/16/2006 8:56 pm

another hint is offered


whether this new Hint was aimed at my or not, i am rethinking my past stance again.

I had rsvp'ed for a party, but now i am again going with my original plan. I was hoping to go and find out once and for all whether i was allowed, but then i realized that would fall under the catergory of Drama, and i dont want to do that.

If i'm not wanted, i wish ONE person would have the politeness to let it be known rather than let me sit her for months always wondering.

perhaps this lifestyle isnt for me after all...it was perfectly fine when i had something to Offer, but now that the only thing i have is Myself, i guess most people would rather i find the door by myself and show myself out rather than just say.. "Sorry, but no thank you"

if i am not wanted, all it takes is for someone to tell me. I will leave without malice or arguement.

rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
7/9/2006 4:08 pm

I'm not sure I follow you. What's going on? What lifestyle are you referring to?


MasterWolfsahdo 48M
44 posts
7/9/2006 8:34 pm

    Quoting rm_KarmoHunny:
    I'm not sure I follow you. What's going on? What lifestyle are you referring to?
sorry if i confused you... i was refering to my participating in the "swing" lifestyle. When i was married to a young pretty wife, and we played (always her only) i was welcome. Now that i have no young pretty girl to play with, i am being treated like some type of social pariah. As i have mentioned in other sites, i have brought my share of single gals into the lifestyle, but now that i am a single male, it seems there is no place for me

i helped build up a group by offering my professional services to help make it grow, and now i feel like i'm not even welcome

and no one seems very eager to tell me one way or the other


rm_KarmoHunny 54F
888 posts
7/10/2006 8:55 am

I barely know anything about the swingers lifestyle. But, this is what I've seen on this site. When couples are looking for people to swing with, they always say, "No single guys." Although they appear to welcome single women. Why don't they welcome single guys? I don't know. Maybe you could get in touch with some of the couples on this site and ask them. Maybe that would help to clear up some of your questions.

Hope you get some answers. Good luck!


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