Approach avoidance conflict  

MasterOfThe357 60M
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7/10/2006 4:01 pm
Approach avoidance conflict


Do you find yourself attracted to and repelled by this site at the same time? I care about sex. I enjoy it, but it's not my raison d'etre. Some people here seem to be consumed by the physical desire for coupling.

Maybe it's a good thing to be able to rid one's self of all inhibitions. I can't seem to do that. I believe that gay people should be allowd to marry. I believe that making contraceptives more available to young people would solve many of the problems that arise as a result of teen pregnancies. I believe that what people choose to do in their own homes, with their own bodies, is no one else's business, and God really isn't going to punish us for enjoying the physical bodies that we have been given.

At the same time though, I guess I'm still a little hung up on the idea of sex as a form of indoor sport. Do you know what I mean? There is something that prevents me from trying to have sex with every woman that I find attractive just for the sake of the act itself. I guess I need something more.

I know what I want, and I'm willing to wait for it. I'm seeking a woman who is confident and successful in her daily life but wants to turn herself over to a man with strong arms and firm hands in the bedroom. And I want more than a one night stand. I want the feeling inside that happens when a woman chooses me over all the other men in the world, when she says, "You're the one that I want."

And to really fulfill my dream, I want this twice over. I want two women in my life who love me and each other. It's not too much to ask. We could be happy. The triangle is the strongest form there is in terms of engineering, you know. It's built to last and to endure strong forces in opposition. Just look at the Eiffel Tower.

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