Email replies...  

MarcySullivan 52F  
2233 posts
6/7/2006 4:34 pm

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Email replies...

I know the truth is the best policy butt was just wondering.
When you send an email to someone and they reply back with a negative answer, what do you prefer?
And believe me, I had someone say they rather have no replies at all then a negative one! But I can't do that.. I don't like it when I don't get a reply at all. It's just rude. I do try and reply all. I might have skipped some along the way so forgive moi!!!!! lol
Simply not interested!
Not my type/ Not attracted!
Some other lie!
No replies at all!


xoxo
Marcy

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2dancew2 53M/50F

6/7/2006 6:45 pm

Kind of have mixed feelings on this question. Under normal circumstances it's rude not to reply to a message but on a site like this were women are bombarded with mail I don't think anyone really expects you to reply to them all. However, I also feel that any message is better than none. It's not a problem to have someone say they're not interested, you just move on, but to be ignored is just depressing.


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
6/7/2006 8:09 pm

I agree 2dancew2. I know I just hate it when I don't get responses. I don't send that much to start off with but always nice to receive a reply even to say not interested. At least you know and it shows respect. I sometimes just send little messages to say I like someone's profile.. not necessary to meet and all.. often with far away members cause I was impressed with the quality of their profile. It's nice when they reply back a thanks and rude when they don't lol
Maybe I expect too much of this lol


xoxo
Marcy

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alex_200mm 56M
4960 posts
6/7/2006 9:48 pm

I prefer any answer to no answer at all.

I'm even happy with auto-replies that say something along the lines of, "Thanks for your email, and if I think that we might click I'll get back to you within a week. If not, please keep trying with others." At least it gives me the hope that I might hear something.

And I at least know not to keep butting my head against a wall if I'm told that you're not interested... but no answer makes me wonder if my email has been read at all, or if I've been read and dismissed, or if the person has left the site... so what I hate is no anwser.

Alex xo


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
6/8/2006 4:02 am

    Quoting alex_200mm:
    I prefer any answer to no answer at all.

    I'm even happy with auto-replies that say something along the lines of, "Thanks for your email, and if I think that we might click I'll get back to you within a week. If not, please keep trying with others." At least it gives me the hope that I might hear something.

    And I at least know not to keep butting my head against a wall if I'm told that you're not interested... but no answer makes me wonder if my email has been read at all, or if I've been read and dismissed, or if the person has left the site... so what I hate is no anwser.

    Alex xo
That's exactly how I feel Alex! Always kept wondering.. did it get thru? Should I send another? but you don't want to seem pushy and stubborn either? I never send another actually! See you soon!!!

xoxo
Marcy

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buddhamike 105M
7006 posts
6/8/2006 12:04 pm

I like a simple "not interested" or "not my type" reply, but I understand that many women get hundreds of e-mails from AdultFriendFinder so I understand a no reply and do not get offended if I don't get a reply.


MarcySullivan 52F  
3598 posts
6/9/2006 9:26 pm

    Quoting buddhamike:
    I like a simple "not interested" or "not my type" reply, but I understand that many women get hundreds of e-mails from AdultFriendFinder so I understand a no reply and do not get offended if I don't get a reply.
I guess if one gets too many emails than she can handle would be kind of difficult to reply all! It's not my case though and like it just find like this. Gives me time to reply all and do other stuff

xoxo
Marcy

Visit my group Analsex lovers and my blog Marcy's world!!


rm_foo_cire_el2 35M
100 posts
6/20/2006 8:56 pm

I reply to all my emails as a matter of personal honor.

Since I almost never receive them on AdultFriendFinder however, my obligations are light and most of the time non-existent in that department

Frankly, I prefer it that way so that my load is manageable and I don't have to be rude by not replying to some. Allows me to remain a nice person really .


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