A little survey ??  

Maquis55 62M
43 posts
7/16/2006 6:04 am

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A little survey ??


Looked at in the "Normal" way, males are taken to be the partners who are most likely to initiate the sexual act in a Male/Female encounter - Perhaps because (Oral aside....But not ignored !!) without an erection, not a lot will happen.

Now, there are "Sub" & "Dom" males & females & some who like to play in either role quite happily.

Can men cope mentally with "Predatory" females & can women cope with "Competitive" men ? - The rhetoric on AdultFriendFinder suggests that "Anything Goes" but what really happens "Behind closed doors" ??

Does a man shrivel at the thought of a truly insatiable woman ? Does a woman wince at the thought of a man who wants to make love for hours or even days ?

Are we all "Superhuman" in the bedroom ? Wishful thinking or reality ?

A well-tuned combination of mind & body with both participants & an understanding of each others needs should be good - Does this always happen ? - Again, some who comment on their "Meets" have tales of mediocrity & regret & others........."Electric, mind-blowing sex".

So, lets hear it !! - What do you all think ??

Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/16/2006 12:56 pm

Amazed to find that many have viewed but none have commented - A dislike of reality, perhaps ?............Or are all of us "Bedroom Superheroes/Superheroines ?


CB_2 51F

7/16/2006 1:05 pm

I think men love the idea of a predatory woman, but some of them can't cope with it for more than a one night stand. I'd say a man who can cope with the concept is probably up for a good time.

As a slightly predatory woman, I'm thinking electric mind-blowing sex, Maquis. Aren't you??

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/17/2006 2:23 pm

I think the conceptof a predatory woman is both intriguing & great fun in reality.

The concept of a "Slightly" predatory woman sounds like a lady who knows exactly what she wants but has toned-down "Utterly Predatory" so as not to scare off her hapless prey !! (Laughs).................However, with a daring & confident male......The result may well be........"Electric mind-blowing sex" !!


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/17/2006 2:30 pm

Very interested that the subject of predatory women has been dealt with & yet not the point about "Competitive Men"............!! (Laughs)...........Or is it simply that a "Slighty Predatory" lady feels that she can eat a "Competitive Man" for breakfast & thus feels the question irrelevant ??


CB_2 51F

7/17/2006 4:14 pm

    Quoting Maquis55:
    Very interested that the subject of predatory women has been dealt with & yet not the point about "Competitive Men"............!! (Laughs)...........Or is it simply that a "Slighty Predatory" lady feels that she can eat a "Competitive Man" for breakfast & thus feels the question irrelevant ??
OK, ya got me there: "slightly" in this sense probably was intended as a synonym of "utterly". You have been warned!

As for competitive men - I'd say the thought of someone going at it without result for hours would indeed make me wince if I weren't getting much pleasure out of it. But I'm assertive enough to say so, and get him to change tack. On the other hand, women are theoretically multi-orgasmic, so if it took the man ages to come, we could well be having a good time on the way.

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/17/2006 4:44 pm

You've hit the nail on the head !!.............Women are multi-orgasmic (Or that has been my experience) & thus a "Competitive male" can bring pleasure in a number of ways over a period of time without ........"Going at it for hours without result".........The result should hopefully be a happy lady who has a number of orgasms with a partner who has some control & thus (For obvious reasons) is likely to orgasm less.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/17/2006 4:47 pm

Surely, men that come quickly, or at least more quickly than their partner, are a bit of a let-down in more ways than one !! (Laughs)


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/17/2006 5:28 pm

...........or does a "Predatory Woman" want to chew on it.....Hard or soft ??..........Or just wear her partner down by draining him in every way possible............So many interesting possibilities !!


CB_2 51F

7/18/2006 6:23 am

Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, food for thought there, babe

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/18/2006 9:56 am

So........."Predatory Woman" Vs. "Competitive Male"........The gauntlet has been thrown.........But will it be picked up....??

BABE ??


CB_2 51F

7/18/2006 1:26 pm

    Quoting Maquis55:
    So........."Predatory Woman" Vs. "Competitive Male"........The gauntlet has been thrown.........But will it be picked up....??

    BABE ??
Don't get excited, Maquis - I call all the guys babe. Saves me having to remember their names in the throes of passion LOL

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/19/2006 12:05 pm

So, we are but nameless "Pieces of Meat", nameless but functional !!


CB_2 51F

7/19/2006 3:08 pm

    Quoting Maquis55:
    So, we are but nameless "Pieces of Meat", nameless but functional !!
Oh very functional pieces of meat, yes. LOL

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/21/2006 1:23 pm

It would seem that you have a preference for Salami


CB_2 51F

7/21/2006 3:19 pm

    Quoting Maquis55:
    It would seem that you have a preference for Salami
None of that thin stuff though, only the really fat and meaty salami. Wanna find out more? LOL

Blogito ergo sum.


Maquis55 62M
113 posts
7/21/2006 4:16 pm

We only do thick here modom !!


rm_tonyzm2 57M
19 posts
7/25/2006 12:35 pm

Finally got round to looking at this maquis.

To be honest I dont mind taking the lead to initiate sex but there are times when its also good for the woman to instigate proceedings. Maybe its just me but surely if a woman desires a sexual encounter then surely she could get the guy interested enough, sometimes it does not take much, lol.
Ok I dont admit to being a sexual athelete, prefering quality sex, no matter how long it takes, to quantity. As much as I would like to agree with you on the subject of multi orgasmic women, not all are, my ex wife wasnt, even though I tried and tried to get her to. My ex partner was the exact opposite however. I dont really consider myself as a competetive man, merely one who like to please a lady in bed, and out of it. Some just seem to be able to take more pleasure then others.


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