Reaching orgasm....  

MajorEasy 46M
3805 posts
12/27/2005 10:35 am
Reaching orgasm....


Heh heh heh...let's get a little naughty before the New Year hey?? Hopefully that'll help carry the momentum into 2006...

Have discussed the real big O and how having achieved one helps women to get another easier...I've been set thinking since my last meeting with a woman friend...she commented that she doesn't usually orgasm that quickly...and I've heard this a few times before...so, a little poll and study was put in place...

Most women I asked, say they take around 15 to 20 minutes to reach orgasm with a guy (if at all...and this time only starts when they begin sex...touching, foreplay etc...)...but still need around 10 minutes by themselves. Granted that some may wish to take it slow but I've removed that option by asking how long it'll take them if they wanted a quickie...

I don't understand this as I'm a guy...most guys I know can reach orgasm under 5 minutes...and if under time-pressure...can do so in 2 minutes.

I'm having trouble with these stats. Based on experience, most women I know can reach the big O in under 2 minutes (even though they insist they usually take 15-20...)...and the record at the moment is 70+ seconds for a woman from fully clothed to orgasm...(for the sake of this study, let's also remove romance time like just kissing, gazing into each other's eyes and holding hands, etc...)

So...the only conclusions I can come to is that either women have a different time scale when they are aroused...or, perhaps they feel that saying they come quickly make them 'easy'...

So...what gives?? Anyone??


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rm_W223344Y 41F
34 posts
12/28/2005 10:27 am

dunno...*blush*

heha, you and your questions.

well, they're not lying if that's what you think. i usually need around 10 minutes to cum with or without a man. however, theres been exceptions with one guy in particular, where under 3 minutes was quite consistently achieved.

happy??


rm_wtsling 39F
31 posts
12/28/2005 5:29 pm

Hahaha, based on the previous replies and your testimonials... are you trying to wolf out more compliments for your well established record my dear?!!! You must understand that not all men know the women's body as well as you do... not all men bother to learn the spots that makes the women go Ohhhhh and Ahhhhhhhh and...

SO I would say that your stats might just be pretty accurate provided your sample size is representative Oops occupational hazard... haha Honestly... there are quite a bit of women out there who might not really know how to identify the big O in the first place so you sure you asked the right gals?

Well... I definitely know mine better


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
12/29/2005 8:41 am

"happy??"

always, my dear...

"are you trying to wolf out more compliments for your well established record my dear?!!!"

Heh heh heh...always, my dear...

Well, at least I'm sure of one thing...those I asked know what a big O is...hahahaha...made sure of that meself...

But sweetie, you're missing the main point...while I understand that it may take a while when women are with a man (and my confusion stems from the fact that my experience is not consistent with what they say...hence making what they said {about this and their DIY stat} hardly admissible..)...I am more concerned with the stats on DIY...why does it take so long when she should know exactly what and how to make herself feel good?? 10 minutes is an awfully long time in my book when she knows all the moves....

"Well... I definitely know mine better"
Hahahahaha...really??...
But...how long does it take for you to induce a big O with and without a man??


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rm_wtsling 39F
31 posts
12/30/2005 11:47 am

How should I begin to explain this... "why does it take so long when she should know exactly what and how to make herself feel good?? 10 minutes is an awfully long time in my book when she knows all the moves.... "

Well its not about knowing the moves... its able savouring the sensation that comes before the big O? Makes a big diff when you have someone stimulating you and you having to do it on your own. Tell me, is it nicer to have someone stroking you or you doing it yourself? The fact that you are making the moves take half the fun away since you are consciously telling yourself what to do... while someone giving a helping hand (or finger for that matter ) gives it a sense of unknown which will heighten the same sensation that particular move can cause? Moves are rather technical and it takes the human touch to make them wonderful...

Haha... dont even know if i am making sense to anyone else so you figure it out...


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/2/2006 11:09 am

Heh heh...sweetie...it kinda makes sense...


Hmmm...so you like the unkonwn...hahahaha...lovely, I'll fit right in...


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rm_SexyCplJoy 40M/38F

1/2/2006 10:09 pm

Your right baby, normally it takes a while to reach O with a man. But your case is not right as when I do myself, I KNOW I'm going to get there, so there's no need to rush. But with a man, I may or may not get there, hence a little more pressure to get there fast. Maybe this added pressure actually makes it harder to get there. Not many men can do what you do which is why the time taken is different, plus I usually only cum once with other men. Also the mood before starting makes a different.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/4/2006 9:09 am

Mood??

Are you saying that there're different levels of horniness??


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Funasianfemale 39F
23 posts
1/8/2006 10:33 am

Oh brother, give me a break. Major, a hundred women must have already told you how quickly and thoroughly you bring them to orgasm. How large is this void in your ego that you so need constant filling?

Even though you already know my answer, I'll put it up for the sake of your new 'research'. haha.

With other men, I take between 10-15 minutes and by myself, depending on my mood and schedule, 5-10 is about right. (and here's to swell that head of yours even further) with you, I orgasm within 2 minutes. There!


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/15/2006 12:06 pm

"Oh brother, give me a break. Major, a hundred women must have already told... "

Heh heh heh...392 to be exact my dear..

" (and here's to swell that head of yours even further) with you, I orgasm within 2 minutes."

Yes sweetie...but with information like this, you'e swelling the wrong head...hahaha


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rm_SexyCplJoy 40M/38F

1/16/2006 5:48 am

ha, make that 393! Your great!


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/16/2006 9:31 am



Humility dictates that I come clean here...you're already in my 392...


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rm_Razziemin 39F

1/18/2006 7:11 am

Really???


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/18/2006 8:14 am

Huh?? You've lost me Razz sweetie....which part are you querying my dear??
Hahaha...are you one of those who answers a question with a question??


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rm_Razziemin 39F

1/18/2006 10:33 am

The 392 part.

Well, I have not met a man who can make me cum under 15 minutes. Most do not even get me close. What others are saying about you sounds impressive.
On my own, I can get it in around 5 minutes.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/19/2006 9:55 am

"The 392 part"

Hahahaha...you do know I'm being facetious right, sweetie??
It's more like 626...hahahahaha

Ahhh...I like it...a possible chanllenge...

Sweetie...it doesn't have to take that long unless you wish for it to be...it's all in the mind you see...2 minutes is all it takes...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


rm_Razziemin 39F

1/25/2006 9:19 am

2 minutes??? HA. That'll be the day.


sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/27/2006 10:20 pm

Ah the memories.... and how things change, or so I'm assuming here!

{=}



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/28/2006 3:28 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    Ah the memories.... and how things change, or so I'm assuming here!

    {=}
Never assume sweetie...never assume...

(pssst...things have certainly changed...)

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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/28/2006 10:31 am

{=} happyf; happym; {=}

I'm happy for you



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/28/2006 1:47 pm

>>!

I'm happy for me too...

Ahh shite...I feel bad...we really shouldn't thinking that of her...now I'll have to confess to her and make her punish me...?*

I'm bad...

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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/28/2006 5:05 pm

I'm sure that I didn't mention anyone but you....

But hey.... punishment can be fun too! Go for it!

And, yes...you are bad! One of your most endearing traits...{=}{=}



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/29/2006 2:46 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    I'm sure that I didn't mention anyone but you....

    But hey.... punishment can be fun too! Go for it!

    And, yes...you are bad! One of your most endearing traits...{=}{=}


Yes sweetie...it is isn't it??

But she just laughed.........wait...maybe I should punish her for not punishing me???

By golly...someone's gonna be punished...and soon...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
1/25/2015 9:55 pm

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