Packing it in???  

MajorEasy 46M
3805 posts
5/21/2006 9:35 am
Packing it in???


Been thinking about not posting more blog entries...

While it has been fun sharing...I find it is not in my nature to just give out thoughts without much response in return...

The few replies I've been getting are from the same few people....and we're mostly already sharing thoughts over emails or phone...

Maybe others are better at reaching a 'wider' readership...I'll just enjoy quietly reading other blogs for a while...

Take it easy people...

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/21/2006 11:51 am

    Quoting funsassy:
    Just when I'm also contemplating of leaving here...
Heyyy...you copycat you....come here and give me a kiss...



Catch you in the real world sweetie...

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happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
5/21/2006 6:06 pm

Hmmm... what a Blow! Juz when Sassy declares in my blog she's leaving.... 2 Disappointments in 1 day.

I dun understand! I know time may be an issue in your case, but drop a few lines when you are freer. Beats writing individually to all via email, rite?

Anyway, Blogland here will be quiet without both of you.

OK... guess I just have to take it easy.


Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!


rm_Lynna84 32F
38 posts
5/21/2006 10:32 pm

Do drop by blogland when you have the time major. Will miss your blogging eventhough i don't drop comments often enough. It doesn't mean I didn't read, just had nothing much to say.
Hugs,,


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/21/2006 10:59 pm

    Quoting happyladychat:
    Hmmm... what a Blow! Juz when Sassy declares in my blog she's leaving.... 2 Disappointments in 1 day.

    I dun understand! I know time may be an issue in your case, but drop a few lines when you are freer. Beats writing individually to all via email, rite?

    Anyway, Blogland here will be quiet without both of you.

    OK... guess I just have to take it easy.
Yes sweetie...I'm in shock that our fair sassy is leaving the site...I'll have to sit her down and find out what's bugging her...

As for me...I'm still going to be around...just not blogging much...will add my usual silly comments to your blog when I can...

Hope you're handling the HFMD...don't stress too much...they'll be fine...


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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/21/2006 11:03 pm

    Quoting MsBettyCocker:
    I'm VERY thankful I stumbled upon your blog. Sometimes I forget there are other places in the world where people have the same thoughts and issues in life as I.

    Be well, and know that I will email you soon.

    Hugs,
    ~Betty~
Heh heh...cheers my dear...we must keep in touch...

Hey..you know what...you can always add stuff here and we can use this space as a super slow chat room...

The Queen lives...long lick the Queen!!



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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/21/2006 11:08 pm

    Quoting rm_Lynna84:
    Do drop by blogland when you have the time major. Will miss your blogging eventhough i don't drop comments often enough. It doesn't mean I didn't read, just had nothing much to say.
    Hugs,,
Hey there Lynna...thanks for dropping by...and for enjoying my blog...

See my comment above...we can use this space to chat if there's anything you wish to talk about...otherwise, I need a break from just sharing my viewpoint and not getting any indication on how others feel too...

Still come by often okie?? We'll make this post a mass orgy of chat...how about that??



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goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/22/2006 1:47 am

Major,

It's all about stamina, once you run out of gas you have the tendency of quiting. Once you run in to circles you also want to quit.

There are millions of people here certainly but you can only fetch a handful which can be counted by one hand. Will maybe those few were your die hard fan then.

So when you keep pushing, you get tired and you just want to lie down there and let other push instead hmmm....

So you can't blame sassy from bowing out, maybe she not only goes into circles, she see stars as well and maybe even worst blue black all over, she need time to recover then.


Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
5/22/2006 8:10 am

Hmmm... Major, maybe I seems to be a mix bag of emotions to you. I still do not care what you think about me. I simply enjoy your blogs. Be it funny or not. Hope you can still drop in here and there so that I can still mix my emotions up with your thoughts. I really enjoy that. I do.




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rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
5/22/2006 11:55 am

oh no, Major, you're the one thing I look forward to reading. Hope you'll reconsider...


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/22/2006 12:12 pm

    Quoting goodtry:
    Major,

    It's all about stamina, once you run out of gas you have the tendency of quiting. Once you run in to circles you also want to quit.

    There are millions of people here certainly but you can only fetch a handful which can be counted by one hand. Will maybe those few were your die hard fan then.

    So when you keep pushing, you get tired and you just want to lie down there and let other push instead hmmm....

    So you can't blame sassy from bowing out, maybe she not only goes into circles, she see stars as well and maybe even worst blue black all over, she need time to recover then.
Thanks mate...but am not sure what you're talking about...I won't blame her for her choice...heh heh heh...much like she doesn't understand what I was trying to tell her in her blog too...

See...she and I are so similar and at the same time so blur...

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/22/2006 12:16 pm

    Quoting Serenely_Yours:
    Hmmm... Major, maybe I seems to be a mix bag of emotions to you. I still do not care what you think about me. I simply enjoy your blogs. Be it funny or not. Hope you can still drop in here and there so that I can still mix my emotions up with your thoughts. I really enjoy that. I do.


Heh heh Serene sweetie...you're putting a lot of words in my mouth...I don't see you as those things you've said...you are a unique individual and I don't think poorly of you at all...in fact...quite the opposite...

Thanks for saying you enjoy my writing...and I look forward to 'mixing' your emotions....if you'll let me...



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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/22/2006 6:52 pm

    Quoting rm_janeraped:
    oh no, Major, you're the one thing I look forward to reading. Hope you'll reconsider...
Hahaha...you're far too kind sweetie...

I'm not leaving...just cutting down on blogging...we can still write up a storm here...and heh heh heh...if you wish...I am available to write plenty for your reading pleasure...just not here...




p/s...I'm going to visit a friend in trouble in exotic Brunei...just wondering if I should pack my army greens???

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goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/22/2006 10:08 pm

Major,

That's more like it, cutting down on blog and not cut off blog. Do you good hmmm..., so you spend more time on other activities.

I guess this is natural after a while you got sick of it and would want to take a short break.


Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
5/23/2006 2:41 am

Sorry Major, if I have misunderstood some of your words. Maybe they sounded too profound or Im getting shallower. No worries about it. Just hoping to see you blog again with your cute sense of humour and cool humility. COME BACK COME BACK!!!


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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/23/2006 2:43 am

    Quoting goodtry:
    Major,

    That's more like it, cutting down on blog and not cut off blog. Do you good hmmm..., so you spend more time on other activities.

    I guess this is natural after a while you got sick of it and would want to take a short break.
Cheers mate...methinks you're right...a break will be good...am going away for a couple of days to the great jungle land of our army days...since I worked there for a few years...have many friends to look up...but the break on this blog may be a bit longer...

It's not so much I'm sick of blogging here...as I've explained to one regular reader...many of my posts were seeking some form of reaction from a relatively large number of readers...their own experience and what they think of what happened...but in here...for some reason...most people are more of the read and no comment type...or the positive 'I understand /agree' sort...there's nothing wrong except I get very little out of sharing...heh heh...it's nice to hear well done, or good writing...but there's no addition to my 'learning' experience...I might as well write a book and not bother if it sells...as for the few who give me their reactions, I already email or talk to them...which makes this blog redundant...

Anyways...thanks for your kind comment...

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rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
5/23/2006 12:06 pm

    Quoting MajorEasy:
    Hahaha...you're far too kind sweetie...

    I'm not leaving...just cutting down on blogging...we can still write up a storm here...and heh heh heh...if you wish...I am available to write plenty for your reading pleasure...just not here...




    p/s...I'm going to visit a friend in trouble in exotic Brunei...just wondering if I should pack my army greens???
Hmm, Major, your army greens? Would love to see you in it. I'll write you soon in aramis...


goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/23/2006 8:18 pm

Major,

The expectations of readers here are different I guess. Maybe not everything under the sun can be brought up here as they dun generate much response.

Maybe around you now in this blog there isn't any parties that actually go into discussion of any topic that was brought up other than just simply "WELL DONE", "HOW ARE YOU" kind of stuff. Basically we all dun know you so difficult to comment at time. We are not like old time friend that we can actually talk on any topic. Hopefully if we stay longer here we may discuss more.

Cheers


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/23/2006 11:03 pm

    Quoting rm_janeraped:
    Hmm, Major, your army greens? Would love to see you in it. I'll write you soon in aramis...


I chickened out...only brought my camo jacket...didn't want to start an international incident...

You writing to me?? COOL........can't wait....

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/23/2006 11:42 pm

    Quoting goodtry:
    Major,

    The expectations of readers here are different I guess. Maybe not everything under the sun can be brought up here as they dun generate much response.

    Maybe around you now in this blog there isn't any parties that actually go into discussion of any topic that was brought up other than just simply "WELL DONE", "HOW ARE YOU" kind of stuff. Basically we all dun know you so difficult to comment at time. We are not like old time friend that we can actually talk on any topic. Hopefully if we stay longer here we may discuss more.

    Cheers
True mate...but read my posts...I was not trying to get advice from 'old friends'...more of the what would you do (if it happened to you...) or your take on what happened kinda stuff...unfortunately...even though people here have the cover of anonymity...which should allow for more freedom of expression...they don't take it...some of the replies...like from HLC and MsBetty...they share what they feel or would do...those are great...but too few are like this...

No one will get to know another person if we stick to 'how are you' all the time...some probing / exposing has to be done...sure, the writer's feelings and beliefs will come out because he or she is sharing thoughts...but the readers' will never be known if they stick to simple pleansantries...and this is the main hurdle for bloggers who wish to pick ideas from readers, like I was trying to do...which makes this on-line "relationship" very one-sided...hence my statement that I get nothing out of sharing...

No worries...we all aim for different outcomes using similar source...just that this may not be my cup of tea, that's all...

Have you read blogs where the writer posts something...many people add their comments and the writer doesn't even come back to check?? Yeah...this style will work great for them...but I have to wonder...for them...other than self-advertising....what was the point of posting??


P/S- see mate...this is good...we're having a discussion...this is what I was hoping for all this while....

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/23/2006 11:52 pm

    Quoting Serenely_Yours:
    Sorry Major, if I have misunderstood some of your words. Maybe they sounded too profound or Im getting shallower. No worries about it. Just hoping to see you blog again with your cute sense of humour and cool humility. COME BACK COME BACK!!!
I'M HERE I'M HERE

Woah sweetie...almost missed your post....this place has an annoying trait of adding posts in between earlier posts...just when I thought I've replied to all...suddenly one post jams in there somewhere...

Cute??? hahahaha...if it's a compliment..I'll take it (I like the use of cool though... )

Nah...don't think I was getting too profound...was borned that way......but I am curious...what made you think that I thought of you that way??

By the way...you never did reply to my email a long time ago...what's up with that??

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it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/24/2006 1:26 am

Major,

Haha, if you look around you would have found out, I normally dun come into a blog if I find that it is all about "Good Job", "How are you". I am only in a few blogs. I only came into your blog this time round as after so many months of monitoring, I guess that I should be welcome here.

However when I am in your blog I talk to others who response to your blog as well, however I have experience that some blog owner past remarks about you if you talk to others within your blog, that is why I dun move in unless I am certain that I am welcome, if not dun waste my time, I will make sure I skip that blog.

Especially when we are of the same sex, some blog owner prefer to speak to bloggers of the different sex, so haha, dun blame me for being so careful.

However I am slowly withdrawing concentration to some blog as it slowly going to become "Good Job", "How are you" type, nothing much to share and contribute, but increasing activities in your blog instead, hopefully my decision is correct. Well just like share market, only invest in good stocks.


Serenely_Yours 116
9198 posts
5/24/2006 5:57 am

    Quoting MajorEasy:
    I'M HERE I'M HERE

    Woah sweetie...almost missed your post....this place has an annoying trait of adding posts in between earlier posts...just when I thought I've replied to all...suddenly one post jams in there somewhere...

    Cute??? hahahaha...if it's a compliment..I'll take it (I like the use of cool though... )

    Nah...don't think I was getting too profound...was borned that way......but I am curious...what made you think that I thought of you that way??

    By the way...you never did reply to my email a long time ago...what's up with that??
Hey Hey Hey...
I did send you an email some time back.
Probably it didnt reach you last time.


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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/24/2006 12:07 pm

    Quoting goodtry:
    Major,

    Haha, if you look around you would have found out, I normally dun come into a blog if I find that it is all about "Good Job", "How are you". I am only in a few blogs. I only came into your blog this time round as after so many months of monitoring, I guess that I should be welcome here.

    However when I am in your blog I talk to others who response to your blog as well, however I have experience that some blog owner past remarks about you if you talk to others within your blog, that is why I dun move in unless I am certain that I am welcome, if not dun waste my time, I will make sure I skip that blog.

    Especially when we are of the same sex, some blog owner prefer to speak to bloggers of the different sex, so haha, dun blame me for being so careful.

    However I am slowly withdrawing concentration to some blog as it slowly going to become "Good Job", "How are you" type, nothing much to share and contribute, but increasing activities in your blog instead, hopefully my decision is correct. Well just like share market, only invest in good stocks.
Heh heh mate...you worry too much...talking with other members in someone's blog should be ok as long as we keep to topic...what some idiots do is they join someone's blog and read a bit...then make proposals to members of the opposite sex...like, write to me, I can show you a good time...etc...come on....they don't even have the most basic courtesy...that's not on at all...if they are so desperate...they should start their own blog...

I know what you mean though...I've visited some people's blogs and once I see they enjoy the attention of pointless comments and soak up patronising praises...I stop going there...that blog has effectively become a 'stroke my ego' playground...


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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/24/2006 12:32 pm

    Quoting Serenely_Yours:
    Hey Hey Hey...
    I did send you an email some time back.
    Probably it didnt reach you last time.
Hahahaha...sorry sweetie

My mail server has a mind of its own...soemtimes, mail gets rejected and sometime, it refuses to send out mail...I have no idea how to deal with it...

Please keep trying...sooner or later, I'll get it....

Let's work it this way...I will definitely reply all mail sent to me...so if you don't hear anything from me in 3-4 days...send me the same mail again and again till I reply...it has a 3GB inbox...so I don't mind if I get 10-15 of the same email from anyone...

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goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/24/2006 6:41 pm

Major,

True to certain degree, not all people who create their own blog behave the same, some will argue on every single comment you brought up if they feel that the frequency were not the same. Well a blog is a blog everyone should be free to air their view irregardless were they of the same frequency or not at most you say "I am not really agreeable or I have a different perception,.... etc" rather that you go directly against point to point.

Some dun mind people commenting on other blogger's view in their blog as for in this case, if someone brought up a view point that worth discussion, I could comment on top of it and that would make this blog a bigger playground rather than "YOU MUST STRICTLY WRITE ON MY BLOG COMMENT AND REPLY ACCORDINGLY AND CANNOT COMMENT ON OTHER'S VIEW IN HERE."

Well our expectation may be different, however appreciate that we manage to go so much in dept into such a simple topic.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/25/2006 9:23 am

    Quoting goodtry:
    Major,

    True to certain degree, not all people who create their own blog behave the same, some will argue on every single comment you brought up if they feel that the frequency were not the same. Well a blog is a blog everyone should be free to air their view irregardless were they of the same frequency or not at most you say "I am not really agreeable or I have a different perception,.... etc" rather that you go directly against point to point.

    Some dun mind people commenting on other blogger's view in their blog as for in this case, if someone brought up a view point that worth discussion, I could comment on top of it and that would make this blog a bigger playground rather than "YOU MUST STRICTLY WRITE ON MY BLOG COMMENT AND REPLY ACCORDINGLY AND CANNOT COMMENT ON OTHER'S VIEW IN HERE."

    Well our expectation may be different, however appreciate that we manage to go so much in dept into such a simple topic.
Well mate...what you said made sense...however...even as a blog, there has to be some appreciation of ownership...

Therefore...when the person who owns the blog decides that replies should be done in a certain way...the readers should oblige...there's no other way around it...if we don't like the rules...just stay away or start our own blog and impose our own rules...to me, this is just common manners...

I accept that not everyone wishes to discuss or argue every point brought up...like I said...some people just enjoy the support from everyone reading and they don't care what these people are saying...while others may wish for a more in-depth discussion...and the beauty of blog is there are so many to choose from...find one (assuming you don't care to start your own...) which fits your taste and join in there....

In my case at least...I bring up points to get a feel of the general perception on those issues...in which case...a 'well done' does nothing for me...
If you've read my group - Realistic profiles and stuff....I constantly play good-cop, bad-cop...some who don't know me may think I'm fickle-minded...but actually...what I've been trying to do is invoke reactions on issues...
At the beginning...the group had a great bunch of people and they probably understood what I was trying to do...and the group became the largest in Sg...unfortunately...more and more people joined and many of the new people don't dare to add their two cents worth, perhaps because they're not sure which way I'm actually going...so it's hard for them to follow...or they become upset with the lack of support from others...strange really, considering we have our own opinion, yet we need others to agree with it...
Hahahaha...there are no definitive answers to life's questions...all we have are perceptions...and being anonymous should allow the best opportunity to express one's own take on any issue....too bad that as the members get to know each other (in person or as penpals...)...they revert back to the 'what will they think of me' persona...

I never get this about guarded-people...being a freak...I can sit beside a complete stranger and after making small talk...move on to her sex life and favourite toys / positions...all within a few minutes...I don't see a problem with 'losing face'...and my belief is this...at that first few minutes of chatting...though people are generally less open...if I can subtly hint to them that they don't know me, we'll probably never meet each other again and also...who am I going to tell that may 'ruin' her life...so there's no reason to be shy...and I find people will tell me their most intimate problems...after this early window...we need a lot of trust to discuss these things...which will take a long time to develop...

Ahhh shit mate...sorry to bore you with my rant...just got off the plane and the mind is still a little bit fuzzy...2 things to add...I met a lovely lady in Brunei (really didn't think any of them would be in AdultFriendFinder...but I've been pleasantly proven wrong...) and we really enjoyed our meeting....and...my mail server has decided for me to not accept any email...arrrggggghhhhh...so I have to reconfigure it yet again...I see a list of bounced mail and I cannot believe my eyes...the crappy thing is I can see how many it bounced...but not who from......serves me right for using this stupid mail server...

I really need a life!!!!!

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
5/25/2006 5:40 pm

Major, you've made very pertinent points to goodtry above, especially about the realistic profiles group. If I may venture to guess, (which I may be wrong about what you're seeking), I think you would like to see more of a forum kind of thing in the way people reply/banter about issues? You know like some of those v-bulletin forums stuff. And also on a variety of topics, not only sex-based.

I can see that for a time the realistic profiles group seem to be that. Sometimes you (ie, readers) look at older issues there and comment on them, but it seems to generate so little feedback/interest, yet you can see that they do get views. So it leaves you wondering whether people have opinions or not, or very rightly like you say, maybe people are cautious and don't want others to think they are contentious/opinionated/different etc?

I can see that even some of the questions in the local magazine thingy sometimes borders on the absurd. Looks like people want to post just for the sake of accumulating points. Sometimes the foreign advice/magazine articles seem to have better questions/contents.

Back to the issue of forums, yes I think I do notice a lack of this kind of discussion. I post on a lot of other forums outside of here (from politics to makeup/fashion to pets and homebiz stuff), and yes, kind of miss the level of discussion that goes on in those forums that don't seem to be in alot of the local AdultFriendFinder ones.

Just my 2cents worth.


goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/25/2006 6:54 pm

Haha Major, I guess you were right. Personal blog and group blog are different as group blog anyone can put up a blog for discussion while personal blog only the person himself/herself can do it the rest just response.

I am in AdultFriendFinder since 1998 if not wrong cannot remember exactly, I dropped out for a while and then return late last year, I was reading you group blog at that time. I have not decide to move in yet maybe at a later stage, I need to divert some of my effort away from those no so contributing blog so that I could go and make a mess in you group blog, hehehee, hope you dun mind.

I remember a guy write in CAPS in your blog at one stage if I my memory did not fail me and you want to kick him out, hehehee....


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/26/2006 1:32 am

    Quoting rm_janeraped:
    Major, you've made very pertinent points to goodtry above, especially about the realistic profiles group. If I may venture to guess, (which I may be wrong about what you're seeking), I think you would like to see more of a forum kind of thing in the way people reply/banter about issues? You know like some of those v-bulletin forums stuff. And also on a variety of topics, not only sex-based.

    I can see that for a time the realistic profiles group seem to be that. Sometimes you (ie, readers) look at older issues there and comment on them, but it seems to generate so little feedback/interest, yet you can see that they do get views. So it leaves you wondering whether people have opinions or not, or very rightly like you say, maybe people are cautious and don't want others to think they are contentious/opinionated/different etc?

    I can see that even some of the questions in the local magazine thingy sometimes borders on the absurd. Looks like people want to post just for the sake of accumulating points. Sometimes the foreign advice/magazine articles seem to have better questions/contents.

    Back to the issue of forums, yes I think I do notice a lack of this kind of discussion. I post on a lot of other forums outside of here (from politics to makeup/fashion to pets and homebiz stuff), and yes, kind of miss the level of discussion that goes on in those forums that don't seem to be in alot of the local AdultFriendFinder ones.

    Just my 2cents worth.
Wow...the girl has brains!!!

Yes my dear...that is absolutely what I was talking about...the whole point of joining a site such as this is to openly seek / discuss sexual issues...but if everyone hides behind caution...then we might as well give this up...go down to the club / pub and try our luck there for seeking...or go to proper sexual clinics to hear the one view of one person...

Mind you, this is not sex education...it's just a discussion on stuff (sexual / feelings / gender issues...etc) and the more opinions expressed, the easier for us to understand what makes others tick...and thereby...become a learning process...

However, seems too hard a concept for most to grasp...so sweetie...you've scored serious points with your clarification...



As for some of the magazine posts...heh heh...points maybe one thing...methinks some just use it for exposure...I can hardly understand quite a lot of the posts...well...live and let live hey...

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/26/2006 1:41 am

    Quoting goodtry:
    Haha Major, I guess you were right. Personal blog and group blog are different as group blog anyone can put up a blog for discussion while personal blog only the person himself/herself can do it the rest just response.

    I am in AdultFriendFinder since 1998 if not wrong cannot remember exactly, I dropped out for a while and then return late last year, I was reading you group blog at that time. I have not decide to move in yet maybe at a later stage, I need to divert some of my effort away from those no so contributing blog so that I could go and make a mess in you group blog, hehehee, hope you dun mind.

    I remember a guy write in CAPS in your blog at one stage if I my memory did not fail me and you want to kick him out, hehehee....
Heh heh heh...mate...I didn't kick him out...just threatened to...and he recovered well with the next post...

I have been nasty to some posters when they rattle on without a point...but mostly when I was not at my most patient...I did, however, take exception on a few posts when they decide to represent the whole mass...ie all men or all women or all gay think / feel / do it like this or that...

Generally...it was fun to openly talk about stuff...and it's in here that I realise I'm not quite normal...thought everyone talked openly about sex with members of the opposite gender...perhaps I've been out of Sg for too long...but then again...even in Australia, I'm a bit of an oddity too...so maybe I'm just borned without shame...hahahaha


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/26/2006 1:45 am

Hey hey Lynna my dear...couple of things...thanks for viewing my profile...and oh shit sweetie...why didn't you tell me you live in Bandar...I was there just yesterday...*sigh*....see what happens when standard members cannot view profiles??? We miss out big time...could have been a cool cup of coffee....

No worries sweetie...next time okie??


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/28/2006 10:26 am

Wow...jane...sweetie...beautiful breast...may I drool...if I do it quietly in my own room??


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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rm_janeraped 40F
3772 posts
5/28/2006 3:45 pm

For you, Major, anytime...


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/29/2006 1:13 am



Errmmm...sweetie...I know this may be asking for too much...but is it possible to put a scale beside that gorgeous breast??... It's not about how big it is...just easier to imagine (for my drool session, you understand...) when I can visualise how much of my hands they will fill up...

(Or to make things simpler...let's arrange a time where I can come over and do a proper evaluation...makes more sense when I can do a hands-on assessment...leaves no doubt as to the volume and shape of what I shall drool for.... )




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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
5/29/2006 11:15 pm

Hahahaha...there are no definitive answers to life's questions...all we have are perceptions...and being anonymous should allow the best opportunity to express one's own take on any issue....too bad that as the members get to know each other (in person or as penpals...)...they revert back to the 'what will they think of me' persona...

Yes! I'm guilty. Initially, I started blogging as a form of past-time, never with the thought of corresponding with anyone. Therefore, I find I can write about anything and everything. However, AdultFriendFinder opens too many revenues to know people. Even though I don't proactive venture out to meet anyone..... however, a few I met, and I also correspond with a number of members here. By doing so, it has somehow affected my writings one way or other. Whenever I write something, or I wanted to comment on something.... somehow, I'll be conscious of what people might think of me.

It's easy to tell me to be myself... but being married, being a mother, I need to or rather I want to upkeep a certain image.

YES... I like the discussions you are generating here: provocative thoughts.... differing opinions.... constructive ideas. More of such interchanges should be established rather than sweet pleasantries.

Hmmm... maybe I should consider packing it in too??!!

Alternatively, I might consider creating a new profile and start all over.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
5/30/2006 2:13 pm

    Quoting happyladychat:
    Hahahaha...there are no definitive answers to life's questions...all we have are perceptions...and being anonymous should allow the best opportunity to express one's own take on any issue....too bad that as the members get to know each other (in person or as penpals...)...they revert back to the 'what will they think of me' persona...

    Yes! I'm guilty. Initially, I started blogging as a form of past-time, never with the thought of corresponding with anyone. Therefore, I find I can write about anything and everything. However, AdultFriendFinder opens too many revenues to know people. Even though I don't proactive venture out to meet anyone..... however, a few I met, and I also correspond with a number of members here. By doing so, it has somehow affected my writings one way or other. Whenever I write something, or I wanted to comment on something.... somehow, I'll be conscious of what people might think of me.

    It's easy to tell me to be myself... but being married, being a mother, I need to or rather I want to upkeep a certain image.

    YES... I like the discussions you are generating here: provocative thoughts.... differing opinions.... constructive ideas. More of such interchanges should be established rather than sweet pleasantries.

    Hmmm... maybe I should consider packing it in too??!!

    Alternatively, I might consider creating a new profile and start all over.
Heh heh sweetie...you're so cute for confessing...


But I don't really get the image thing...why bother with what others think of you?? If they like you for being you, that's great, if they don't...they'll move on...it's not like you have to hang out with those who disapprove of you with your real life friends....

No need to pack it in for you nor start again...I'm sure those of us who really like you wouldn't look at you any differently...we just like you...and the more you show the real you...the more we like it...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
.


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