Ignorance is bliss????  

MajorEasy 46M
3805 posts
4/17/2006 10:57 am
Ignorance is bliss????


Heh heh...seems I'm losing fans faster than the Taliban with my sexy stories...so it's back to dryer observations...



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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/17/2006 11:32 am

Had a loooonnnngggg chat with a woman from China...Da woman lost interest in about two seconds and went shopping instead...

I was talking about moving to Australia...blah blah blah...and she said she also cannot wait to get out of Asia...

As usual...I did some probing and she revealed her disdained for Asian culture and men...caucasians were much better she said...and from the photos she had seen...the west is both serene and pictorial...much nicer than those in Sg or China...

How could I let a chance like that go by??

I asked...how're caucasian men better than Asians??

She said...they are more humourous...she feels she can laugh with them and their jokes are classier...not crass like chinese jokes...

Really????

The mean streak kicked in....

I said...suppose you wish to invite a caucasian over to your place...pretend I am that caucasian...please explain to me how to get to your place...the only English she came up with were 'you', 'I', 'come', 'me' and 'house'...and it's 'me house'...in case anyone is wondering....
No, no...I said...tell me your address...not just house...I won't know where house is...
Reply...errrr...Tampines...7 road...number XXX (can't make out her numbers...)

Now...this girl finds caucasian men humourous and their jokes less crass...they could be saying 'wanna fuck?' and she'll be spliting her sides laughing...
*shake head*...

Moving on....

I asked...where are the photos of?? England? U.S? New Zealand?

Dunno....it's the west lah...only the west has such nice scenes...

Hahahaha...I happen to have brochures on Phuket (planning a getaway...don't ask...)...and in it is a pic conveniently of a caucasian couple sitting under the sun...

I showed her that page and asked...the west like this??

Her eyes beamed...yes yes...she said...see...the sea and sun and sand so different from the east...so much nicer....
Poor girl can't even read the bold large heading...Phuket, Thailand...

*sigh*...Before I gave up...I had to ask...then why are you spending time talking to me?? I'm not caucasian??

Oh...your girlfriend is caucasian...so you must have many caucasian friends. Maybe you can introduce them to me?

It'll be like shoving sheep into the lion's den...

It is a disease I tell you...a disease....

Anyway, made a hasty exit...promised I'll call soon...and hey...I've never been so happy carrying shopping bags for my girl...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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happyladychat 47F
3740 posts
4/17/2006 9:54 pm

Ha ha ha.... when u mentioned woman from China.... i tot u were missing me and going to write a post about me.

Anyway, after reading this post of yours, I'm glad it's not me u are referring to.

Hmmm... I'm wondering why the chat is so loooonnnngggg, guess she must be a looker, brain or no brain.

Make it your challenge.... turn me ON!!


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/18/2006 12:13 am

Heh heh..sassy sweetie...brainless is about right...
Haven't heard from you in a while...how goes?? Time for coffee??

Yes MsBetty...my dear...the reason you haven't found any is probably due to your ability to understand what they are saying...hahahaha...go to Phuket (I assume you don't understand Thai..)...tell yourself over and over every night before you sleep that Thai men are the best in the world...then sit amongst them while they speak in a language you cannot use to save your life with...laugh when they laugh...nod your head and smile and slap your knee at the comic timing these men possess...after a while...the mind is numb to the point where you'll find them totally irresistible too...what with their classy humour etc...

Oh...one other benefit...one won't take offence if they call one a 'cheap whore' of tell one to 'fuck off'...works quite well methinks...

Okie...my biggest story fan......more stories are on the way...nothing kinky this week yet...but there're a few past encounters that may be worth sharing...

HLC...tell the truth...do you find caucasian men more humourous and classy???
Nooo...well..yesss...she's not bad looking....but it was Da woman who started chatting with her...she was helping Da woman with hand cream or something...and we started talking because I had to translate...serves me right for bringing her to a neighbourhood store where the staff don't need English so much...I'm sure though that she took a shine to me because of Da woman...and of course, my considerable charm, crassy humour and good looks...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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skinnerbox 52M/45F

4/18/2006 7:29 am

I commiserate with Razzie on Asian men. Interesting to see that particular variant of White Fetishism going around by someone on the receiving end of it. We don’t hear the views of Caucasian women about Asian men so often. I would send on the Asian men I’ve had to her, they were at least nice looking, and I interviewed them several times each at least to make sure they were able to string together several coherent sentences at a go. Except I wasn’t long enough with any to have guided them into true light. Or to have tried ZPD (zone of proximal development) on them. Though I don’t think this sort of thing can be helped by medium or long term therapy either.

My own problem is compounded by the fact that I still find Asian men slightly more fanciable (sexually) than Caucasian men I’ve met so far who may indeed generally be a bit more interesting mentally as a whole. However, this is offset again by rife Yellow Fetishism of pandemic proportions. It’s a right turn off.

Yup, a holiday together is what you need. Singapore is such an anomaly. Too much looking out to the greater world only from the bottom of this toad well can make the best of us skewed.


Honeydewy 39F  
3229 posts
4/18/2006 9:11 am

Ohhh,... so,.. this is the den! Well,.. just traipsing through... don't mind me! ^_^ It's my first time visiting and this is like the mouth of the Amazon, from which the tributary 'realistic profiles and stuff' gets fed... didn't realise some entries in the group were duplicates of your personal blog entries. But that's good,.. otherwise the big pond gets stagnant right? ^_^

Dig me and comment on my blog to get noticed @ Honeydewy ! Mod of SR - THE ADULT Hang-Out =P , Phone Sex & what else? & Oldie Passionz =) Worldwide!.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/18/2006 11:01 am

Hey skinner darling ...haven't heard from you in a while...

How goes?? Must you put pics like that up? You do know things like this cause me to lose sleep??

Yeah...we do need a holiday...but as much as I love Da woman...she insists on a seaside thingy....neither of us are crazy about the sea...no matter how hard I try...I just don't understand women...

Speaking of not-understanding women...I've done everything possible short of sticking my left foot up my arse while hopping on hot coal with the other foot...a certain self-professed asian fancier never fancied me...a hunk of asian manliness with the mental prowess of some non-asians...plus she'll never have to worry about me having 'Yellow Fetishism'...I'm an equal-opportunity lover...

Anyways...have found this neat little place in Thailand...offers good climbing and cheap bungalows overlooking the ocean...sounds like a great super long weekend...

Hey there Honeydewy...welcome...

I do add some posts to both places so I get more replies...but you've got it the wrong way round...the group has been going for more than a year now whereas this blog is only a few months old...
Nevertheless...jump right in and add your thoughts...it's easier for me to ban people here if they don't suck up properly...

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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/18/2006 10:23 pm

MsBetty...you are quick on the uptake...

With me...the mind is seldom more than a few inches off the gutter level...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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rm_sashalia 30F
19 posts
4/19/2006 7:13 am

Quite the opposite, right here in West (where I'm currently studying at), the pervalence of "Yellow Fever" is rampant. Your frustrations are probably pretty much similar to that of many white women who simply cannot fathom why white guys prefer asian "chicks". While I'm not trying to address why in Asia we have a large number of girls with White Fever and in the West guys with "Yellow Fever" (hook up already!)as compared to white girls->asian guys, asian guys->white girls (maybe so, eh ) I'ld just say mass media, especially movies catered to the masses often push this idea of White guy with Asian girl (how often do we see an Asian guy-White girl screen couple), feeding both parties with more than realistic and grounded approach to the concept.

Ignorance isn't bliss, but sometimes, people built their worlds based on them to the extent that ignorance is merely fact and nothing more.

Blame popular culture! Blame the media! Always the easy victims for blame abuse


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/19/2006 10:52 am

Hey sasha...how are you sweetie??

You're in the west??? Not the kind of west our China friend dreams about I hope...

While I agree that media plays a large part to the stereotype...but before one locks in a so called 'paradise' or 'dream land' in one's mind...shouldn't one at least find out more about it...I would love to visit the Amazon Rainforest for instance...but I dare not say I love the place or it's the coolest place on earth when I have not much to base it on...neither will I profess that I enjoy the company of Venezuelan women when I cannot understand what they say or even know their culture...I may say they look hot...but that's as far as I'll go until I find out more...

Granted...this is just me...but I shake head at the naivety of subscribers to this herd mentality...

Tell me this my dear...since you're in the west...do you actually feel any difference hanging out with asians as oppose to non-asians??


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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rm_sashalia 30F
19 posts
4/19/2006 5:05 pm

[quote]Tell me this my dear...since you're in the west...do you actually feel any difference hanging out with asians as oppose to non-asians??[/quote]

Gah! If I was blind to the concept of race and all the "defining" yardsticks we are comparing people with in this particular thread, I would think that you(asian) and say, my very conservative dad(asian) were pratically different species all together. I had a Jewish roommate freshman year, and she was more asian in values and personality than some people I know back home. I even taught her to talk with -lahs!

Then again, I think college life is idealized in many ways. /shrug

I do however, feel exceeedingly short when I'm with my non asian friends. It sometimes gets to me quite a bit!


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/20/2006 12:10 am

Yes it's true my dear...

Cultural background does add to the argument...and of course life experience...even speech patterns will distract us into believing our differences (you're teaching her lahs so she can somewhat assimilate into your circle...yah?? Something like that lor..)

But if we treat people as people...really really try to find common areas of interest...it is not hard to eventually see the other person as just like us...

Look at kids...they don't care who they play with or even whether they can communicate...as long as they like the same activity...they play together...no cultural worries or prejudices....
(An advise I gave a friend many many years ago...when talking to someone from a different race...stop picking on speech styles {like, oh, I wish I can speak like him...or, stange he uses this word in such a context...}...concentrate on the message...it clears the mind to accept the person instead of finding differences...we sometimes do that with people of our same race too... )

Everywhere I went around the world...I am constantly amazed at seeing a person who looks, talks and / or behaves...exactly like another friend I have a few thousand miles away...of course they are not related...they are of a different race...but they are so similar...
Look around...see if you find the same thing...a long lost Malay friend shows up as a Swedish blue-eye blonde...and a childhood Indian mate is now a redneck footballer...etc etc..It is a fun exercise and will show you that we are not that different after all...


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
4/20/2006 9:48 am



Cheers Sweetie...

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