I'm really worried...  

MajorEasy 46M
3805 posts
11/8/2005 10:50 am
I'm really worried...


Okie folks...enough...there's been quite a few 'are you alright' emails and I guess it's time to come clean...I've been cranky and I apologise...it's just that I've been worried sick lately and have not been my usual self...

Has anyone here ever felt bored during sex?? Not the 'wish he / she would do something different' kind of bored...but the 'why am I having sex again???' kind of bored??

This happened a couple of nights ago...admittedly I was very very tired after a really tough day, but I was so looking forward to meeting her that my adrenaline carried me through...and half way through the session...with my fingers jammed in her wet tightness, my mouth sucking gently on her tongue and lips, with her hands holding my manhood firmly...with all systems on the green...it suddenly hit me...what am I doing?? As she was nearing her third O, I was duty-bound to carry on...but deep inside, I was desperately bored with the whole thing!

She was lovely and I like her plenty....and I did not at any time felt the urge to move away from her...but I simply had no interest to continue. When she was done, I simply held her in my arms and closed my eyes...she took that to be my signal to return the favour and was startled when I hugged her and told her to stop. We kissed and I really enjoyed that...but the need to continue with sex and the urge to finish simply wasn't there. Bizarrely, my body was still raring to go for a good while...
She was very nice about it and said that I was just tired and offered to finish me off on her own...but I really didn't feel like it. We talked and I think she understood....but I saw in her eyes that she couldn't accept it. It is absolutely not her...she is very desirable which makes me even more afraid....what's going on??

Anyone care to help or has a similar story to share?

P/S- after we got dressed and was ready to leave, I truly felt lust for her but just couldn't make myself want to do anything about it. She felt me through my pants and said I was just being hard on myself...hahahaha...how can one not love a woman with such a sense of humour??


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rm_W223344Y 41F
34 posts
11/9/2005 10:31 am

i'm concerned that you didn't allow her to finish you off?? won't it turn blue and drop off?? that's what you told me right?


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
11/10/2005 7:24 am

Yes sweetie...you wouldn't understand...it's a condition that is brought on only by certain people...much like an allergy...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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rm_W223344Y 41F
34 posts
11/10/2005 6:30 pm

HEY!! what am i? dust mite???


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
11/12/2005 9:40 am

Heh heh heh...darling...please don't react so...you're not just dust mite to me...you're special in that you are one of few who can cause it to turn blue and drop off...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
11/14/2005 7:39 am

Dr. Sigmund, I presume??


Heh heh heh...there's a ring of truth in what you said, but really...I do care about the women I meet...not in a deep level, but come on, anyone who likes me enough to jump into bed with me is pretty special...don't you think?? And the sex isn't meaningless...it's always enjoyable and quite often spectacular...perhaps as another mate has said in the group post...too much of a good thing...

I don't know honey...Portland, Oregon?? Hmmmm...that's do-able!!


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
11/15/2005 11:15 am

"Hahahahahaha. I like you"...cheers sweetheart...I like you too..

3 rules?? Pray tell...I'm already thinking about offering you bonuses on top of your three... (hahahaha...did you watch Groundhog Day?? Rita rattling off a list on her perfect man and Phil's eyes opened wider with each one...hahahaha...)

Speaking of which..that's pretty much how I feel right now...day after day of same-old same-old...but you know what...the weather in Singapore is not exactly conducive for picking up ice sculpting..

Any idea what's the super saver, standby to the standby, non-refundable price-reduced, sitting-beside-cargo airfare to get to Portland???

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
11/17/2005 10:23 am

Alrighty...done!! I see where you're going with your three things...firstly, I never assured you of anything...but to be fair to the other ladies..you've made your own mind up after reading what they wrote...and as Chilly stated in one of her posts to the group...women cannot think straight and write properly after orgasms...
Secondly, methinks I'm going to pass your test...and then some..

Yeah...he was talking to the groundhog as he drove and that was pretty funny...I love the look of complete defeat on his face as he jumped off the building as well...hahahaha...how about him driving on the railroad track...and then ordering food form the cops??? *shake head*...only Bill Murray can pull that one off...well, I'm sure Robbin Williams can too...but you know, it's how hard he tries to woo Rita that gets to me...classical French poetry indeed?????????
Heh heh heh...yup my sweet, mud sculpting is quite the non-event around here too...

Ahh....someone has been reading and paying attention ...it does involve aeroplanes but sorry to say, my occupation does not require me to know the price of airtickets at all...I can tell you how to get to Portland but not how much it costs!

"Ohhh. I crack me up sometimes!"

Hahahaha...you and me both sweetie...you and me both!!

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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bacca_laureati 42M

12/13/2005 9:08 am

Hey Major, just read your plight and would like to put down a quick reply before I try to get to sleep. So no details. Suffice it to say I've had to fake orgasm to get out of continuing sex. Stangely enough, it was on her third orgasm too. Wasn't the first time either, but the first time it happened and I didn't fake it she got really upset and started feeling insecure. The sex was good. Really good. Just wasn't in the mood to cum I guess.

How's a guy fake orgasm? Well I'll leave you to ponder that one. I'm revealing nothing.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
12/13/2005 11:54 am

Yeah, mate..been there done that...but this time...it's not about the orgasm...it about not wanting to continue sex...the body was willing but the mind has shut down...enough was enough it seemed...sad for me...but was recently told that it could be traumatising for the lady in question....oh dear...and I wondered why she never returned my calls...*sigh*...I fucked up there big time...


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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bacca_laureati 42M

12/14/2005 7:00 am

Yeah mate, I know it wasn't about the orgasm. Similarly, I just didn't feel like carrying on.

And yeah, my lady was traumatised, quite badly - started questioning her desirability, her womanhood, etc. Spent over an hour consoling her - the irony. Thus I learnt to learn how to fake male orgasm. She's happy, and I avoid having to give therapy whilst feeling traumatised myself.

What got me was, the first time it happened, she had trouble believing that I enjoyed the sex even though I didn't have an orgasm. Guess women think men only enjoy sex if we ejaculate.


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
12/14/2005 10:18 am

Yup...right on mate...faking an O is a risky operation...but when done with creativity...along with the proper face, heavy breathing and body spasms...it can be a winner...hahahahaha...

But she's right though...I do need to complete the act to thoroughly enjoy sex...mmmm...I do enjoy sex without the O too (as long as she has a few...)...but the rest of the day, I walk around like I've lost or forgotten something....
: P

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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bacca_laureati 42M

12/16/2005 9:18 am

Hahahaha. Nice one, mate.

I think both sexes would agree that they'd rather have the O ...


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
12/16/2005 10:20 am

True...but you know what mate...women can have as many Os as they want...and still go through the rest of the day like nothing happened...for me...I'm ruined if I have 2 Os in a day...all I want to do then is sleep...therefore it makes sense to fake it (at least the second one) if I have something planned after the session...


. . . . . . . MajorEasy's Blog...
There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/27/2006 10:17 pm

Really Major? Two in a day and you're done for? Maybe I won't buy that ticket to Singapore after all....





Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/28/2006 3:25 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    Really Major? Two in a day and you're done for? Maybe I won't buy that ticket to Singapore after all....




Yup...not worth it for a one day trip sweetie...

Seriously though...it's a tad sad I know...but it's not so much I can't do more that 2...it's I get bored with it...no point pumping away while thinking about what else I should be doing right??


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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/28/2006 10:28 am

I don't believe that a man with your repertoire and imagination would be 'bored' after two fucks. It must be something else....



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/28/2006 1:41 pm

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    I don't believe that a man with your repertoire and imagination would be 'bored' after two fucks. It must be something else....


Hahahaha sweetie...I didn't say she'll get bored...

But my mind works in mysterious ways...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/29/2006 2:01 am

    Quoting MajorEasy:


    Hahahaha sweetie...I didn't say she'll get bored...

    But my mind works in mysterious ways...
Well, better hope that the ladies don't see this one.....they'll know that they bore you and then you really won't get any nookie! Don't say I didn't warn you! you seem to be more cynical lately...anything wrong?





Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/29/2006 2:51 am

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    Well, better hope that the ladies don't see this one.....they'll know that they bore you and then you really won't get any nookie! Don't say I didn't warn you! you seem to be more cynical lately...anything wrong?


*sigh*...nothing's wrong sweetie...

Hahahaha...but it's not the ladies though...they seldom bore me...

It's a disease I tell ya...this wandering mind of mine...

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/29/2006 1:48 pm

It matches your wandering eye.....?



PS--Did you get my email (couple days ago)?



Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/29/2006 3:38 pm

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    It matches your wandering eye.....?



    PS--Did you get my email (couple days ago)?


You're so right sweetie...

Yes I did...but I don't do emails while at her place...give me a couple of days, please??

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There is no use getting, into heavy petting
it only leads to trouble, and seat wetting.....
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sweetandspicy570 59F
2832 posts
10/29/2006 9:05 pm

It was mainly a HAHA, but I wasn't sure...I usually bcc to myself-- guess I didn't this time 'cause I didn't get it back. If I'm ever in a hurry, I'll say so-- as I did once, remember?-- otherwise never a rush--- You know that, right? Glad you had a nice weekend.




Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind.----Dr. Seuss


MajorEasy 46M
2693 posts
10/29/2006 10:50 pm

    Quoting sweetandspicy570:
    It was mainly a HAHA, but I wasn't sure...I usually bcc to myself-- guess I didn't this time 'cause I didn't get it back. If I'm ever in a hurry, I'll say so-- as I did once, remember?-- otherwise never a rush--- You know that, right? Glad you had a nice weekend.



Cheers sweetie..


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