Stood Up AGAIN!  

MainelyCurious15 47M/35F
86 posts
6/2/2005 7:36 pm

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Stood Up AGAIN!


I am sick and tired of this crap. When you make plans, be there. If you are adult enough to be banging whomever you wish, then you had better act like one, damnit. Maybe this is why I have had better luck with guys in their thirties, and fourties. They are grown, and have at least an idea of responsibility. Guys 30 and above, I salute you! I have only met one guy who was under 30 who acted like an adult with all this. And that's out of the 40 or so guys I have spoken to. I am tired of it. Do they think that just because it is a hook up that I am not an actual person? I try not to take this so seriously, but, damn. It has happened so many times in the past few weeks it has reached the ridiculous. It's not me, nor is it my husband. I know this because we have found a few really awesome men whom we have had mind boggling good times with. It just makes a girl feel a little insecure, I suppose. And really hurt. This shouldn't hurt, it's supposed to be fun. Right? Has any one else been stood up alot doing this?

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
6/2/2005 8:55 pm

oh yeah its pretty standard actually....

I wouldn't say frequent but it's far from unexpected

WyvernRose


mikeinmass01960 55M
29 posts
6/3/2005 1:51 pm

Hey Mainely. I hear ya, it is a common problem for everyone on AdultFriendFinder. No shows. Well it is their loss. I am sure you are one hot lady and bet you are great in bed. I live in n. Mass and travel to Maine to play with a couple in the Waterboro area. Who knows perhaps we might even hook up. Can reaach me here on AdultFriendFinder at mikeinmass01960. thanks


MainelyCurious15 47M/35F

6/4/2005 9:17 pm

I suppose it wouldn't have been so bad, if it hadn't happened three days in a row. One guy was someone I was giving a second chance to. mikeinmass01960, yes please contact me. At least the quality of the guys that do show up are incredible. I guess it's just seperating that chaff from the wheat.


lilfun4us2005 50M/40F

6/5/2005 10:06 am

I know what you mean...there are some people who just act on impluse, and when the time comes to meet, they are not ready to act.
If any of you fine ladies would like to chat more, email me at AdultFriendFinder


MainelyCurious15 47M/35F

6/5/2005 8:09 pm

Well, hey guess what folks......i am up to five, in a row.


rm_ajalbert 45M
4 posts
6/8/2005 10:06 pm

My sympathies to you all; it's terribly impolite to stand someone up like that, and it is painful. Knowing that it happens frequently certainly doesn't help. For myself, at least, I've only been stood up once, and they at least had the courtesy to cancel before I started a six-hour trip to meet them.

And, if I do say so, that older fellows do tend to have a better grip on their manners. Mother would have tanned my bottom if I'd stood someone up! Or not called to cancel and re-schedule well in advance. That said, I can understand cold feet... but it still doesn't excuse at least an email to cancel. *end old fart grump*


bi4mainecpl 57M
2 posts
6/30/2005 10:34 am

I had my share of now shows. Thats why I won't travel too far for hot sex. not matter how hungry I am. I know what its like and frankly do not understand some people idea of a sick joke. I spend my life looking for a chance to enjoy a horny bi cpl who want their cock and clit licked. Point is I show up EVERY TIME AND ON TIME. Why other don't is anyone's guess


AwaitingOnUall 63M
4 posts
7/24/2005 7:24 am

I was going to create a new post on this subject, but found this post to vent my thought....and the most recent 'no show' as it is called happened last week, we met here and took it to yahoo chat to plan for a couple days later, again to meet on yahoo to give directions to my house. She was on yahoo that Saturday morning (I hope she reads this, are you Sweety???? only a portion of her handle)and almost immediately I could tell she was playing a stupid fucking game. She kept her evasive bullshit going not mentioning that she was suppose to get her fat ass over here, with finally asking me "what are you going to do on this fine day?" When she asked me that, I began to type her what I thought of her, and in the process she left chat....she must of anticipated my angry reponse. When I first got on the chat that morning of our supposed meeting, I was happy she followed through, but it didn't take long to figure out she was a fucking phoney.
And this has been my experience since joining this site, in one way or another, it's a no show, or don't keep up the dialogue, give a phone number and say they will be there to answer it and you get the voice mail.....my new policy is the very first sign of insincerety, I quit. Here is another example.....I responded to a couple, my preferable choice of fun, (but open to most kinds of fun) and in their ad, they don't mention 'fuck' at all whether she likes to or not, only suggestions that she does, so I specifically and nicely showed interest and aske if she liked to. He responded saying "You didn't read the ad very well did you? If you would have read it you would have known she likes to." I wrote back saying "you weren't specific in it, only using suggestions, so I merely asked to know for sure". He writes back again, saying "Our suggestion that she likes to should tell you that she does, and if our suggestion doesn't 'point blank' tell you, then we are not interested in meeting with you." WHAT THE FUCK!!! It was obvious that they were interested in ...... nothing. And this is what this site is beginning to come across as, nothing.
When my membership is up here time to look for another way to meet ineterested, interesting, sincere, horny people, they certainly aren't here, if they are I haven't found any yet.


MainelyCurious15 47M/35F

7/24/2005 9:00 pm

My husband had a similar thing happen to him just recently. He had been talking to a couple, and had planned to go to their home one night a few weeks ago. That day of, they canceled. Early next week, he was contacted again to meet on a friday night. He wrote back, and agreed. They IMed him saying that they had plans, but they also used different names. It was very odd. I never had a good feeling about them from the beginning, as the husband and wife never seemed to be in accordance. It was very frustrating. We are so open about this stuff, that those who are shady bother the hell out of me. Couples such as those give a bad name to swinging.


AwaitingOnUall 63M
4 posts
7/25/2005 5:50 am

I think there should be a forum just for us sincere people, a prerequisite would be you have to have had at least two sexual experiences to join, and of course this would be the tough part. I've been trying to get in the middle of a couple in bed and am continually yanked. Which only leaves me to wank. Anyone interested? Thanks.


rm_MicDundee05 55M

11/25/2005 5:40 am

I hate people that don' show up ..it is always young people If you would a casual friend "with extras" then contact me. I am a fun guy to go with or just sit by the fire and talk.

I interested contact me AdultFriendFinder


rm_timmypj 44M
1 post
4/2/2007 8:40 am

WOW IM READING ALL THESE STORIES AND HORROR STORIES OF PEOPLE BEING STOOD UP. I DONT UNDERSTAND PEOPLE SUMTIMES, I THINK MOST PF PEOPLE ON THE SITE ARE ON TO SEE IF THEY GET ATTENTION AND BROWSE PICS AND VIDS. GRANTED ALL THE PICS AND VIDS ARE GREAT BUT THERE IS REAL PEOPLE THAT ARE INTO THIS LIFESTYLE. WHEN IW AS LIVING IN MASS I WAS INVOLVED IN IT ALOT, HAD MAYBE 1 OR 2 BAD TIMES. BUT OVERALL REST WAS GREAT.. ITS JSUT HARD TO WEED OUT THE BAD APPLES AND THE ONES THAT ARE FOR REAL......


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