Questions?  

Magik_wand 40M
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2/17/2006 12:08 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Questions?


So answer me a question? Is it possible to care deeply about 2 people? If you got married and a few years down the road you find someone that you cared about strongly is that wrong? Put yourself in this situation. You fall into a rut in your life and you go looking for something that is missing, say you find it. Is it wrong to want to hold onto that? Even if you can't have all of it, isn't a little better then nothing? Why does life change so fast and you can't explain it? When is the right time to give up? How do you know if a fantastic piece of your life is no longer there, does it just stand up and tell you? Do you have to find out by yourself? If so do you feel like a fool because you care? What is enough?

tillerbabe 56F

2/17/2006 12:54 pm

So many questions.. (all of them very good)....

Is it possible to care deeply about 2 people? Of Course!

Put yourself in this situation. You fall into a rut in your life and you go looking for something that is missing, say you find it.My 2 cents: we should never "fill" that missing piece with a person, we should strive to fill it with what is within us.

A little bit is always better than nothing.. and can be everything! The only thing constant in life is change, these things happen so that we continue learning and don't fall into a rut. All the other answers are within you. No one should ever feel foolish for caring for another. Only you know what is enough. {=}


Magik_wand 40M

2/19/2006 3:18 pm

Thank you for your insight. Maybe I phrased it incorrectly. maybe I shouldn't have said rut, more of a need. I recieved that and more from a person. That person was important to me, and they left without any answers. The problem being that I care deeply about them and I think they feel the same. How should I handle that?


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