Sex drive?  

Mackey05 39F
508 posts
3/19/2005 10:39 pm

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Sex drive?

Has anyone else ever had a huge drop in their libido? If so, how did you get the fire burning again?

ReadyToTango46 57M
161 posts
3/20/2005 9:00 am

I've noticed I go through cycles. There are periods when I feel horny all the time and there are periods where, meh, I could take it or leave it. I think it's pretty natural. Hang in there, you'll peak again.

And yeah Tala, I need to get my ass back into daily workouts. Physical condition definitely has a lot to do with it. Being fit (or at least working to get there) also helps a lot with the self-image which ties into your sex drive too.

SOHOTFORU2 also had some very good points.

GonadMadamFilth 44M
153 posts
3/20/2005 8:42 pm

I agree with ReadyToTango46. There is nothing like a good workout that really gets me going. I've come home from the gym many a time and bopped the bishop.

I've also faound that my moods affect my libido. Last year I had a pretty big break-up with someone that I had planned to spend my life with. I was so depressed that I went weeks w/out masturbating. I had never done that in my entire life! Again, I went to the gym, started to feel better about myself and in no time, I was masturbating regularly again.

I guess the underlying theme here is that working on your self-image has a great impact on your libido. If you're feeling hot, you just can't wait to show off your goodies to some lucky recipient.

Hope this helps.

Happy diddling!

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