Dekalb and Sycamore Men  

Mackey05 39F
508 posts
3/25/2005 2:36 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Dekalb and Sycamore Men

I graduated from NIU in Dekalb,IL a few years ago and loved my experiences there. In fact, my time there is one of the happiest and most fun peroids of time in my life. I made a lot of friends, partied a lot, had some amazing sexual encounters, and got a great education.

What frustrates me is that I have had a lot of men from Dekalb and Sycamore contact me. I was excited about possibly starting a FWB relationship with someone from that area and adding to my happy memories, but no... I realize that both towns are farming communities where exposure to chemicals is high because of the corn and soy farming that is abundant. They struggle to keep their water clean and frequently you are told not to consume the water because the Radon ( a chemical that causes Cancer and other health problems if you have a lot of exposure to it. ) content is too high. I assume that the farming chemicals are to blame for polluting the water table.

How does this tie in with the Dekalb and Sycamore men and AdultFriendFinder you ask? I strongly believe that this has a hell of a lot to do with the idiots I keep running into here. I half believe that the chemical exposure is robbing their brains of oxygen rich blood therefore killing their ability to think and conduct themselves like reasonable human beings! I am laughing as I write this but feel there is some merit due to the high rate of dumb-asses that land on my doorstep.

One of them, I'll call him Mr. Rub, I chatted with for a long time. We had conversations almost every day regarding things going on in our lives as well as our sexual experiences, wants and desires. I was really excited about aranging a meeting with him and one night I tried. Being the immature idiot he is, he started playing games and dancing around setting up a meeting. He changed the subject a few times and gave me vague answers. I got pissed and logged off telling him where to go. The next time I was online I found all the apology messages he had left saying he really did want to meet. A few weeks later he Immed me saying he wanted to talk and meet. After that.. I see him on my list of people who viewed me frequently.

Mr. Blue is another guy from Dekalb. We chatted for 2 weeks, I watched him on cam, talked on the phone, and met up for drinks. Things were going great and there was a lot of chemistry until his wife stumbled upon us on her "girls night out" and wanted to kick my ass. He tried denying she was his wife to her face trying to smooth things over with me enraging her even more. For a week after that the jerk called me every day leaving apology messages... "Sorry I lied... I mean it was dumb and I'm sorry.. Do you still wanna fuck?"

Mr. Big and I got together after talking for 2 weeks on the phone and having numerous chats. After having a few drinks we went back to his place and what I found made me want to beat him to a pulp... Come to find out he is a father ( told me he wasn't ) and had left his 5 year-old son alone in the house while he was out with me. WTF!!! I should have called child protective services!!

Mr. Racer and I met after chatting for a week. When I met him at my favorite Dekalb bar for drinks he had 3 male friends with him. He told me that he figured that after I fucked him I'd fuck his friends. His justification.. "All AdultFriendFinder women are whores so what is the difference anyway?"

The final idiot I talked to Immed me at random ( that is why I took my screen name off of my profile when I put it up! ) and immediately brought up the fact that he is a single Christian father. I asked about whether or not the mother is still in the picture.. His response was, "Huh?" I asked if the mother was still around to rephrase it. He still didn't get it. He started talking about church and then how proud of being a dad he is. I asked if he was married or divorced.. How does he answer, "Are you a n*gger?" WHAT THE HELL!!!!!???? I chewed his ignorant redneck ass out and he said, "I can say n*gger because my babysitter is one." Yeah right! There is no reason to justify calling a black or African American person that dirty word!!!

Aside from those contacts I've gotten 13 lame e-mails from men in those two towns that were part of one of my other post. My conclusion.... Guys from Dekalb and Sycamore are mentally damaged, warped idiots!!! Ladies, DON'T EVER waste your time or energy on any of them because each e-mail or IM you recieve will knock your IQ down a few points and I can imagine that they are even more disappointing sexually than they are as representations of the male species.

rm_kfd3 33M

3/25/2005 5:30 pm

I never had much luck when I lived in Dekalb for a year going to NIU. But then I wasn't looking for flings and I didn't really try for anything else. Needless to say I went there for school for a year and moved back home to go to school here. Sorry that you had such bad luck but I'm afraid it wasn't as bad as mine.

IPman 60M
313 posts
3/25/2005 6:32 pm

I am speachless.

Tala4u2 54M  
2957 posts
3/25/2005 9:24 pm

More proof the gene pool is degenerating and some are obviously regressing to swinging from trees and eating bananas and starting the evolutionary journey all over again.

Tala, Wizard of The Kingdom of BooBoBia, DEITY,

rm_59jimmys 42M
3 posts
3/26/2005 7:48 am

I'm sorry that you've had those experiences, but you turned it into one really funny (in a "it's funny cause it's not me" kind of ways) story. Men can be pretty dumb, but apparently the really dumb ones drink chemical laced water out your way and we're waiting for Darwin to take over.

thanks for the entertaining story despite having to live it, for which I apologize for men everywhere.

badboyofurdreams 40M

3/26/2005 10:58 am

All very ... strange. The first guy sounds like he was involved with someone and felt guilty about meeting you but then got those urges to cheat again. The second guy, well "Do you still wanna fuck?" That's a Hail Mary. Except that Hail Marys work every once in a while. I don't really see a time where that would work.
The last two guys are just idiots. Sorry you had to waste your time with them, but you're better than that.

SmokeyJ5 50M

3/26/2005 11:22 am

I hope you have better luck in the future.

Sexonthebrain4U 50M
36 posts
3/26/2005 8:41 pm

You gotta love the male species...LOL! In our defense though, I live in a wisconsin town which is a summer tourist hotspot for for FIB's(Fucking Illinois Bastards)! Now, don't get mad, but from what i've seen your state doesn't exactly produce "mental giants", but don't worry, it's not much different here...although wisconsin is much cooler. I guess that's why all you guys come up here. Chemical poisoning aside, I'm sorry to say but I think you attract jerkoffs...just reading your blogs I tend to see a pattern, I mean come on...messing around with a married man...what did you think was gonna happen? It sure as shit wasn't gonna be "happily ever after". Please don't be angry with me...I just think you have to realize that men in general have only one thing on their mind, and the fact that you're putting yourself out there on a site like this you have to expect cums with the territory, ya know? Don't worry, just keep your wits about you and you should do fine...not all of us guys are jerks.

GonadMadamFilth 44M
153 posts
3/26/2005 9:52 pm

Hey! It works both ways, you know. There may be, I mean, there are dumb assed men out there but there are some real nutcase women too. Just read my blog. I left it there for the world to see.

I think most of us have met people from AdultFriendFinder and other sites that we regret meeting but i have also met some really great friends too. I refuse to let a few bad apples spoil my pie!

badboyofurdreams 40M

3/26/2005 10:48 pm

Sex, I don't think she knew the guy was married.

EMSqueen 40F

3/27/2005 12:09 am

I know you didn't mean this entry to be funny, but it sure made me laugh. It's amazing how frigging stupid some guys can be...and it seems you've gotten ALL the bad ones!!!

FindOut09 32M
1 post
5/16/2005 12:06 am

You just aren't meeting the right guys. Simple.

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