AFF Date Tonight  

Mackey05 39F
508 posts
3/18/2005 7:15 am

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AFF Date Tonight


Tonight I am meeting a man I met here on AdultFriendFinder for dinner. This will be my second meeting this month, but first with him. He's a really sweet guy and we've been exhanging e-mails, IMs, and have chatted on the phone for 3 weeks. He's VERY different from any of the guys I've either met of chatted with because the topic of sex has not come up once... Yes, I'm surprised too, but view it as a good thing because it appears that he truly understands that in order to be an FWB you have to become a friend first. If there is no chemistry or attraction the "benefit" won't ever happen in my eyes.

Within the past 2 weeks I've gotten 2 raving IMs from men on here. One of them I haven't spoken to in over a month and any time I am online he has ignored my attempts to say "hello". I deleted him from my buddy list and that was that. Nope, I was wrong!

Jerk WHY DIDN"T YOU GET BACK TO ME ABOUT BEING MY FWB???? GUESS YOU DON"T REALLY WANT A FWB.

Me You blew off my messages so I figured you aren't interested. You never sent me any pics.

Jerk YES I DID!

Me Sorry, but you never did.

Jerk IM HOT AND YOU WON"T BE DISAPPOINTED! E-MAIL ME WHEN YOU WANT TO MEET.

WHATEVER!!!

I had the guy I went out with over a week ago get pissed off because I took down my profile and he claims all of my blog is gone. We left each other offline messages for a few days because he was sick and I haven't been around because I had to fit 30hrs of an internship into 4 days on top of my job. I didn't hear back for 2 days and haven't been online except to check e-mails and he spazzes and sends me multiple IMs saying I am giving him the cold shoulder and so forth.

I hope tonight goes well and I have a great time and make a new friend with potential. I really hope he is not totally nervous or acts like a crazy teenage boy like the last few I've met. Maybe I'm jaded.. Maybe I'm confident and need a man who is the same way and can just kick back and relax while just being himself and not trying to put on an act to impress me... I see through that shit and want someone real who is comfortable with who they are and can accept it if there is no chemistry and not take it SO personally... There are billions of people out there and if you don't click with one there are so many more out there... Never sell yourself short or force something that isn't there

Have a great weekend everyone!

Hugs,
Mackey

BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

3/18/2005 10:13 am

Best of Luck to you Mackey, Enjoy , you derseve it.


BLONDENEEDSSEX 57F

3/18/2005 10:14 am

ooops deserve


Merry49 61F

3/18/2005 11:26 am

Mackey - Very well put! lol I always love the "you won't be disappoined line." I don't respond to them and have to keep myself from responding to those with, "Yes, you're right, I won't be disappointed at all because I won't be meeting you!"

I hope that tonight is everything you hope it will be and more.

TGIF...

Merry


IPman 60M
313 posts
3/18/2005 11:52 am

Mackey... good luck! Have


CoolbyR 40M

3/19/2005 4:22 am

Hi Mackey, You have a great time tonight.

Tho I think, if you like him, dont be too hard on him, if he is a little nervous. Meeting girls in person, is a fairly big deal in my eyes. You seem like an ultra confident girl and I have a huge admiration for you.

Any guy, if he is genuine and not totally up himself, would feel he has met his match with you. I personally would worry, if I was meeting somebody new for the first time, but you should not write him off, if his nerves come through. I 'm sure you wouldn't anyway.

Well 'brake a leg' as they say here in England. I hope you meet your perfect soul mate, one of them anyways! he he!

Colby x


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