MVGirl1 49F
98 posts
9/2/2005 10:09 pm

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Why is it that when a man approaches the woman to meet for sexual contact, the man leaves it up to her to find a suitable place for their sexual activities?

I would think that if I approached the man, then it would be up to me to find a place for our sexual rendevous.

Does anyone else feel this way? Or am I way off base on this topic?

I would like to hear from both male and female on this topic.

letsgoforit964 53M
34 posts
9/2/2005 10:53 pm

If I approach a woman to meet then I would have a few locations. This way I can be sure to have place most convienient and desiriable for her. If I am the one approaching then I should have the location picked. Some men might leave it open because they want the woman to pick where she would like to go. Personally i like to arrange the accomadations because I like to go top shelf.

2xTwiceShy 51M
470 posts
9/2/2005 11:34 pm

As for us guys, we're leery of inviting you into our nest. Be it the clutter, the laundry, or the pictures of ex's that might get you fuming. Until we feel on firm ground, we'd much rather enjoy those first outings on neutral territory.

I know I have to be hella trusting before I invite a woman into my home. Maybe it's my security feelings about protecting my kids and my dog. But it has never the less insured that no woman comes home with me for first contact. That space is reserved for the ladies that earn it.

Just my two cents worth. As for your place, I think we're looking for some insight into whether or not you have any domestic abilities. The answer is usually no. But if the sex is hot enough, we might stick around longer.

Honest enough?


MVGirl1 49F
92 posts
9/3/2005 7:24 am

letsgoforit964 ~ i like your style. i always thought that if the man approaches the woman, he would be the one to have a place or two in mind to go to for a sexual romp, not the woman, UNLESS she's the one who approached the man in the first place. i do have a fantasy location that i would love to go to, but i can't seem to find a field of wildflowers anywhere near me

2xTwiceShy ~ honesty is always best. as for my domestic abilities, i do keep a neat home, dishes are alwyas done, clothes are put away, and or in the clothes hamper, etc. i understand that you want to be protective of your family, and i respect that, and would not pressure you, or anyone else to go back to your place. as for the pics of the es) that would not bother me in the least, as most men on this site are usually looking for no strings att'd sex.

ohhhh1234 36M
1 post
9/5/2005 4:09 pm

i agree if i aproach a woman i would allready have several places in mind. i live near a lake so if all else fails theres always the beach

volcanoinu23 53M

9/14/2005 10:20 pm

It says right in my profile what accomidations I would provide. No secrets or choices to be made unless a better idea surfaces!

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