For the women that suck and the men that lick or vice versa  

MRWANTSDSTYLE 40M
59 posts
10/1/2005 7:41 am

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For the women that suck and the men that lick or vice versa

This is a little about my personal experienc in as far as giving and receiving oral sex goes.

now first off I am a man that takes pride in giving a lady oral sex, if you feel the need to say you are what you eat at this point and are going to call me a pussy...well that's your choice but you probably don't want to read the rest of this post. lol

When I am licking the wet muscle I regulary spend a minimum of 20-30 minutes doing it and have done it for over 2 hours on occasion with the right person (she tasted and smelled like cherries, I have never found out why or how lol)

Now when I stopped she immediately got down kissed the head of dick and then said fuck me......

Now I know my groin isn't a stink pit because I wash it nightly and before any sexual activity and even put cologne in the general area ( not on, the alcohol in it = pain)

So having told you thus far I'll just generalize in that saying this is a rather common result for me, and as a result of never having had a long or really good blowjob I'm just curious about this result.

Why is it that I can wrap my tongue around a womans pussy for hours but when it comes to me it is totally skipped over, I can understand some women not wanting to give oral sex for disliking it but all of these people claimed to be capable of "the best oral sex" and typical bullshit like that.

So tell me people, what's the deal? how does one get a woman to return the favor of a long leisurely bj? Is this a common thing where one person is providing 95% of the oral in a relationship and the other is just taking it?

How common is it that one person is getting it all and the other is barely giving any with your meetings?

All responses would be appreciated


MRWANTSDSTYLE 40M
44 posts
10/14/2005 11:31 am

Wow, I thought for sure that there would be at least a few people on this site bold enough to express a opinion or post a comment on this topic... Seriously now, not one person is willing to comment on this topic???

Do I need to put a picture of some tits up here to get a response? lol


rm_crscpl2005 48M/47F

10/16/2005 10:41 am

i love to give my man oral sex (after washing),,,, only i dont swallow,, i have tried but it just wont go down,,,,licking, swirlng my tongue, licking the asshole,,mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm all is good to me,,,,, as long as my jaw will allow it,,,


bonniebear2000 57F

10/21/2005 8:33 am

I have had the opposite problem.....I always wind up with the guys who like to receive oral but don't give.........I happen to love oral, giving as well as receiving....how else will a man know true appreciation....licking, sucking and tasting as the head pulsates in excitement........


Justforfungirl5 49F
68 posts
10/25/2005 8:52 pm

I think this is a common complaint for those of us who REALLY like oral. It may simply be that b/c we like it so much (and, perhaps, do it so well) that our partner feels the need for penetration immediately.

I know that's why I usually start by giving oral, b/c I know when (and, yes, IF) he goes down on me I'm going to want him inside of me immediately.

So, maybe you can just take it as a compliment, MrWants? (albeit a warped one ... lol)


rm_headnurse59 57F

11/22/2005 1:23 pm

I agree with all above. I love giving head, licking, sucking, stroking, rimming and bringing a man to the brink, over and over. Yet, I seldom am on the receiving end unless I ask, and yes, the guy is ready for penetration after oral ministrations. I also can tolerate very little oral as a receiver because it makes me want to fuck immediately. I'm looking now for someone who genuinely enjoys and is turned on by giving oral sex so I can work on restraining my need to beg for the immediate plunge in lieu of actually achieving an orgasm thru a man's talented tongue; I would like to have that experience.


choclatkiss 44F

2/19/2006 9:45 pm

I've never had that kind of problem probably because giving head gets me almost as wet as getting head.Nothing turns me on like a man moaning and inhaling deep breaths except the both f us moaning and taking deep breaths


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