Doms and subs: what makes a strong bond  

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8/9/2005 7:10 pm

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Doms and subs: what makes a strong bond

I was recently the totally dominant member of a DOM/sub relationship. And during my experience i learned a few things, like how much fun it is to administer a spanking just for the hell of it, how simple little things being done consistently can make ones life that much easier and better. ahhh making rules and gving punishments ....such fun.
Anyway it occurs to me that my submissive fell in love with me and that while I was the Dominant one it seemed to me that by being both in control but also kind to her she became that much more devoted to me.
So.. To all the DOMS and subs that read this blog I pose this question to you each.

In your own experiences, when is the bond between DOM and sub strongest, when the DOM is giving direction and being controlling as he/she should be, or when the dom is controling but also very nice to their submissive?

Do you feel more dedicated to your master when he/she punishes you, or when he/she rewards your good behavior?

Remember to get your master's permission before answering this question subs.......Unless you want to be punished for disobedience.

Please remember to indicate which you are in your answer, D/s

44 posts
9/30/2005 5:37 pm

wow, I thought this blog would get a lot of responses and opinions from people on this site, does no one have an opinion to share on this topic??

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