Why it seems all the good men are gay........  

MANwithHEARTon 40M
2 posts
1/16/2006 5:40 pm

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Why it seems all the good men are gay........


Women you really neglect the good guys,, the sweet guys, the romantic ones. You treat us like friends or drag us along while you date the assholes and we are the ones who are there for you when you need to cry. Why do you not see that the male population of nice guys is getting depleted? Why do you not realize we are an endandered species?? You may find some decent guys, but the real nice ones, are almost extinct and if you girls don't learn to love and appreciate the few that remain. You'll end up in bad relationships and the good guys will end up with other nice guys...

RESPONSE I HAD to THIS------
Are you Saying you're Gay? Just so you know...people can't control who they fall for! I know that i'm looking for the whole package. Someone who can excite me both physically, emotionally and mentally. Also, women are not turned on by men who whine and complain and we are not turned on by men who chase them.....So get a grip! Perhaps you should go and find yourself a "Nice Guy" ------------ ------------MY RESPONSE:
Doesn't this prove my point?? Women don't get it, of course a nice guy will pursue you, he is genuinely interested and what's to know you. A jerk could care less and has plenty of other women to keep him occupied.. You want someone who challenges you emotionally, mentally, and physically (did you notice physically was mentioned first?) How can you gauge physical attraction by pictures on a myspace profile or a first date? Honestly, women would prefer a guy who blows them off, because they want the challenge,,, so then they guy gives in,, takes you out,, you end up sleeping with him, he never calls, and then you end up another notch in the bedpost. It's apparent the girl who sent this e-mail has no idea what a real nice guy is, and we don't whine and complain, we TALK about our feelings, something the jerks of the world are incapable of doing. So when you women are ready for mature loving relationships, the few of us left will be here, but for you women who want the thrill of the hunt, and the challenge,, enjoy a life of empty promises and broken hearts.. Thank you...

rainqueen04 55F
1340 posts
1/16/2006 8:21 pm

I had never met anyone that was a nice guy until i met someone from this site as a friend with benefits. we just met and got it on, and then talked, alot of talking and cuddling, and after a few times we discovered there was something more between us besides sex. we had similar interests, and desires. we've been together a couple months over a year and we talk every single day. not just the how was your day? that and so much more. I don't know if he's "the one" for me, yet, but i'm taking it slow and day by day, but I know from my past that the good nice guys are the ones worth waiting for and meeting, and the jerks are the ones i'm going to pass on by. so i totally agree with you!


TropicalBill2 62M

1/21/2006 8:22 pm

Good for you. I takes alot of balls to put that in print. I have been called to much of a gentleman.....so I guess that's a bad thing??? Good post MANwithHEARTon. Good luck to you rainqueen04. Life it soooo short! Never lose your positive outlook. Be You!


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