LustyTaurus 48M  
12038 posts
6/6/2006 12:21 am

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I don't know about you guys, but I've always found it much easier to point out the good in others than it is to see, understand and appreciate the good that is in me.

We've been doing a lot of hiring at work lately...and I have the joy of doing most of I've been doing the usual routine of posting job openings, collecting resumes, interviewing potential candidates and calling references.

Lately I've been posing the following question...

What are you best at??

It has been astounding watching these poor souls try to figure out what I want to hear...when the truth will do...LOL.

For me, over time I've discovered I have the ability to make people feel better...feel matter their station in life or their present circumstance. Sometimes its with humor, sometimes encouragement, sometimes its sharing a piece of myself and sometimes its telling them the truth when no one else will.

Please take a moment today to answer that for yourself...
WHAT AM I BEST AT...and take a step to live it. (And if you feel like sharing it with me too, even better. I'd love to hear it and its GOOD MEDICINE!!!

Have a blessed day my friends!!


rm_DaphneR 58F
7938 posts
6/6/2006 12:28 am

I'm good at doing a job when it's made my responsibility. I've done things I didn't even know I was capable of doing, because it fell under the realm of my job. A former administrator once told me that he gave me two jobs to do because he knew I'd "make them mine" and succeed where the people before me had failed, even though I had no experience in doing them.

Have tongue, will use it. Repeatedly.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:15 pm:
You should be very proud of that Daphne...

waerlookin4fun 50M/46F

6/6/2006 12:31 am

what am I good at? I'm good at bandaging up a bloody knee (my little man), I'm good at talking with a friend when he/she needs me........geez this is hard, I guess a lot of us don't think very good about ourselves now do we?

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:15 pm:
Those two wonderful things to be good at waer...

freetime648 52F

6/6/2006 12:44 am

I am good at being there at the right it for listening to a friend, to see an accident, to get caught in some sort of timing is perfect!!!!

xx FREETIME648 xx

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:16 pm:
lolol...timing is seems like some days I couldn't have worse timing...

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/6/2006 12:47 am

I'm good at being the one who offers advice, gives a shoulder to cry on, patches up broken hearts....then standing there watching them walk off......know what I mean?

NG61....disappearing into the shadows....

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:17 pm:
I do know what you mean...their loss buddy!!...

frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
6/6/2006 1:35 am

I am good at giving massages and being a shoulder to cry on for other people. Apparently, I am not good at trying to to visit the blogs for any substantial period of time...


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:18 pm:
I would love to see how good your massages are...and no worries, I have a hard time getting to see everyone too Frang. Folks here are remarkably patient and forgiving about that part it seems...

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
6/6/2006 1:37 am

i think i am best at writing and having a broad vision of things, but my employers seem to think i am best at taking care of the details of their visions (which i find boring)... (not that any of my employers have ever really given me the opportunity to do broad vision things, or to write much for that matter).

[blog freelove999]

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:19 pm:
No argument here Free..I think from what I've read from you, you are a gifted writer...

catseyes23 61F

6/6/2006 2:16 am

"It has been astounding watching these poor souls try to figure out what I want to hear..."

Well that is certainly food for thought. I'm just going to be humble and bow my head in shame...I'd most probably be one of those poor souls trying to figure it out myself! Lovely post, Lusty.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:22 pm:
...I think you're wonderful Cats...

TabithaElectra79 37F

6/6/2006 4:39 am

Staying in bed all day! I'm good at that!

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:24 pm:
...that's funny...I'm sure that ability comes in handy sometimes...

rm_AnOddGirl 57F
3469 posts
6/6/2006 5:59 am

I'm good at dealing with crisis. It was no fun finding this out though!


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:25 pm:
I believe you Odd...that's a skill you hope never to have to use...

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
6/6/2006 6:45 am

Gee whiz LT, I may have a couple of things. I'm REAL good at pissing poeple off, and I'm a professional cage rattler. Good at handling snakes and other crawling things. Pretty damned wicked with a rapier too. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:28 pm:
Tell me something I don't know now!!!...

RevJoseyWales 69M/66F
14393 posts
6/6/2006 6:46 am

Ain't interviewing and hiring fun? I uesed to do it a lot. From your side too. Joe

"McVeigh had the right idea, wrong address."

"This ain't Dodge City, and you ain't Bill Hickok."

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:28 pm:
It's tiring but entertaining...I kinda like firing people too...when they deserve it!!

digdug41 49M

6/6/2006 6:52 am

I haven't the foggiest idea

roaming the cyber streets of blogland

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:29 pm:
Let me help you Dig...I think you are tough as nails with a heart of gold...and that's not an easy combination to find...

alphuctup 40M

6/6/2006 7:14 am

Seeing the bigger picture; the angles, the consequences, the different points of view...I tend to look before I leap.

Pretty good with names and faces, places I've been, images...I wouldn't say I have a photographic memory, but maybe a rough sketch kinda memory!

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:31 pm:
I can say I am a bit more impulsive and intuitive than you for sure in that regard...and i wish I had 1/5 the memory that you claim...good stuff!

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
6/6/2006 8:01 am

If you need an IV I'm the person to come to.

absolutelynormal 56F
6563 posts
6/6/2006 8:04 am

If you need an IV I'm the person to come to. or if you need someone who is so literal that they CAN'T see the bigger picture then I'm who you're looking for.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:32 pm:
lolol...there are times when reading beteen the lines is the last thing a person needs...and that IV thing is huge when you need it proud!

a123rat 49M
1112 posts
6/6/2006 8:33 am

I'm good at lots of things, I'm not great at anything.
Like my Dad and his Dad before him, I a "Jack of all trades."
There isn't much I won't tackle.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:33 pm:
Sounds like you are fearless...that's a pretty rare quality my friend!

Whispersoftly5 52F
15176 posts
6/6/2006 9:05 am

I'm best at caring for others. I used to live in with and tend to the elderly. I've an older brother who is developmentally disabled. I assist him and advocate on his behalf. I've another older brother who is suffering AIDS and I help him - he is living with me now. When my parents were ill last year I tended to them. At work I'm a manager and I tend to my customers and try to look out for the training and other needs of my staff. I am a good caretaker. I love helping people.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:34 pm:
That's a wonderful quality to be able to derive joy from helping others...

rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
6/6/2006 10:11 am

I always have a shoulder, for someone to cry on. A good listener, well I guess that would go with the shoulder thingy. I can always make friends laugh, when having a BAD day!.......Oh yea Im good at laying on my back and givin blow jobs....

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:36 pm:
We all need a friend like you Dark...and I mean that in more ways than one...

southrnpeach333 50F

6/6/2006 10:23 am

i am a great puzzle solver literally and figuratively.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:37 pm:
Problem solver eh...that's awesome!..I'm not bad in that area but certainly not gifted...

rm_macallan4u 46M
968 posts
6/6/2006 11:36 am

Sports and being a friend.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:38 pm:
both are things to be proud of mac...

themisskrissy 56F
2302 posts
6/6/2006 12:48 pm

    Quoting TakethemoneyRUN:
    Driving the others crazy and also at eating spiders.
my minds eye at first thought you said "and making them eat spiders"..
krissy needs more coffee..

i am best at being themisskrissy...

in the "real" world i am very good at breaking things done to their bottom line and finding simpler and more efficient solutions.. i simplify!

Virtue Alone Ennobles

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:39 pm:
LOL...that spider thing was funny! People tend to make things very complicated be proud of that ability of yours...its needed...

MamChelle 48F  
1443 posts
6/6/2006 1:16 pm

nice post. What am i good at? i am a Nanny, and i'd like to think i am good at loving these boys with all my heart. i'd like to think i am a good cook and housekeeper and that someday they may remember that i was here for them.

What am i good @? Pampering T/those i care about. *warm smiles*

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:41 pm:
Somebody like you in a young boys life can be all the diffference between a degree in college or a prison term Chelle...

rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
6/6/2006 2:07 pm

I am GOOD at listening to problems and rationalizing for the bigger picture. I am GOOD at helping friends feel better about themselves. I am GOOD at anything I HAVE to do... But you asked what I am BEST at, and those things are my job and shooting

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:42 pm:
LOLOL...lets hope you never go postal then huh cru??......those are all things to be proud of cru, and I think fatherhood will suit you too.

rm_pagan380 64M
4405 posts
6/6/2006 2:24 pm

I'm a problem solver. I like figuring out how to do things, whether I do them or not is another question.

Come play naked in the sunshine and dance naked under the stars.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:42 pm:
We can't be the best at everything now can we pagan...

HBowt2 58F

6/6/2006 4:36 pm

I'm good at getting things done...seeing all the pieces and using the best people for the job....I can see the big picture and plan got a job for me then....

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:43 pm:
that's not an easy thing to do HB...and come over here to Canada and we'll see what we can do...

real36CgirlPA 37F

6/6/2006 4:56 pm

I am good at shooting the shit with strangers. Also, I am pretty good at guessing things when there isn't a concrete answer to be found.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:44 pm:
aaahhh...friendly and intuitive...that's awesome...

purpletrashcan 50F
41658 posts
6/6/2006 5:53 pm

I have a positive upbeat attitude and have been told I am a little ray of sunshine! Ha ha ha ha I like to bring people up and have a good time. Having a "cloudy" day? I will chase all those clouds away!

Pull My Fucking Hair!

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:45 pm:
That's a really great gift in todays proud of it...

sassy1296 51F

6/6/2006 6:43 pm

I am best at all being there no matter for my friends. Even on days when my world is falling apart if someone calls and needs a shoulder, I will always lend mine out.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:47 pm:
I believe you, and what a wonderful qulaity...

imLadyBambi 58M/50F

6/6/2006 6:50 pm


I've been told that I have a great personality, I'm a very honest and intelligent person.

But my biggest attribute is that I take care of
Mr.Bambi in every since of the word.

All the way from cooking,cleaning and the most important

Lady Bambi

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:47 pm:
LOLOL...those are all important and wonderful things to be proud of ladybambi!

rm_Ellenback 58F
966 posts
6/6/2006 6:52 pm

This city-girl is good at talking country with strangers, either over the phone, or in person, in fact, I'm at my best when I'm looking at your chest, and convincing you to do something for me...LOL

Hey, I pay ya, it's not like I ask you to do it for free, and yes, if I was to take it on the road, damn, all of Canada would be working for me...!!!

Actually, I'm really good at fixing things for people, whether it's my business or not, and even if it means I get my ass on the boss' desk for the trouble! I have a fairly large and loyal base of people whom I have hired for jobs, and then ensured that they got paid, even if it looked like they wouldn't...


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:49 pm:
Not many folks have the Cahonas or the skill to stick their kneck out for someone and come out on top in the end...good for you!

meerkittykat 42F

6/6/2006 7:18 pm

I'm good at listening to people..and being able to read between the lines of what they're saying to deduce what they are REALLY trying to say. Plus...coupled with that is an ability to make people feel at ease around me...probly cos they know I'm paying attention.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:50 pm:
I could tell that about you from your blog and your comments proud of it!

CastsAetasPoets 51F

6/6/2006 7:33 pm

being helpful and compassionate to others, surviving, thinkin outside the box.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:50 pm:
compassion in particular is rare these days...thanks for sharing...

norprin5 55M

6/6/2006 7:43 pm

what am i best at? jeez, i dunno...there are so many things...

i'm best at eating pussy (willing to prove it)
i'm best at falling in love with unattainable women
i'm best at whining (ask her maj)
i'm best at being a half-ass (ask anyone in Blogland)

King Nor XVIII

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:51 pm:
...and you are funny as hell bud...ty...

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
6/6/2006 7:48 pm

Shit, I need a job!!!

I think I am best at thinking outside of the box and always wanting to try something new and finding ways to do it!

Purry {=}


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 9:52 pm:
I'm usually happiest inside the box, but that's me...

And being creative and energetic like you sem to be is awesoem PK...

marnison 79F

6/6/2006 9:38 pm

when i finally make it pose a question...

hm surviving.
that's what makes me smile....simply surviving it all.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:02 pm:
sounds like you're a bit overwhelmed marni...

survival is not a skill everyone has either, so be proud...

007sexy40plus 51F  
7603 posts
6/6/2006 9:44 pm

Pissing people off. Very good at that. And on the phone I can talk 90 miles a minutes.

I am the real deal! "Come Get Me!!!"

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:03 pm:
...from what I've seen you are good at defending yourself, your friends and your beliefs...I'd be proud of that...

twirly_girl 47F

6/6/2006 9:53 pm

This is hard!
I'm better at coming up with things I'm NOT good at.

Oh! I'm good at making peanut butter rice crispy treats.
And pissing my boss off.
OH!! And spending money I don't have.
Well, I guess that wasn't so hard after all...


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:05 pm:
I love those rice krispie treats!!!...

and pissing off your boss...well...he probably deserves it...LOL

saddletrampsk 54F

6/6/2006 10:00 pm

Giving head..

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:06 pm:
you can't teach that saddle...

Looking4sex44240 54F

6/6/2006 10:04 pm

I'm a good listener...good with a computer...etc.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:06 pm:
both are wonderful assets today

tillerbabe 55F

6/7/2006 12:23 am

So this is "copy and paste" thing ..sorry 'bout that - but I'm exhausted.
I'm just drifting in to give you my most humble gratitude for your words. Thank you from the bottom, top, sides and the very center of my heart.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:07 pm:
you are in my thoughts and prayers and Brian...

bbw4u06 50F

6/7/2006 3:08 am

I have a high shit taking tolerance I think sometimes. I have a good memory for some peoples preference. Sometimes..not all the time, it gets a bit crazy sometimes and the filing cabinet drawer in my brain gets stuck. LOL

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:08 pm:
Patience is a virtue and paying attention to what people like is a great thing too...

clitalicious67 49F

6/7/2006 4:42 am

I guess I would have to say that it is making people laugh...even if it is at me...taking uncomfortable situations and finding humor in them to put people at ease...I am a goof I guess....

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:10 pm:
we need people who can "put out fires" and you should be proud...

curious082385 31F
4925 posts
6/7/2006 4:44 am

Getting people to open up and listening to what they have to say.
Then attempting to help...but I don't know how good I am at that part though.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:10 pm:
Just getting people to talk sometimes is all it takes curious and its often not an easy thing to do...

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
6/7/2006 6:54 am

deligating ) i bring lazyness to new hights

I'm a

i'm here to stay

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:11 pm:
...delegating is not's wise use of time and available resources...

frbnkslady 48F
6183 posts
6/7/2006 8:28 am

I am good at making others laugh or pissing them off. I am good at listening, caring, sharing, procrastinating, T


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:12 pm:

You made me laugh..

lightswitch1963 68M/53F

6/7/2006 8:21 pm

I am in fast food, and I am good at making them smile. My favorite thing to do is when they pay for a small order with a large bill, I say,"Oh, I get to keep the change, how sweet." They always smile.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:13 pm:
now that is an important ability in the fast food game for sure...

JuicyBBW1001 54F

6/7/2006 9:56 pm

I am good at being a mom and dad to my 6 year old daughter, I am one of the highest rated ccc's at AOHell because I make sure my members who call me have a good understanding of their computers and why AOhell might be having problems, I am good at makin people laugh and think too, and lastly I am just good at being me.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/7/2006 10:14 pm:
you are working in a tough world...good for you for being good at it...

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
6/8/2006 2:01 am

    Quoting rm_FreeLove999:
    i think i am best at writing and having a broad vision of things, but my employers seem to think i am best at taking care of the details of their visions (which i find boring)... (not that any of my employers have ever really given me the opportunity to do broad vision things, or to write much for that matter).
o, funny, i don't really consider most of what i put up here to be proper writing ... when i get down to proper writing, i don't throw words out at high speed like i do here, i craft and chisel and knit and weave etc etc ... what you see here is just my mind debris ...

[blog freelove999]

LustyTaurus replies on 6/8/2006 9:54 pm:
lol..that mind debris is the genesis of all good writing tho and it is very self evident...

mycin62 54F

6/8/2006 5:43 am

What I'm best at? Do you want the x-rated answer or the work answer?

Here's the work related one. I'm a fast learner and I keep my calm under pressure.

You'll have to ask for the other

LustyTaurus replies on 6/8/2006 9:55 pm:
I'm quite interested to know the x-rated stuff...

keithcancook 60M
17718 posts
6/8/2006 7:47 pm

I can be very creative when I set my mind to it.

LustyTaurus replies on 6/8/2006 9:55 pm:
I've seen some of that in your blog Keith...

rm_rob21970 46M
13 posts
6/13/2006 7:05 pm

I am best at seeing beyond what they say they need and getting to the heart of the matter. Life is after all what we make it and it all boils down to one single thing choice !!!!!!!

LustyTaurus replies on 6/13/2006 9:37 pm:
It's tough to know and understand though Rob...thanks for the visit!

rm_rob21970 46M
13 posts
6/14/2006 5:10 am

I am good with my hands and makeing stuff work and keeping it working. I am a jack of all trades and master of none. I see good in all and we need to focus our talents on what is best for us to make us look good and reward them for there efforts.


LustyTaurus replies on 6/14/2006 10:14 pm:
Those are all things to be proud of Rob...

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