I HAVE NEEDS TOO YOU KNOW...  

LustyTaurus 48M  
12038 posts
3/30/2006 6:10 pm

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I HAVE NEEDS TOO YOU KNOW...

Are any of you in relationships where you just feel like you may as well be bangin your head against a wall?

I've tried everything I can think of too conjole, explain, care for, understand and be loving and interested in my lover's life. And it just is not being returned in kind.

Our sex life is boring and predictable...but we're doing it 3.27 times per week which is "normal" so we must be OK.

I did a 15 minute radio spot a few days ago for my job...first time in my life I've done that. I told my family, mother and father-in-law etc. My employer shut down the whole company (20 plus people) and dragged them to one room so they could listen.

My lover, my partner, my friend and mother of my children didn't care to listen...and hasn't asked about it since.

But when I come home..."Hi Honey, I love you..."

Sometimes the little things can be really big and I'm sorry, but talk is cheap.


LUSTYTAURUS

Back to our wonderful game next post...


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
3/30/2006 6:30 pm

Im sorry, but my feelings would be terribly hurt if I were you and I dont blame you a bit for being angry. Thats bad.


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 8:48 pm:
I do fell hurt...but FUCK it...I only have two emotions left, I gave up all the usless ones years ago. What's left is HAPPY and MAAAADDDD!!!

rm_cru1972 44M
4407 posts
3/30/2006 6:35 pm

No I'm not in one anymore, For I was always having to go to the hospital to get stitches in my head.fom bangin the wall It hurts too because she may be the mother of my son. Well 3.27 times a week is better than 3.27 times a year, Right? Congrats on radio spot. Good luck


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 8:48 pm:
Hey cru...thanks man...sorry about your head. I hope things work out if yer gonna be a Daddy.

PassionKisses4Me 44F

3/30/2006 6:40 pm

Hugs sweetie...my ex was like that in our marriage too...I was always giving and he was always taking...It was all about him sadly to say...I never mattered at all and once I left, he replaced me quickly...all to quickly because I found out the other day that he was actually dating his new girlfriend 6 months before I left him

Congrats on your radio spot....special kisses to you

Becky

~Becky~


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 8:50 pm:
Thanks a lot Becky...I mostly just pissed off...I'm kinda used to not expecting much...just thought this one thing would be different

norprin5 55M

3/30/2006 7:20 pm

needs, schmeeds! what you need, young man, is to attend the Sask Bloggers Convention!

Congrats on your radio spot....special kisses to you

King Nor XVIII


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 8:54 pm:
Thanks Buddy!!...remember...two emotions...HAPPY or MAAAADDD...guess which one i am?...LOL

I'll agree on the bloggers convention!

lightswitch1963 69M/53F

3/30/2006 7:27 pm

The best anyone could say is talk to her. Congrats on the radio spot. You get a big hug from me. Good luck.


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 8:57 pm:
Thanks huge for that lights...I appreciate it!

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

3/30/2006 7:29 pm

Now as long as the wall is hurting.. Anyways, yeah man, whatever you think your prize should be! Let me know, here, I got a thing going on for a day, for Free, so no comments on my blog..fitting to me. Anyways, yes your going to have to dream of something..Saint is taking forever in treating me like a slave..she is just to damn submissive!

Cowboy


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 9:10 pm:
Ok then...you have a choice. Post a blog that's up for one Earth day ( as opposed to a Pluto day which is much longer) that says ten reasons why I'm your favorite blogger...OR...leave ten comments in ten other people's blogs(one comment for each) with the same theme...I think that's fair...LMAO!!

Sorry man...I have a Narcissistic streak in me...

saddletrampsk 54F

3/30/2006 8:09 pm

Lusty
I bet you kicked ass on your radio spot....but hey, I feel your pain in the get-no-respect department..and 3.27 times a week?? Huh, you only put it in .27 on the fourth time or what?


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 9:01 pm:
As far as the radio thing...I'll do better next time. As far as the sex thing...I pull out from time to tiem without finishing just to let ehr know who's boss... ...yeah right...LOL

ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
3/30/2006 8:19 pm

Lusty...I think everyone has just about covered what I would have said...it's the little things that count and actions speak louder than words...Sorry! Congrats on the radio spot

Hugs...OhSo{=}


LustyTaurus replies on 3/30/2006 9:05 pm:
ohso..you are very kind to me...thanks a million.

mangomamiCT 42F

3/30/2006 8:24 pm

Congrats on the radio spot !!!!!!!!
I am sorry your partner isn't supportive and attentive right now . Maybe you need to pull back a little . Take care of the kids , take care of you .


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:04 pm:
thanks mango...pull back a little huh...

catseyes23 61F

3/30/2006 9:42 pm

I feel for you, Lusty. I would be awfully hurt and intimidated. You have a right to be mad.

Cats...


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:04 pm:
at the end of the day that's what it is...hurt.

caressmewell 53F

3/30/2006 9:57 pm

I sympathize with you Lusty, I have a similar situation at my house.


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:05 pm:
caressmewell...I'm sorry to hear that.

southrnpeach333 50F

3/31/2006 8:05 am

It is a lonely feeling. I sympathize with you.

And how cool is it to be on the radio. Remember those days when you spent hours trying to get through on the line so you could talk to the DJ's.


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:06 pm:
southrnpeach333 ...it was cool to be on the radio, and will probably be thee again soon as it was effective...who cares who did or didn't listen right?...LOL...I guess I do

rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
3/31/2006 9:16 am

Well I know what it feels like, to bang your head against the wall....Hell sometimes it makes me feel better ...Congrads on the radio spot!


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:07 pm:
DarknStar...getting mad has it's perks...LMAO

lexingtoncock 52M/50F

3/31/2006 4:58 pm

I am sorry that she isn't there for you, and you keep banging your head ,talk to her not at her you might be suprised that she'll listen. but there is no excuse for not being supportive of your spouse(radio spot) I say a very warm congratulations and good luck. remember decide what is important and don't lose yourself. I almost lost my husband because of the same type of things but I figured out what was more important.


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:08 pm:
lexingtoncock ....that's all good advice, but days like this I doesn't feel like I'd be losing much...except half my assets.

HBowt2 59F

4/1/2006 11:58 am

Same thing here Lusty....so sympathize with you...Congrats on the radio spot.....Keep your spirits up....


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:12 pm:
HBowt2...it's all good...just a little po'd...thanks

Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

4/1/2006 2:46 pm

One Earth day? I'll just leave the post on their. I do a post on my blog about 10 reasons.. I hope I don't let you down on your prize!


LustyTaurus replies on 4/1/2006 10:13 pm:
Excellent...its all good......this should be interesting!

meerkittykat 42F

4/1/2006 8:57 pm

I did radio for a while...what a blast. My friends loved it, and too bad your lover doesn't feel your excitement.

"Sex life" and "normal" in the same sentence never bodes well. That sucks.


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 2:12 pm:
LOL...no kidding...I don't do "normal" very well

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/50F
9753 posts
4/2/2006 5:04 pm

Sometimes those we love the most take us for granted, but that doesnt mean she doesnt care. She is just comfortable and before your anger gets out of control, TALK TO HER AND TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL! If she is saying she loves you, I am sure she wants to hear what you are feeling.

Hang in there baby

Purry {=}

Purry


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 7:45 pm:
I know she cares Purry...thanks again for your thoughts, they're good ones...

HOTNBOTHERED0414 46F

4/2/2006 9:27 pm

I came home the other day to tell my husband that I was presented with an award at work, and without missing a beat, he went on and on about his job, his life! So that is why I have a LOVER!


LustyTaurus replies on 4/2/2006 10:18 pm:
good for you HNB...I think I need to get me one of those too...lol

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
4/4/2006 4:27 pm

at least you are *feeling*...
when it gets to the point that numbness sets in, you know
that banging head against the wall has gone to a new level.

i can understand your feeling hurt...
been there. was there for years. not there anymore.
less painful now although lonely at times...

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...
{=}


LustyTaurus replies on 4/5/2006 9:19 pm:
goddess...again I agree with you. Thanks for your thoughts.

ediesedgewick 57F

4/4/2006 4:44 pm

I don't know--the numbness part was kind of a relief after all the pain and anger.

This post made me sad. I hope she listens to it--for you.
But if she doesn't...how cool is it anyway that the boss pulled everyone in and made them listen?! You should feel great.


LustyTaurus replies on 4/5/2006 9:21 pm:
edie...yeah, I have to admit, I was pretty humbled when I learned what the boss did...lol

StillSmokin2oo6 44M/43F

4/5/2006 6:06 am

Lusty,,,
Talk is cheap,sometimes people's actions speak louder than their words!!!


LustyTaurus replies on 4/5/2006 9:21 pm:
stillsmokin...damn straight...lol

RubesTachsMoxie 48F

12/27/2006 10:37 am

Yes, love means naturally taking an interest in that other person and what they're doing.


LustyTaurus replies on 12/27/2006 8:07 pm:
yes, that's my point...I understand sometimes life gets in the way...but it should be the exception, not the rule.

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