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People can be funny
People can be funny
I have been coming to AdultFriendFinder for quite a few years now and have just been looking, observing, learning and on occasion, I have contacted some folks. Now being as I am a married guy without a swinging partner, that seems to make me taboo. One of those "evil males". So needless to say, I have yet to make any connections at all. Even just to chat and maybe make a few friends along the way, it hasn't happened. I know I am a bit overweight, I am a normal looking guy and I have a noraml sized male member. So I like many other males here have been in a sense- black-listed. Or at least it seems that way.
Last week I was looking at some of the local group postings and there was one guy that had bluntly stated that he was wanting to see if any ladies were wanting to get together to just have sex for the sake of having sex. he wanted to fuck. That poor bastard got hamemred by a lady for being just another crude single male with only one thing on his mind and that is just all that us guys have on our minds and so on.....
I thought thats what the purpose of this site was. For horny folks to hook up for sex without all the games that are played in "polite society". Just lay it on the line and say whats on your mind, right? If ya wanna fuck just say so. So we got an education that the lifestyle is so much more than just having sex, it is about making deep long lasting friendships yada yada yada.....
Then a few days later another guy put the same type of post up and he got criticized for his bluntness, except he had a picture of his backside on his message. After the Evil Male comments, one lady made a comment that bad as he may be, he did have a cute ass........then other gals chimed in agreement and he was looked at as a piece of meat instead of the loving caring human being that some claim they are looking for to find here. So doesn't that paint the girls in the same light as the guys? It just struck me as funny. Maybe I am the only one that sees it this way.
Now I know a lot of guys put a picture of their cock on their profile advertising the goods. and I am willing to wager that the very well endowed guys actually get a pretty fair amount of action in comparison to the average guy here.
I don't have any pics on for several reason, discretion and need to remain anonomous being at the forefront. I am sure there are a lot of lurkers here just looking to see if they can spot someone they know, just for their own twisted amusement or because they like to stir up shit and gossip. Its how they get their jollies. I figure I will make their goal difficult to acheive by keeping my identity as cloaked as possible.
It will be interesting to see if anyone out there even reads this or beyond that, comments.
I am guessing I will get negative responses if anything, just because that is the easiest thing to do and it gives the person commenting a feeling of superiority. I will see what happens
Till next time.........later.
6/14/2006 4:45 pm
read your post and completely agree with your assessment. We thought this was supposed to be a sex site also, but when you go in the main chat rooms nobody is talking about sex!
Now, maybe because we are a married couple we have different goals here than the singles. We just want to find a man that wants to get together for hot sex, hopefully more than once!
And yes, I am a crude biatch and proud of it! Throw us the meat!
6/19/2006 9:33 am
I am with you hornycouple, bring on the sex........... thats what we are all here for anyway!!!|
12/22/2006 11:34 am
I know I am late in answering this...I still have to agree with you...men married or single get the short end of the stick most of the time.|
In the past I was in a married but not to each other relationship... I was more than welcome to join others but he wasnt, he was a "cheater"
They harp on respect but dont show others respect.. No we wasnt married to each other but we were still a "couple"
In my eyes(and I am probably wrong) their we will play with you but not him was no different than a male saying to them I think you wife is hot and want to play with her.
I read the posts you mentioned and maybe they could have have worded it differently to spare the delicate feelings of some of the people on this site afterall this is a sex site and to be here looking for a fuck is just rude.
I hope your luck changes keep writing and trying to get to know people