LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
3114 posts
9/22/2005 5:38 am

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Well she is cooling down a little after our chat yesterday

She is furious though that I won’t allow her to spend the night for a second night in a row though like I did last week. Our landlord won’t allow people to stay over frequently since there are already 4 of us who live in this small two bedroom place. Once and awhile is fine but other than that it can only be one night a week for sure. She does not seem to understand this at all and even less because we are spending Friday night together anyway because she wants me to go back to her place and meet her aunt and grandmother (which I agreed to).

I have a feeling that this is going to be one of those things that there is always one thing after another

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LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/22/2005 7:37 pm

Lol, thank you Karma...

From what I have been told she is very nice when meeting new people but is a royal pain behind closed doors. A lot of people are like that though so I shall make sure I am most certainly on my best manners.

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/22/2005 7:31 pm

You have the right idea, konkali, if you want to know someone, find out what their favorite books, music and films are, and share yours with him/her/them. It's a good way to find commonality without clinginess.

Good luck with Auntie, fair sir knight may she be a Fairy Godmother and not a Dragon

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/22/2005 6:15 pm

Actually Kon, that sounds like a wonderful idea...

Thank you m'lady...

konkali 40F

9/22/2005 4:50 pm

all takes time. I've done this one to my ex (who is now my best friend), and it took a long time to get over it.. On the flip side, once you gain her trust, you've got it.
I seem to percieve life as "you have a chance to earn my trust", so I hope it doesn't bug you that you feel like you don't have it yet.
Mostly though, it's the childish pleasure of wanting to be around the people you like as much as possible, that's all. Perhaps suggest a good book for her to read, or something to keep her busy and still be able to feel like she's with you, then she won't be trying to get your attention all the time.

I tend to curb it in myself by reading books that he has read, or catching up on movies, perhaps it sounds a little obsessive, but at the same time, I am learning a lot, and he seems to enjoy the growing common ground and diffrent perspective it allows us.

LoyaltyandHonor 35M/31F
1241 posts
9/22/2005 12:51 pm

She also has a roommate, her aunt.

I am going over to meet her aunt tomorrow evening and after that it may become that I will start spending a few nights (off and on) at her place. Her aunt does not seem to be very trusting and therefore I imagine her attitude will change once she meets me and begins getting to know me a little.

PrincessKarma 43F
6188 posts
9/22/2005 11:19 am

I suggest you put your foot down NOW. She is being unreasonable about staying over. Why doesn't she ask you to stay over with her?

*mutters something about control freaks and slips out*

The Big Bang was the mother of all orgasms.PrincessKarma

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